Seems like very sound advice. I really can’t disagree with anything.
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lyrics from an old song spring to mind– “what a wonderful world it would be…”
Of course it’s all sound advice to strengthen and sanctify a Christian marriage…
That’s why (((they))) don’t want wives to do it….
Almost like there’s an agenda or something???
I am a jewess, and I do most of those things for my husband because I honor and love him. We have been married 34 years. It is not just Christians who can profit from wisdom, all people can, it is a simple choice.
I would only add making a proper samitche.
OK, all you bonus holes and butter faces! LISTEN UP!!!
/sarcasm
If a couple of our regular women commenters had done those things, they wouldn’t be obnoxious, single, lonely, bitter cat lady’s.
Non,
much as I like your comment, as a rule I don’t respond to anons unless it is really stellar. If you want to participate, man up (I presume, based on your comment) and pick a name! It is really simple, click the box that says ‘Name’ and type something ( I don’t think ‘something’ is taken…) in! Upper case, lower case, don’t matter. The site will remember your name after you pick one, it will prompt you with the last used name when you click the ‘name’ box!
Peace, L.
Control freak huh. You must be a woman too.
“Things an incurious fucktard might say” for a dollar, Alex.
You ever stop to think those gals might have bent the knee willingly only to be fucked in the ass for their efforts down the road? THAT MIGHT make a person a little prickly and cautious. Defensive, even to the point of offense, conceivably.
I try NOT to make arrogant assumptions. Other matters, however, have been long settled. I take it as it comes.
All you do is whine and cry. A woman must have programmed you, Fedbot.
When you see as much as I do, you pretty much have to consider all the possibilities. Others, such as yourself, have the luxury of blindness I was not afforded.
You haven’t seen shit, crybaby.
Cats are home when a lady gets home from work, ready to give comfort for a little food and scritches. They take care of the varmints who invade the house. Men tend to be pretending to work somewhere at all hours. If I have a choice between supporting an absent man or supportive cats, the cats win, hands down. This ain’t the 50s–men don’t want to have to go home any more. Men are jealous of cats, anyway–cats are way better company.
Let’s see your cat unclog a toilet, or change a circuit breaker, or fix your car, mow your lawn, or put up with your never ending shit. They can’t. They wouldn’t if they could. They’d simply walk away…just like a man! The ONLY reason they tolerate you is 1.) Free food and 2.) they don’t understand you at all.
Let’s see a man do those things. Without never-ending shit. I now know how to do all of those things myself–‘if you want something done right, do it yourself’ is so true. You’ve obv never had a cat. Cats would never put up with your incessant abuse.
What man does those things today? The cucks that pass for MEN can’t even change a light bulb. The 1950’s are over.
That’s why you’re single. You drove off all the men with your unreasonable demands and constant whining. They had no choice but to leave and hook up with younger, fertile women.
Enjoy your cats.
I do enjoy my cats. What a relief to be ‘ignored’ by men now that I am no longer ‘fertile’. Hook-ups–that sounds about your speed, Anon. LOL
Dearest, you are already extinct, a dead person purring — why advertise it ?
You need to get out more.
In my 57 years on this planet, I’ve gotten out plenty.
You have so much time on your hands that you take cheap shots at ‘cat ladies’–think about that.
Hope you find this helpful, because I took time out of my day to give you constructive advice.
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I really don’t understand what you hope to achieve. Let us assume your predicate as true: all women suck.
What is your alternative for the continuation of the species? Gang rape ?
You certainly showed your true self immediately. Not surprised.
The day may arrive wimmens be a wishin they lived in the shadow and safety of some toxic masculinity to save them from the hordes.
Best show in the history of television.
TV is TV.
There will be water if God Wills it.
A lot of luxury products like feminism will be rotting on the shelves when the hard times rule again.
