I stumbled across this website (Return of Kings) last night and found this interesting article and take on the current situations men deal with. Most the problems in America today are rooted in the fact that stupid people weren’t told no and to fuck off. If chivalry is dead, women need to take their part of the blame for killing it and stop insisting on servitude. Stop misconstruing being respectful to mean being a doormat.
The true Ron Swansons of the world are rare these days. The first step is for boys need to be allowed to be boys, forcing them to be girls (behave, not rough-house etc…) and seek the approval of the women in their lives is nonsense. Men today need to sack-up and channel their inner Swanson.
American Children Are The Prisoners Of Women
By runsonmagic
April 24th, 2014
Male children are the prisoners of women. Over fifty percent of men are born into single mother households without a father or male authority figure present. Women who choose to keep their children’s father around, do so only on a provisional basis, with the legal right to separate him from his children at any time she chooses. For all intents and purposes, the children are hers, and she merely allows their father to see them.
Even if the father is present, the nurses, therapists, school teachers, and caregivers around the child are virtually all women. The formative years of the life of the average American male are dominated and ruled by women. These years are marked by routine and institutional abuse that pathologizes masculinity and trains men to seek women’s approval more than their own joy.
Infancy
If a child is born male, he is immediately rushed from his mother’s arms to surgery where part of his genitals are cut off in procedure euphemistically known as circumcision. Circumcision is almost always performed without anesthesia, or only an ineffective topical anesthesia, causing the baby to scream in pain as the most sensitive nerve endings on his body are cut off and discarded into the trash (NSFW video).
No medical organization in the world recommends this procedure. America is the only first world country to perform infant circumcision for non-religious reasons. The most common reason given is aesthetic preference—specifically the preference women, who frequently lack comparative sexual experience with the natural male body. Circumcision is the first and greatest change forced on men for women’s approval. The implication of circumcision is that the natural male body is disgusting and diseased, that men are born wrong and in need for fixing, and that the penis and male sexual pleasure is not important.
This procedures teaches the child his feelings do not matter, and that his body is the property of others. While feminists prattle on about “rape culture” and “my body, my rights,” the boy will know on some level that his consent did not matter, and he did not have the right to his own body. This act of sexual violence will be spoken of only in jokes, as will all acts of violence against men.
Childhood
After infancy, the boy is sent to school where over seventy percent of his teachers will be women. Hereafter, it won’t matter if he has a father present, because eight hours a day will be spent attempting to please to women, in an institution run by women for women. School is a feminine environment, where feminine traits like obedience and cooperation are valued over masculine risk taking and challenging.
School teaches boys that their self worth comes from the approval of women through supplication. Boys are told to sit still and obey female authority figures, rather than their own masculine instincts. Just as they were physically disconnected from part of their masculinity in infancy, they will be emotionally disconnected in the school system.
No previous civilization in recorded history would have ever considered imprisoning it’s youngest and most energetic members indoors for eight hours a day, and considered submission to such a system pathological. In our society, natural male behavior and childhood energy is what is pathologized. Boys who refuse to sit still or exhibit the natural male instinct to play, explore, or rough house are frequently drugged or expelled. Over 20% of boys will be given prescription drug meditation.
Imagine if most teachers were male and they were encouraging parents to drug 20% of little girls
— John Durant (@johndurant) March 27, 2014
The message is clear. Supplicate to women, or there is something wrong with you, and we’ll reprogram your mind with drugs till you obey. Just as in infancy the male body was pathologized, in male childhood, the male mind is pathologized.
Adolescence
Having spent his in entire life being forced to supplicate to women for their approval, the average American male repeats this strategy in his romantic efforts. And why not? The entire culture around him reinforces it. Men are portrayed in popular media as incompetent and clueless with women, and those who are competent are labeled assholes, players, and users of women.
The only sources most young men have about women are the mainstream media, the internet, their equally clueless peers, and women around them. Women’s concern when teaching men about sexuality isn’t men’s success, but women’s comfort. Neither men nor women seek comfort in romantic relationships, we seek excitement. Women’s advice on approaching women fails catastrophically for most men.
Men enter the world of sexuality with little or no guidance on the questions that actually concern them. When they ask questions about how to get girls, they are shunned as predatory and accused of objectifying women. By this point, the idea that men’s pleasure does not matter, and men should seek women’s approval is so thoroughly ingrained that men have trouble even talking about their sexual questions.
