BOWLING ALONE

Guest Post by Hardscrabble Farmer

Robert Putman’s Bowling Alone pretty much sums it all up. More diversity equals less cohesion. If we want diverse people from diverse cultures with diverse beliefs and mores, then we can have no expectation that our systems, traditions, behaviors and customs will have any more weight or priority than theirs.

Asians don’t mind crowding up into the personal space that would make most European-descended folks cringe, African folks have a volume control that pushes the top end while Northern European types barely speak above a whisper. The result is self-segregation and that’s all we see in America today, media and advertising images notwithstanding.

Quick story about the exact opposite experience.

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Last week my youngest son had a concert at the local high school. There were approximately 200 kids from the fourth grade through high school seniors performing in several groups doing about a dozen pieces or so and it was held at 7 pm. There were close to six hundred people in the audience at the gym and it was packed, SRO. Folding chairs had been assembled on the floor, bleachers on either side and risers for the performers.

The audience was very diverse in terms of income and social class; obese and unkempt families wearing camouflage, men in suits and ties just coming in from work, there were farmers and timbermen, fashionably dressed women with designer purses, people pushing 90 and pregnant 20-somethings. There were siblings that ran from infancy to toddlers, teenagers there to watch their friends, people I knew from my neighborhood that have no kids who just wanted to see a nice concert. The volume before it began was moderate- plenty of conversations going on, but certainly no yelling or hooting, no loud or angry voices, even the kids were keeping it to a dull roar, as my mother used to say.

Everyone was smiling, or at least putting on their very best taciturn Yankee in public rictus of a grin. There were very few hand-held devices in use even though there was nothing about it being prohibited posted or mentioned. There were two pianos for accompaniment and people kept a comfortable distance away from them and the two cameras that were set up to record the event. No one strolled in front, blocking the shots. The kids performing were all dressed in black pants or skirts and white shirts and blouses.

A couple of the kids had off color shirts and some wore dark blue pants and you could tell it was because of their economic situation rather than forgetfulness. Most of the girls had their hair done up nicely, the teenagers wore respectful make-up- there was one goth looking girl, another with blue hair, but that was the extent of their adolescent rebellion. You could tell that they all took it seriously.

So you had a tight space, fully packed, at the end of a long day, on a cold night and yet it was calm, peaceful, respectful and orderly. The performance was quite good. I go to all of my kids events over the years and they always do a solid job so it speaks to their teachers as well as their own dedication to the practice they put in.

What stood out to me- and of course I am always noticing the world around me critically and for things others probably don’t- was the fact that there were only two people in that entire room who were not White, both school-aged, one a Vietnamese girl I know is adopted and one that appeared to be from Peru/Central America. There are probably not that many places left in North America with that kind of demographic cohesion and the group dynamic- despite the wide disparity in income and social set- was one of respect, reserve, appreciation, calm, interest and geniality.

Even when it was over, an announcement was made to help with the chairs and everyone, rather than running for the doors, helped fold and stack them. There were people smiling and shaking hands all over, kids running around greeting each other and when we left the extremely congested parking lot into the night by a single lane, everyone understood to allow the cars to merge, alternating one row at a time.

People who fail to understand that diversity exists within similar groups are the same ones who ignore the cacophony and friction when groups become increasingly more diverse ethnically and racially.

Is it wrong to notice these things?

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Iska Waran
Iska Waran
March 12, 2017 10:21 am

HS,
I’ve been in school settings like that, but I’ve also been in school settings where there’s scarcely a white face, the others being black, Latino, Asian. There wasn’t that much difference (if any) in terms of politeness, etc. I’m not going to deny social differences among races. If you want to see a stark difference it’s black folks watching 12 years play basketball versus white folks doing the same. With the black people, every call that goes against their team is a conspiracy. C-O-N spiracy. For school plays, however, even the most unruly tend to be calm, in my experience.

Francis Marion
Francis Marion
  Administrator
March 12, 2017 10:56 am

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James
James
  Administrator
March 12, 2017 11:05 am

Not a bad version but camera guy should have cut right in to the lead guitarist after the operatic section!I saw this song live many times in concert,as band refused backing tape and operatic section over a 100 overdubs in studiocould not be done live.Hence,one hell of a light show/tape only during that part and thousands of fans singing(?)along till May kicks in with guitar,they were a hell of a band live!

Unanon
Unanon
  Administrator
March 12, 2017 11:06 am

Impressive.

Westcoaster
Westcoaster
  Administrator
March 12, 2017 10:00 pm

Very good for high school kids.

Francis Marion
Francis Marion
March 12, 2017 11:32 am

Hardscrabble,

I am writing a piece more or less on this topic now.

My observation is that a multi-racial society can be successful but a multi-cultural one is doomed.

