A Record Number Of 40-Year-Olds Have Never Been Married

Authored by Jane Nguyen via The Epoch Times (emphasis ours),

According to a new analysis of Census Bureau data by the Pew Research Center, a record number of 40-year-old Americans who have never been married reached a record high in 2021.

A quarter of 40-year-olds in the United States have never been married, Pew Research reported on June 28. Most lived alone, with just 22 percent of never-married 40- to 44- year-olds living with a romantic partner.

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The findings revealed a downward trend of delaying marriage or foregoing it altogether among people born during or after the 1960s, according to the report. In 1980 only 6 percent of 40-year-olds had never been married. That increased by five percentage points per decade until 2021.

The trend is “notable because the share of 40-year-olds who had completed at least a bachelor’s degree was much higher in 2021 than in 1980, 39 percent versus 18 percent, said Richard Fry, a Pew senior researcher.

“More-highly educated 40-year-olds are more likely to have married, but the growth of this group has not reversed the overall trend of delaying or forgoing marriage,” Fry added.

The Pew report found that 40-year-old men were more likely not to have been married than women in 2021, with 28 percent of men and 22 percent of women falling into this category.

The Pew analysis noted that many unmarried 40-year-olds in previous decades ultimately married later in life. About 1 in 4 of the 40-year-olds who were not yet married in 2001 had wed by the time they turned 60.

If the pattern continues, the research center predicts that “a similar share” of never-married 40-year-olds would also get married in the coming years.

The research center conducted the analysis to look at how marriage rates have changed among 40-year-olds in the United States from 1850 to 2021. The report comes as birth rates and marriage rates in the United States have declined for decades.

Meanwhile, a 2022 report from the University of Virginia’s National Marriage Project found the median age of first marriage has increased over the last 50 years, “from 23 in 1970 to about 30 in 2021 for men, and from 21 in 1970 to 28 in 2021 for women.”

But a later marriage may not necessarily mean a better one: 81 percent of husbands who married earlier said they were satisfied in their marriages, compared to 71 percent of those who married later, the report found. There were similar results among women, though with a smaller difference–73 percent of earlier-married women were satisfied, compared to 70 percent of later-married women, the report said.

The Rise of Single People

The decreasing marriage rate has led to a spike in the number of people living alone. As of 2021, 37 million Americans live alone, according to census data.

There are various reasons marriage is losing ground in America. Some of them are societal; there is very little public stigma around being single. Other factors include the sexual revolution, the feminist movement, and declining rates of religious observance.

However, this phenomenon is not confined to the United States, as marriage and birth rates have fallen in much of the world, including Europe and Japan.

While not all adults living alone are lonely, many are, and these individuals are more likely to lack significant social connections, which can be deadly.

According to a recent report from the U.S. surgeon general titled “Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation,” loneliness is more than just a bad feeling, it harms individual and societal health. It’s associated with a greater risk of cardiovascular disease, dementia, stroke, depression, infection, anxiety, and premature death.

According to the report, the effect on mortality of being socially disconnected is similar to that of smoking up to 15 cigarettes per day and is even greater than those of obesity and physical inactivity.

Large population studies have documented that among initially healthy people tracked over time, those who are more socially connected live longer, and those who experience social deficits, including isolation, loneliness, and poor-quality relationships, are more likely to die earlier, regardless of the cause of death, according to the report.

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28 Comments
Paleocon
Paleocon
July 4, 2023 6:31 am

Another reason is that a spouse can have an affair and take half your stuff. No fault divorce has consequences.

The Central Scrutinizer
The Central Scrutinizer
  Paleocon
July 4, 2023 7:16 am

“Spouse” my ass!

“WOMAN” is the word you’re looking for!

To the best of my knowledge, no MAN has ever received such a deal. Nor would he want it.

well_Inever
well_Inever
  Paleocon
July 4, 2023 2:58 pm

She’ll get the kids too along with unrealistic CS payments. She’ll eventually turn the kids against you so that they all end up f@#**ed up. In the end it’s all your fault.

Crawfisher
Crawfisher
July 4, 2023 6:55 am

Just an opinion, when marriage is primarily a ‘state’ sanctioned legal agreement vs a religious commitment; the phrase ’till death do us apart’ has less meaning.

My wife reminded me most of the weddings we attended recently were non religious. Nothing wrong with that, just a trend she noticed.

The Central Scrutinizer
The Central Scrutinizer
  Crawfisher
July 4, 2023 7:19 am

I dislike marriage ceremonies…

Walter
Walter
July 4, 2023 9:07 am

Men are a little slow on the uptake, thus our willingness to do risky things. We’ve caught on to what marriage really means, at least in the modern, fully feminized sense. Sooo… why buy milk when the price is so high and there’s so much being tossed out on the street?

Anonymous
Anonymous
  Walter
July 4, 2023 10:48 am

Feminism was never Not Rotten

https://antifeministpraxis.wordpress.com/

Mary Christine
Mary Christine
  Anonymous
July 4, 2023 2:11 pm

Meh. That article only tells half the story and doesn’t point out who the real perpetrators were.

Gary
Gary
  Mary Christine
July 4, 2023 2:36 pm

The Tiny Hat people? 😉

Anonymous
Anonymous
  Gary
July 4, 2023 2:58 pm

Nope, bluebloods.