Unable to sleep with women, young men turn to pornography. The average American male will see more pornography at thirteen than existed in the world fifty years ago. Watching pornography actually changes the brain, reorienting men’s arousal from his own personal experience, to a thirst for passively received novelty. Many men who have quit porn have found their social skills and focus dramatically improved. For this reason, social awkwardness is increasing among men, in scientifically observable ways.
While the man watching porn is told he is objectifying and degrading women, but the woman doing porn is told she is empowered. This is because a man watching porn is not seeking a woman’s approval, whereas the woman doing porn is looking for approval. In either case, the concern is always women’s approval, not for the man who lacks the skills to find sexual pleasure with actual women.
Backlash
Every stage of this process occurs only with the conscious consent and action of women. A man could easily reach the age of twenty without knowing a single adult male mentor, including his own father. The system of nurses, teachers, and therapists perpetuating the abuse of the American male are female dominated professions.
After over a decade of abuse, what attitudes do you think most men will have toward women?
There are two ways human being respond to unhealed trauma—they repress the experience, or act it out on others. Facing abuse is incredibly difficult, and facing unacknowledged institutional abuse is even more difficult. Most men prefer to say “I’m fine,” take the blue pill, and shove their feelings down. They label anyone who calls attention to their abuse a misogynist, and continue the pattern of seeking women’s approval formed in childhood.
The other path is bitterness and acting out the abuse through genuine chauvinism. Women frequently accuse men with negative attitudes about women of having “mommy issues,” but the problem actually goes much deeper. Men have issues in every female dominated setting from school to birthing industry. Even the therapists men might seek to discuss these issues with are mostly women. If men hate women, it isn’t because of lack of experience, since women dominate men’s early life. Whatever men become, it what their female caregivers have made them.
There is a third path—healing. Healing requires fully feeling and acknowledging the abuse and allowing yourself to let go of the patterns associated with it while still holding the perpetrators responsible accountable. In this case, ending the institutional abuses of men require men to stop caring about what women think about them, value their own pleasure and sexual experience more than women’s approval, and find ways to play, explore, and grow free from women’s constraints.
All of this can be avoided by not abusing men in the first place. Natural male instincts are entirely healthy, and do not require correction through surgery, drugs, or forced cultural conditioning. Men are not born wanting to supplicate to or hate women. The qualities women dislike in men can be traced back to the treatment men routinely receive at the hands of women when they are young. When women value the masculine, and reflect that value in how they treat men during their earliest years, they will get the men they desire. Until then men must liberate themselves by putting their own joy, freedom, and purpose first.
Original HERE.
Harry ,when the economy finally crashes and dollar is worthless all this feminine feminist bullshit will vanish just like tolerance for black ghetto culture.Its going to a rude awakening for women.
Circumcision,Its not done anymore. You have to go to a specialist and it’s around 2500.00.
I wanted it done for my son and the doctors looked at me like i was nuts. Years back it was almost an automatic thing with baby’s.I ended up not having it done.
@yahsure: I’m guessing you’re on the west coast or outside the US. In the midwest and east you have to actively protect your newborn boy, otherwise he will be just about automatically mutilated. Stupid fucking superstitious @#$# habits die hard.
Strong stuff. It’s nice to see these issues finally being talked about, at all.
Well, I never thought ROK would be on TBP.
It’s the WHITE male that is portrayed as the fat-assed buffoon, the incompetent oaf that can do nothing right, the asshole that cuts down a tree limb that falls on this neighbor’s car(a Negro of course). He is the one that burns the steak, breaks into houses(ADT) and is a general fuck-up that must be rescued by females or a Negro. Reality is180degrees from this portrayal, but Madison Avenue and the MSM conspire to destroy our boys and young men. Couple that with the fact that a good percentage of our young men have very little contact with real MEN during their formative stages, we see the result: pussified boys that exist in virtual reality, that have no real life experiences, that are unwilling to take risk. And our “Community Organizer” president is threatening Putin(KGB) with sanctions? Gimmie a fuckin’ break!
bb hit the nail on the head. BC-LR to all
bb, gotta agree with U. I’ve said that to many idiot feminists. When the cops & safeguards disappear with the collapse, they’ll all be clamoring for a man to save them. They’ll want a Clint Eastwood-type instead of the metrosexual wimps they favored before.