Immigration departments must be tied down. Immigration needs to be slow, selective and promote a policy of assimilation. Identity politics should be abandoned and cultural marxists should be run out of the country. But I’ll let my piece speak for itself. If I can get it finished…..

michael smith
michael smith
  Francis Marion
March 12, 2017 6:34 pm

>>My observation is that a multi-racial society can be successful but a multi-cultural one is doomed.
>>

I agree in principle, but, in practice, it appears rare to have a multi-racial society that is not also multi-cultural. The rare exceptions seem to be places where mixed race people without a distinct racial identity form an absolute majority of the population. This seems to happen mainly in Latin America, which is not the worst place in the world and may be a more psychologically healthy group of societies than we have in the US and Europe, but it is hardly a “first world” society in terms of economic and cultural achievement.

Related to this problem is the question of “which races” are trying to live together under the same state. The mastodon in the living room is the forbidden topic of heritable IQ differences coinciding with visible racial differences. These differences are often of a magnitude similar to the IQ differences between the upper middle class and the working class. If one reads Aristotle’s “The Politics,” or if one is acquainted with European history, it becomes clear that class differences by themselves can become quite destabilizing, which has been less obvious in the US because we started with lots of cheap land, then, as we urbanized, replaced Britain as the workshop of the world, and then we had no competition for a generation after our rivals were destroyed during WW2 while post-New Deal policies and social mobility in the post-War boom tended to blur class differences during the Cold War. Nowadays, as we lose our unique advantages, Europe’s long-standing class tensions are starting to emerge here, but they intersect with racial differences, not just visible racial differences, but also racial differences in IQ and temperament (the latter probably being related to the documented racial differences in various hormone levels). This complicates matters immensely, but mainstream society is terrified even to mention the existence of this conundrum.

In Asia and Africa, both racial and cultural differences tend to be managed by de facto segregation. In Latin America, society has tended strongly toward a tri-racial caste system: Whites at the top, Indios or Blacks at the bottom, and a vast throng of Mestizos or Mulattoes in the middle. This is sometimes rationalized by concepts such as “racial democracy” in Brazil or the “universal race” in Mexico, similar to the “melting pot” myth we developed in America to ease tensions between our European ethnics during our previous wave of mass immigration. The tri-racial caste“` arrangement appears to be more stable and harmonious (relatively!) than the Old World’s segregated cultures, but hardly ideal.

Most Americans seem determined to reject both segregation and a racial caste system, demanding instead that every group have outcomes at least equal to the European derived population. No one wants to ask, or to let anyone else ask, “Is this even possible, much less realistic?”` Look around the world, and you will not find equal outcomes anywhere. Why might that be? What evidence do we have that this is an achievable outcome? Yet we have undertaken this vast experiment, based on the implicit and sometimes explicit assumption that emerged during the “anti-fascist” propaganda campaigns of the 1940’s that all men, or at least all human groups, really are created equal. No one wanted to ask, “What may ultimately happen if we undertake this grand experiment in social engineering and our underlying assumption turns out to have been wrong? What happens if the bigots we love to hate are right?”

And, without waiting for America’s example to provide the answer, Canada and western Europe have plunged into the same experiment. And what do any of us gain for the risk we are taking? Cheap labor for the monied classes? Is it really worth it?

And what can be done if wish to pursue more risk averse policies? We can curtail immigration, but the old America with a sustainable Anglo-European majority is demographically finished, no matter what. And pushing for cultural conformity would force everyone to conform to a dominant culture that has become morally reprehensible.

And when transport fuel becomes dear–that day is not many years away, when “fracking” production goes into irreversible decline shortly after 2020–geographic mobility will go way down, and, with different races being unevenly distributed across the country, true Balkanization will likely begin to emerge in America.

By the way, social media plays a role in this as well. It has tended to erode nationalist sentiments in favor of a more cosmopolitan, transnational outlook, but also strengthens localist sympathies.

When some future historian will be able to look back and write the story of Old America’s decline and fall, it will make for a fascinating read, but I imagine that story will surrounded by furious debates and controversies. Economic, cultural, political, and biological theories will contend for explanatory power. In truth, all these factors are strongly against us, and it is due both to their combined weight and the negative synergy of their mutual interactions that our fate is already sealed. Donald Trump is a tragic hero, whose labors are not those of a Hercules but of a Sisyphus. “Mene, mene, tekel, upharsin.”