No, the women’s will submit to the hordes of rapists. That’s just what they do. They offer up their glory holes in order to survive. They become part of the new tribe. It’s already happening now as we watch white wimmins latch onto blacks, muslims, and hispanics because they see that white men are being ground into the dust. As the Federal government continues to shower minorities with largess from the treasury white wimmins will breed with whomever they think will provide their children with an advantage. It used to be that light skinned blacks that could pass as whites did so in order to take advantage of the privileges associated with such an association. Now, you have white women hooking up with black celebrities, athletes, politicians, or any black that is successful in order to take advantage of that success.
They can kill me and use my dead body.
Obvious really. Pervert, Subvert, Invert is the Way of the jew. Look for the pattern
Even simpler… balls empty bellies full.
And (her) mouth closed.
Got married in 1980 and am still on my original wife. I value her input on everything as she sees sides I don’t. I’m a hammer and she’s a warm blanket which oddly are complimentary.
Wow where’s the paragraph about opening a bottle of Chardonnay and talking to her friends about how he’s doesn’t understand or appreciate her .
While I wouldn’t go so far as to endorse the entire list, the bottom line is that it is a PARTNERSHIP and each plays their mutually-beneficial role. Somewhere (the 60s/70s), we ALLOWED the government/Deep State/globalists to use a bunch of women to convince everyone that the way things were was WRONG (much like Suffrage and Prohibition). They horrifically devalued the role of the stay-at-home wife/mom and then set about destroying the family, all to benefit the tax coffers of the horrible, criminal government with double the workers. Men in many ways brought this on themselves through adultery, divorce that left women unable to support themselves or their children, etc., lack of property rights, etc. There is NO one-size-fits-all relationship advice, other than mutual respect and commitment to the vows you VOLUNTARILY took. And I’m going on 39 years of marriage with the only woman I truly loved, so stop with the second-guessing.
“While I wouldn’t go so far as to endorse the entire list”
me neither, it promotes makeup and says nothing about greeting her man at the door with blowjob
First thing in the morning. a wake up BJ, is the best surprise.
Night, or another time. First thing in the morning, coffee and some eggs…
Read with the right kind of inflection-that is, not from a bitter hag or a slattern’s perspective-this is a small piece of instruction on… wait for it, wait for it, hold… hold… hold… how to RUN a husband!
Every kind of employment outside the home is-was-done to permit the MOST IMPORTANT employment in life to take place AT HOME.
From ditch digger to chief executive officer every man worth a damn wants a home for his wife to nurture and care for the only thing he ever did that counted for anything, their children. If he can make that happen he’s a winner and he knows it. If he can’t he knows that too.
Which is also why the destruction of the business-owning man and the elevation of the employee man was also a HUGE negative. The wife in the home taking care of its business while the husband (and children when old enough) were out taking care of the farm/ranch/business that occupied the rest of the property, truly knew what went on all day, the hard work, the struggles, etc. She also knew that taking care of what went on in the home was ESSENTIAL to making the rest of it work and visa versa. Once men were displaced from their property to work for someone else, that connection between them was lost in a way as well. A real disconnect between what it takes to truly make a living/life was also lost on the children when that became the norm.
Farm or ranch life shows how temporary were the article’s ideal. There wasn’t that work-home dichotomy.
All work outside of the home is purposed in supporting the most important task of all – which is a woman’s role in home making and child nurturing
Yes, I would agree with this, Gadsden.
Until his wife gets a few wrinkles or has trouble losing baby weight then he bangs his secretary or has a mid life crisis and finds some trophy to marry.
Careful, that will cook the burger/sammich too.
Nick agrees it is very good advice.
Me?
Just call me Lily.
This is not the norm?
When one is actually married to a man who honors her as the Lord suggested, she kind of reciprocates unless she’s an idiot.
I’m guessing you are married to a lily too.
Now, that’s a Little Red Wagon, Miranda! EC woulda loved it! The old red rope with the old red car!
Excellent!
Life is good out here in the suburbs of the sticks.
“They’ll” get here eventually, but some of them will get shot.
Unless you’ve been living under a rock you know that’s not the norm now.