All the liberal retards who want to disarm the public, they’ll be pro-gun too.
When I was a teenager (don’t ask me how many years ago that ways!) and figured out that boys were different than girls —- I didn’t know exactly what girls had but I knew with certainty that I want some of it.
Even at the tender age of 15 I had discovered a quote that said, “Men pursue and women choose,”
After some thought on the subject I came to realize that it was an undoubted truth and acted accordingly from that time often.
Never wanted to watch porn – boring as hell and just how many ways are there to have sexual intercourse? Never was a saying more true than the one that says, “It matters not what you have, it matters greatly how you use it!”…
Never had any problems with feminists either although a few pretended to be a jerk about it (no pun intended).
Solution?
Simple, be pleasant and just ask. Never force. Just ask.
Try it, you’ll like it..
MA
Muck ,how many years ago was this.
ragman says:
It’s the WHITE male that is portrayed as the fat-assed buffoon, the incompetent oaf that can do nothing right, the asshole that cuts down a tree limb that falls on this neighbor’s car(a Negro of course).
That is all PC bullshit, someone’s feelings might get hurt.
And yet comedians make a good living saying the very things the madmen won’t say. You think about it, they are not saying anything profound, most of it is navel-gazing bullshit.
What, do they think I just came across the border? Of course I’ve heard of black people, no need to educate me on how bad you are and how innocent white folk are.
Of course I have heard of your over-sexed sex drive. How you make stealing and adultery and murder sound like fun and super-sophisticated.
Of course I have heard you run down Mexicans like you are so much better because you were born here and are entitled to welfare while they have to take a job you refuse to do because it is beneath you to serve anyone. If the audience had any sense they’d ask for their money back.
I have more fun reading people’s comments here.
A very good article to read. I am a married women with 6 children all from the same father and conceived in marriage. Two of the children are boys and neither of them were circumcised. I had to literally protect them from the doctors and nurses that pushed the idea of circumcision. This was in Truckee CA only 6 years ago. No, the west coast is no different than from the east in this subject. Ragman’s statement was correct. We witness the warped dysfunction with a sick child in San Francisco where the men are women and the women are men. When the American’s world collapses it will be both the warped and confused genders that will pay a heavy price. The article was a correct evaluation on males in this country. As a family we are doing our best to teach our children the true difference of their genders. God speed and thank you.
I got distracted by Raggy’s comment. My granpa had a disagreement about the verse that says unless a person is like a child, I’m sure you know the verse; it was distorted to mean a man ought to behave like a manchild. He said, it is nature that impels them to marry and have children. This is the problem today, society, American society seeks to cockblock the natural impulse.
RainWaterRunningDog, Your husband is a lucky man.
“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”
― Sun Tzu, The Art of War
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Feminist Biology
Achieving utopia requires fundamental transformation. Nowhere is this more true than in education. As one of the Founding Fathers of oligarchical collectivism wisely noted,
“He alone, who owns the youth, gains the future.”
That’s why Chicago Public Schools are planning a curriculum that teaches literally every subject through the prism of liberal racial grievance ideology.
But controlling the future by controlling education extends beyond brainwashing children trapped in government schools. Universities also have important duties to The State in this regard. We recently saw how math can be exploited to advance the official ideology. Lysenkoism can also be applied to the physical sciences, as with feminist biology:
The University of Wisconsin-Madison is looking for a particular kind of biologist: a feminist one. The university has set up a fellowship, administered by its women’s studies department, for life sciences research. While it may sound strange for a social sciences department to host a biologist, the researchers in charge of the new fellowship are hoping to make it more of a norm.
That it will be. Nothing anywhere will go uncommandeered by liberal ideologues.
Scholars have long talked about how gender bias [i.e., failure to take into account leftwing gender ideology] affects biology research. … Just this month, Popular Science reported on the problems behind neuroscience studies purporting to find “hardwired” differences between men’s and women’s brains.
Acknowledgment of these hardwired differences is a thought crime. Larry Summers was purged from Harvard merely for mentioning scientists who believe the male brain is inherently better suited to pursuits like math and physics.