Nevertheless, that does not mean America is destined to break up. Notwithstanding cultural fragmentation, the vast, fertile plain between the Appalachians and the Rockies, much of it drawn together by the extensively navigable Mississippi River and its major tributaries, and emptying into the intracoastal waterway that stretches from Corpus Christi to the Chesapeake Bay, will always have a unifying effect, even more after land and air transport become much more costly. The rivalries and tensions that have always characterized America may wax more intense, and shared national identity may wane, but the psychic relief that might come from full political separation will not be easily attained. If many people of all affinities find that thought unbearable, I suggest organized enclave formation as the best achievable solution for most people. Some people can opt for emigration, but other countries are not beds of roses either. America’s age of greatness is passing fast, but America as a continent-spanning political entity, however troubled, is likely to persist, for better or worse.

Warren
Warren
March 12, 2017 12:22 pm

Many years ago I lived in a small town in the 603 area code, it was in may aspects an unremarkable place, however it was adjacent to that small strip of Coastal New England which belonged to New Hampshire. Numerous small cape style houses, with a few larger homes on the beach front.

The house that we lived in was a rather tiny cottage that my parents bought in 1964 for $2000, I know the cost, because dad saved and I still have their paperwork. It was a short walk from the beach, ant had an ocean view. But its real value was that we were able to move out of the small apartment my parents rented and dad could still drive to work in about a half hour.

It was a small place, maybe 1000 square feet if that, we had a cast iron stove in the kitchen, our tv for the one and only channel we could receive was a 1939 GE that had been left behind by one of the previous owners, our water came from a well. We were poor, but we did not know it.

But in retrospect it was remarkable, because the little village we lived in was so economically diverse, There was my dad who worked in as a GS 3 in the old Portsmouth federal building.
A few examples of our neighbors, behind us was a medical Doctor whose family was one of the first to settle New Hampshire, a few houses down the street was a man who ran a fishing boat, and across the street in a cottage not much larger than ours lived Mrs. Armstrong, who used to bake us cookies, and I later found out that her husband invented FM radio and she was perhaps one of the richest women in the country at the time. To me she was just the nice old lady across the street that sometimes brought us over cookies

The thing is that the little village was made up out of the kind of wide disparity in income you describe, but I don’t recall it ever being an issue. We all got along.

Warren
Warren
  Warren
March 12, 2017 12:36 pm

The thing is, that at the time if you had asked if it was a ethnically diverse community, we would have said yes, we have people of various ancestry, Irish, Italian, Portuguese, Nova Scotian/PEI Scots; French (Acadian and Quebecois), and of course Yankee English.

Today they would say there was no diversity in that group.

kokoda - the most deplorable
kokoda - the most deplorable
  Warren
March 12, 2017 2:09 pm

Thanks Warren.

NickelthroweR
NickelthroweR
  Warren
March 12, 2017 3:31 pm

Greetings,

The community you describe is quite similar to the community that blacks would have lived in up until the Civil Rights Movement. Rich poor professional blue collar – all had no choice but to live together.

I didn’t experience it because it was before my time but I’ve read extensively on this (btw, Bowling Alone has been on my bookshelf for 20 years now) and it would appear to me that the opportunities for upward mobility were greater then for blacks and the family unit had not yet been destroyed by Uncle Sugar and his endless welfare.

Odd, but it was probably much better for the black community under segregation as it was a forced community and they had no options but to make it work.

Flashman
Flashman
March 12, 2017 12:22 pm

Where I live you’d have to Time Travel to experience something like that.

General
General
March 12, 2017 12:22 pm

Don’t miss the forest for the trees.

During relatively stable economic times, such as now, and though it isn’t great for a lot of people, people can get a long with each other. Watch what happens to a diverse group of people, when times get really bad such as the Great Depression. There are plenty of historical examples.

kokoda - the most deplorable
kokoda - the most deplorable
  General
March 12, 2017 2:08 pm

True

Miles Long
Miles Long
March 12, 2017 2:07 pm

Is it wrong to notice these things?

I dont think so. Situational awareness is a good thing. It’s also called “profiling” & is a survival mechanism, some will say of the basest nature. No matter what anybody says they will notice these things. Stifling the instinct or lying about it to appear “tolerant or color blind” or any number of other bullshit things we’ve been programmed to believe is mental masturbation. I believe virtue signalling is the current catch-phrase for such numbing-down.

Or maybe only some of us have been programmed to notice differences. At least my right arm doesn’t get tired.

EL Coyote
EL Coyote
  Miles Long
March 12, 2017 3:26 pm

Miles, is you right arm up in the air in front of you at 135 degrees?

Miles Long
Miles Long
  EL Coyote
March 12, 2017 5:23 pm

Yeah, well maybe not quite 135*, but it’s on top of Mrs. Coyote’s head.

pyrrhus
pyrrhus
March 12, 2017 2:24 pm

At one of my kid’s graduations, with at least 1000 people in the crowd, there were very specific announcements that there were to be no loud noisemakers or disturbance during the event. The school is about 96% white…On at least two occasions, when a Filipino kid was graduating, relatives near us set off ear shattering electric bullhorns…nothing was done, of course.