HSF,
yes, it was the norm 60 ~ 70 years ago, sadly. What is left out is the advice to the HUSBAND! Like try and make her feel that she is the most special woman in the world, or at least in YOUR world. Any relationship ought to be treated that way, especially if you chose to make her your wife! If you made a poor decision, it’s on you to do the RIGHT thing.
Children takes things to a whole new level! You’ll never know how much you can love or hurt. I still remember the first time my eldest Daughter lied to me, though it was non important, it broke my heart. I have never lied to my kids, even little lies of ‘convenience’! Always treat children with honesty and integrity, inconsistency causes serious issues! Kids are a direct reflection of you and Mom! I may be an asshole but I’m consistent.
Peace, L.
Wise words.
Women would first have to have a husband and then actually want them to be ‘looked after’.
Morgan Weistling
In the 16th year of our 47 year marrage (to date) we invited God in and all the rocks on the road were soon paved over.
I have you beat by 7 years and 300 sammiches. 🙂
Less than one sammidge per week?
I remember showing a list similar to that to a female co-worker as a joke back in the mid-2000’s. Let’s just say it didn’t go over too well. Even though she was married with kids and pretty laid back. The women of today take their feminism pretty seriously. And seem to feel being stuck at home as some form of punishment.
Theodore Dalrymple on modern grocery shopping lists, and potatoes dyed blue:
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“You can tell the social class of people by simply looking at what they buy. Partly, of course, it is a question of money, but only partly. The higher the proportion of fresh food chosen, the higher the social class. As for alcoholics, they buy edibles as if eating were a regrettable necessity and rather a waste of money. They buy as little and as cheaply as possible: They do not want to eat into their drinking money. It is as if they knew dietary recommendations perfectly and had decided to do as near the opposite as they could.”
Two DVs? For what?
Women should be subservient. Now make that sammich.
I don’t know. This is gonna give me dv or ignores. Aok. I’m not a catlady. It’s a ramble for real.
In grade 7 I wanted to take Home Economics. That’s what home making in schools was called in those days. My dad wouldn’t let me. He said that was basket weaving and made me take science. Was so angry.
I was in grade 8. My sister was allowed to take Home Economics. I moseyed along in Science, but was confused why my sister was allowed to take what was considered a “basket weaving” class just a year before. I inferred that I was godawful ugly that no guy would want me. Weirdly enough, my mom took time to take care of her mom and dad took care of us. That included home cooked meals with fresh ingredients. Tasted better than mom ever made. I made that comment to my dad and he was silent.
My ex would have been so happy with this list along with the one that told me I had to work just for the next couple of months or years.
I have something that crawls up my neck. It’s not 100% right of the time, but damn, it’s close. I was engaged to someone who told me that he wanted me to work inside and outside of the house. No.
That same crawled up my neck with the pokes. No.
Good for you. Always follow your gut, um, neck.
I can’t decipher the end of this.
I will say that when my mother was a young woman she was much like like that. Things changed as the stresses of life wore her down, still was great woman.
I don’t understand the misogyny here, or the misandry. We are all equal but opposite. As a species which propagates through sexual dimorphism, is it so difficult to understand that each of us has a role to play, and that our outcomes, both in the micro and macrocosm would be improved if we could put our egos away and could learn to trust completely in our spouse? Doing so would allow us to optimize our own skills, to the benefit of all.
I didn’t think your people had sexual dimorphism
How so ?
I am going to plunk you into a matriarchal, matrilinial society (yes, they do exist) and see how you do. lmfao.
It takes two, ladies and germs. When I look back over my long life, the best of the best of the best of times were drawn-out stretches of caring, nurturing, and taking care of each other. I feel so sorry for the selfish, lonely twits who will never get it.
Do all this and he’ll find you boring and cheat anyway.
Why ? Throw away the love and reverence of a good woman because you meet some hottie who is younger and has a bigger bank balance and firmer boobs ?
LOL. Not on your life.
Trust is priceless.
– Dagobaz’s hubby
You’re funny. 🙂