A sympathetic Popular Science interviewed Janet Hyde, who directs UW-Madison’s Center for Research on Gender and Women and is an administrator of the fellowship. Where we once had Albert Einstein and Thomas Edison, we now have the likes of Ms. Hyde. What she lacks in comprehension of physical reality she more than makes up in political correctness. Here she defines the field in question:
“Feminist biology is a couple things. One is that it’s a critique of past gender bias in biology. So it’s pointing at the problems that have existed with the theories or the methods in traditional biology. And then the second part is that it’s creating new research, new topics, new methods, new theories that remove the gender bias and take women into account fairly.”
That is, it is biology through the lens of liberal ideology. This is already the norm in the liberal arts.
“I think what’s happened is feminist analysis has been integrated in some fields really well. You know, in the English department, it’s a whole subfield. In the history department, it’s a whole subfield. It’s partly integrated into psychology. We started in psychology, which is my field, back in the 1970s. And it just hasn’t progressed as much in biology. But what we’re aiming to do is create a whole new generation of people who will pursue these approaches.”
Did you think hard sciences pertain to objective reality and are therefore immune from politically correct B.S.? Guess again:
“I think part of the reason is that many scientists believe that science is very objective and factual. It’s a wonderful aspiration, but it’s actually not true. You know, any scientist has his or her own point of view and there are things like confirmation bias. We want to confirm our own theories and so on.”
That’s the job of feminist biologists: to confirm their own theories. Among the most cherished of these is the belief that there is no difference between men and women. That these differences are obvious won’t stop moonbats from denying them.
“There are lots of phenomena in biology and psychology that seem really obvious and that’s why we do research, to see if those obvious things actually are true. An example I actually give is that it’s obvious that the sun rotates around the Earth because every morning you see it rise in the east and every evening you see it setting in the west. So some things that seem intuitively obvious actually aren’t right when you have better science to test the idea.”
As we have seen from the global warming hoax, sufficient government funding can provide scientific support for any theory, no matter how preposterous, and no matter how obviously our direct experience contradicts it.
Treasure all the great scientific advances this country has produced in the past, because there aren’t going to be many more of them unless the ideological gangrene that is spreading through every branch of our civilization is arrested and destroyed.
I’m Austrian and they don’t snip-the-dick there, so I avoided that painful experience. The pain came later in life. Something for parents to think about.
When I was about 13 and the first time I had to take a shower after gym class. Every other male, without exception, was circumcised. When they saw my ding-a-ling it was a source of great amusement. The humiliation and embarrassment was horrendous to the point where I begged my dad to write a note excusing me from gym class. I think at one point I considered getting the garden shears and cutting up the little fucker myself. It took me many many years to recover from the mocking. Really. And this is the first time I’ve ever told that story in public.
But, things do change. I have two boys, now in their 20’s, and neither of them were circumcised. They experienced some stares and comments, but not nearly as bad as when I was a kid.
El: fuck you and your generalizations. I train pilots from all over the world, including Mexicans. They are some of the finest folks that I have ever met and excellent pilots too! Go back under your fuckin’ rock, asshole. Prove what I said was wrong.
Raggy, I was agreeing with you. I was talking about black and brown comedians and I was addressing them, not you. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
Also, I do not live under a rock.
My name is not El, It is Coyote. If I wrote The Coyote, would you call me “The’?
Stucky says:
“Every other male, without exception, was circumcised. When they saw my ding-a-ling…”
Please refer to Admins Opus on dick names and never again use the word ding-a-ling unless you are Little Richard (little dick).
hey, El
Chuck Berry sang about My Ding-a-ling. If it’s good enough for him, it’s good enough for me.
no te preocupes por mi dingaling
I think I now know too much about the men of TBP.
Stuck – a bit of foreskin is better than nothing. You got lucky!
Every American-born baby boy was snipped in the 50’s. I don’t remember if this act of genital mutilation hurt, but I’m sure it did. I demand reparations.
I love you Stucky.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tl5S7FkInbI&feature=player_detailpage
This is a video I made about 30 years ago. My tiny dick finally healed last year but I’m still madder than hell that my dad, Chief Four Skin, let the white man cut my tree down to a stump!
TMI.