Culture doesn’t change….

EL Coyote
EL Coyote
March 12, 2017 3:44 pm

HF, when I got here to the AV in 1980, the valley was predominantly white. The people were known to be polite and cooperative. The girls were pretty, quite friendly and without any pretense. It was mentioned that film crews liked the AV because of the friendly nature of people here, they smiled and greeted strangers.

Now, we are overrun by people from ‘down below’ as the LA basin used to be called. These are speed demons who hate to yield a car space to anybody. The streets are now crowded. Who would believe that as late as 1990, people ran stop signs in the outer streets because there was a 100% chance you were the only car on that road? Nowadays, my secret route is crowded by impatient drivers. LA people of all colors speak loudly and consider themselves the most important customer in any store. Jerks.

ILuvCO2
ILuvCO2
March 12, 2017 11:39 pm

“obese and unkempt families wearing camouflage”

What is the link here? Working outside all day gathering stuff from the property for the move before the snowstorm from hell, I look down at my attire: camo pants, green shirt, camo hat. I’m not obese or unkempt yet, but is this some kind of prophesy? Hmm, just got laid off, hope this doesn’t mean I will be sitting on my ass eating shit food and not shaving any more. Why are you profiling camouflage wearers? It just isn’t fair. Borders on hate speech.

May your nights be below freezing and days above 32 to keep that sap moving.

hardscrabble farmer
hardscrabble farmer
  ILuvCO2
March 13, 2017 4:03 pm

I’ve seen you, you’re not obese.

And I have no idea what the connection is- I dress like a farmer during the day but if I am going out to a performance with my children I want to dress appropriately for the event. It doesn’t kill me to put on a pair of nice trousers and a jacket. The only connection between the obese and the camo was that the two were- at that event- linked liked peanut butter and jelly.

When I wrote the above comment it was with genuine trepidation. It was intended to be a positive spin on the shared experiences of living in the same culture and at the same time as Admin but divided by specific demarcations in locale (rural vs. urban) and demographics (homogenous vs. diverse). My experiences since moving here have proven to me that a great deal of the stresses and anxieties that were an inherent part of our lives in the past were based not on our income or geographic location, but on other human beings. Where there are greater numbers of them, the friction increased and where there was greater ethnic diversity the divisions were more pronounced. Today these simple observations are heresy and based on some of the responses it appears to be an immutable issue.

I can’t help but tell the truth as I understand it, that is simply part of my nature and my upbringing. I also cannot help but trust my eyes, and my experiences in making determinations about what causes the disparity in behaviors among groups of people. The status quo over the past half century has been to studiously ignore any differences between people based on hereditary traits and to blame any and all divisions in class, intelligence, and achievement on environmental and/or historical effects. I wish that I could continue to accept the status quo as I did for two-thirds of my lifetime because it would have been far better for me on multiple levels to do so, but it would have made me a hypocrite and no matter where I choose to reside, I still have to live with myself.

james the deplorable wanderer
james the deplorable wanderer
  hardscrabble farmer
March 13, 2017 8:56 pm

Growing up in the South, a neighbor once griped “We’re the same – WHY DO YOU WANT TO THINK YOU’RE BETTER’N ME?”. The comment made no sense to me at the time (Maybe fifth or seventh grade?) because I could already tell that I was better than he was – he didn’t enjoy school, learning or mental effort, while I was making better grades (the source of the comment) and looking forward to college, more than likely; our parents made it clear that back then, college was a path to greater opportunities and rewards, and back then (1970’s) it was.
Intelligence IS the great divide between individuals of similar background, groups, races and nations- if you’re less intelligent, you will perceive fewer opportunities and act upon fewer of them. If you’re more intelligent, you will perceive more opportunities, act upon more of them and LEARN TO CREATE THEM FOR YOURSELF.
I was in band, chorus and select chorus most of my youth – I was able to go to All-State one year, still have the recording. My chemistry teacher saw an opportunity he thought I was a good fit for, and recommended me for an NSF Summer Science Institute at a local college. Even his recommendation would have done nothing if I had not AGREED TO IT, thereby giving up six weeks of my summer vacation to learn introductory physics and Fortran; I wonder how many of my fellow classmates would have made such an INSANE, STUPID CHOICE to give up SIX WEEKS OF SUMMER VACATION just to sit in classrooms and do SCHOOL STUFF. Anyone who did not make that choice would not have met kids from around the state (boys and girls), spent time together in college classrooms learning current technologies from dedicated teachers, and gotten a head start on future classwork. And Marilyn really looked HOT in her swimsuit at the college pool!
Drive, initiative, intelligence – there ARE differences between students, adults, races, nations. But I think intelligence is the deal-maker – or deal-breaker.