Call me Jack
Call me Jack
  Walter
July 4, 2023 12:56 pm

Risk is exciting. I recommend surfing,sky diving,and rock climbing over marriage. Those hobbies provide the excitement without a 50% casualty rate.

Trumpeter
Trumpeter
July 4, 2023 11:08 am

That’s because record number of boomers told young sons and friends NOT to get married. It is a one way deal that legally accrue benefits to women more than men. (35 yo women don’t complain of divorce rape.) The choice of available women is certainly discouraging for young men.

Now for the ugly truth. Sluts make poor wifes. The marriage fails at disproportionate rates. Disproportionate to whom? Virgins and girls with less than three sex partners. Why get married if you can only expect to get divorced?

If you are a major game player you are not part of “this” conversation. But if you are lonely and can’t pick up chicks – being in a miserable marriage or getting divorced is worse. Go to the Philippines and find a nice girl. Marry her and have a least a chance at “the Norman Rockwell” experience.

Anon y mous
Anon y mous
  Trumpeter
July 4, 2023 12:57 pm

“Sluts make poor wives” Well said. I don’t think I’ve ever heard this truth stated so succinctly.

Anonymous
Anonymous
  Trumpeter
July 5, 2023 1:58 am

Don’t racemix. The only difference with asian women is they have better poker faces.
Fuck Norman Rockwell.

A cruel accountant
A cruel accountant
July 4, 2023 12:39 pm

A 20 year man I know was dating a girl and broke with up him.

She calls him several months later stating she is pregnant. She was dating another guy at the time. My friend says no it’s not mine I used a condom every time.

She has the baby 11 months after they broke up. Yet she still calls him says it’s his and demands money.

Psycho Bitch!

Call me Jack
Call me Jack
  A cruel accountant
July 4, 2023 1:03 pm

One of the great nephews is quite successful. His last girlfriend kept assurring him that she was on the pill,and was offended that he was using a condom. He left used condoms in the bathroom waste basket. Not actually “used” but unrolled and left with a dollop of hand soap. They kept disappearing.

Mary Christine
Mary Christine
  A cruel accountant
July 4, 2023 1:47 pm

DNA test.

Call me Jack
Call me Jack
July 4, 2023 12:52 pm

i have been married for 50 years to a relatively sane woman. Today’s young men generally lack the option of relatively sane. Woke,”educated”, can’t cook, high body count females are the norm. As has been noted,”The juice isn’t worth the squeeze”. Save yourself from a No Fault divorce men,and carry on.

thetruth only
thetruth only
July 4, 2023 1:14 pm

I will admit, and not proud of it, that I have remained unmarried for life. My only excuse was a dysfunctional family upbringing where I never learned the value of family. I’m in a 22 year live together relationship now, but it’s more like having company to grow old with at this point. I never tried all that hard, had plenty of chances at long term commitment but it never worked out per one or the other persons decision. Yep, sad, but the upside is I sit on a pile of money with no worries if that is any consolation. I will give gay men some credit because if you are going to live a singles lifestyle, you might as well have meaningless sex with 500 different people while you’re at it and be good with it although that would not have worked for me and I don’t mean just because I’m not gay.

TCS
TCS
  thetruth only
July 4, 2023 6:52 pm

kinda sounds like you’re gay and just don’t know it yet.

Anonymous
Anonymous
  thetruth only
July 5, 2023 2:06 am

“I’m in a 22 year live together relationship”
that’s called marriage

Anonymous
Anonymous
July 4, 2023 1:18 pm

Possible male options today.

Option A: $400 call girl. Shows up, does the job, goes away.

Option B: $400 date night out on you, she is not willing, continues to try for another freebie night. Eventually get married, get divorce raped, end up at option A anyway.

Option C: Be a (20/80) Chad. Use them for nothing.

Some guys did the math? Chad did long ago.

Anonymous
Anonymous
  Anonymous
July 5, 2023 2:15 am

$400!

Mary Christine
Mary Christine
July 4, 2023 1:51 pm

Other factors include the sexual revolution, the feminist movement

Guess who was behind both of those movements. Feminism was a big lie. I don’t blame men for not wanting to get married. But the end game is exactly what the people behind the sexual revolution and feminism want. Declining birthrates.

TCS
TCS
July 4, 2023 6:32 pm

Darwin would see this as proof of evolution. We’re getting fucking SMARTER!

Nurse Ratched
Nurse Ratched
July 4, 2023 10:51 pm

This topic depresses me. As a mother of two boys and two girls, I wonder where they will ever find suitable spouses. Guaranteed my daughters’ standards are already too high for the sad sacks crying in mom’s basement about how mean girls are while beating off to porn. They have a decent father who will not tolerate that. I’ve told my oldest already, if you want to have it all, have a good marriage and kids first, and then build your career once your kids are more self sufficient. I did it backwards, and got too old to have more kids. I’m hoping all of mine have at least 5 or 6. Kids. Not marriages. But how to find spouses? I’m wondering if arranged marriages might make a comeback…

Anonymous
Anonymous
  Nurse Ratched
July 5, 2023 1:37 am

Yes, your daughter’s standards are too high.

That is the problem in a nutshell.

Women cannot be satisfied.

Anonymous
Anonymous
  Nurse Ratched
July 5, 2023 2:19 am

Careers are a lie.