Old Home Day

Guest Post by Hardscrabble Farmer

In New England there is an annual tradition that goes back to the aftermath of the Civil War called Old Home Day. The original idea was to welcome back the veterans and their families who had moved off of the rocky soil to seek a better future out in the vast prairie lands of the Midwest driven in part by westward expansion that followed the conflict but also to escape the memory of seeing the elephant, leaving the dead to bury the dead. When the young leave the old behind there isn’t much of a future left to be hopeful about, so some clever resident in his dotage came up with a plan to try and lure them back, if only for a while, to reconnect the generations on common ground.

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It’s held in the early part of the Summer, usually right around the time of the first hay cut of the year where the extra hands would come in handy. Call it a twofer. Every town and village throws a big party complete with picnics, parades, games for the children and the presentation of the a ceremonial cane to the oldest living resident in the area. Families reassemble from wherever they’ve moved off to for the day and even though it is open to anyone passing through there is a definite feeling of place that runs through it all.

In our town military re-en-actors come out dressed in full battle garb and run drills, set up camps and offer anyone interested a glimpse into the life of soldiers from different eras from the Revolutionary to the Second World War. The Meeting House is opened up, Lincoln impersonators give speeches, bouncy houses are pumped full of air for the kids, chicken and pork are grilled in big pits on the green and American flags still fly in the gentle breezes, rain or shine. It is almost impossible not to become enamored with a people and a place that holds so closely to it’s kinship and connections and to share whatever it has with whomever arrives.

We’re moving into high Summer now, the list of projects and needs seeming to be just as long as it was at the beginning with just a little less light each day as the planet tips back on it’s axis. We’ve put on a roof, built shelters, dug trenches and installed water lines and hydrants on the big pasture. Fences have been installed, the calves all delivered, piglets sold off, hay wagons rebuilt and grass mowed. The corn is up, the first of the cucumbers are just about ready and everywhere you look there is a deeper shade of green than there was the day before. We’re stocking up the sugarhouse with firewood, building walls of it along the paddocks to dry for next season and there are ricks of cord wood piled high in various places around the upper plateau waiting to be split and stacked.

Last week a couple from Indiana, long time readers of the blog, came by to visit for a few days. They came on their vacation to see a part of the country they had never seen before and we welcomed them on the farm to share their skills with the interns while we shared some of the products of our labors in return. The husband was one of the most experienced welders I have ever met and he helped us with a half a dozen projects that were so far out of my wheelhouse that they had remained on the shelf just waiting for the right hand to complete. He took the time to teach them how to grind and cut iron, prepare the surfaces and weld a solid bead.

They fixed the twisted tongue of the John Deere hay wagon, repaired the ruined lift carriage on the big log splitter and came up with a way to make the auger arch solid again. I worked with his wife in the sugarhouse rendering tallow and filling mason jar after mason jar with the finished product, pale yellow like the Moon at nightfall. We ate some delicious meals as well, roasted chickens and sausages, grilled asparagus and hamburgers and all of us sat down at the new picnic table we’d built to eat the products of our labor under the cool shade of the big maples. The conversations and stories that we told each other brought smiles and laughter and the excitement of seeing the farm through someone else’s eyes gave us all a big shot of enthusiasm at the exact moment when some of energy was flagging.

The weather for those couple of days was dreary and cool with a tight mist that closed the place up in space. There was the farm and there wasn’t anything else beyond it. You couldn’t see past the hedges or the back fence so we concentrated on our work soaked in the moist air. We picked berries, shared a few beers together after the day came to a close and learned about how God had worked in all of lives, leading us to that very moment.

On the last day of the visit the Sun broke through and the air dried out and the views of Kearsage rising up from the valley floor in the distance showed just how big and broad this place was and how small and insignificant the homestead looked against it all. They traded some of their home made pickles and apple butter for some of our syrup and when we shook hands and gave each other hugs it was as if we’d been friends all our lives. They drove down the lane and we watched them go with the promise that if we ever needed some help with a project and if either of us was ever in the neighborhood again, it would be like Old Home Day.

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This week, I did something that I thought I’d never do and it was learning how to weld. On Friday, this week Marc had a friend come to the farm from Indiana to weld some of the farm equipment back together. Pat and I spent the entire day Friday learning how to prep for welding, safety use of a welder, and welding two pieces of metal together. Pat and I quickly learned that it wasn’t as easy as Mike made it look. We noticed that it took a steady hand, and steady eyes to weld. Mike taught us how to flux weld, which is a different kind of welding that uses a wire with a powder that stops oxygen from entering the weld. Pat and I got to use the Hobart welding machine and practiced trying the many techniques and tips that Mike showed us. Altogether I thought the experience was great and it was also very intriguing to learn something useful like welding.

-Wilex

This is the great thing about this internship that I really like. Instead of just teaching us about the basics of green farming in New England he’s is teaching use different skill sets that will prove beneficial in upcoming careers. I realize that it’s important to learn the education side of environmental sciences but I believe that in future jobs me knowing trades will get me far in my career. So far, I’ve learned Carpentry, welding, roofing, agricultural planting, plant identification and farming. All of these things are new to me with little to know experience in the past and I’m very thankful for the opportunity to expand my knowledge and skills. These last few weeks in New Hampshire are going to go by quickly and although I miss Ohio I’m sad to soon leave this amazing wilderness.

-Patrick

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One evening last week after our work was done I went back out to the garden to weed for a bit as the last rays of golden light streamed through the branches of the big maples. While I pulled up the emerging sprouts along the lower end of the potato patch, a single black capped chickadee flew in and began to walk along the row, carefully inspecting each plant before hopping on to the next. Every few feet or so he would pause when he came into a shaft of warm light on the surface of the soil and let out a note that sounded like “Seat!” high pitched, melodious. And then he would move on to the next plant, repeating his examination.

I paused to watch him as he made his way down the entire row and then return back through the cucumbers, carefully scrutinizing each plant as if he were one of the ladies from the garden club. When he found a spot of sunlight, he paused and sang as if on stage and only then move on. He continued the linear route, back and forth up each row through nasturtiums, beets, onions, carrots, acorn squash, asparagus beds and Indian corn. Every so often he would lean in an pick off some unseen insect or seed from the soft compost spread along the edges of the rows before resuming the tour through the garden and I sat, mesmerized by his thoroughness and intensity.

This went on for at least five minutes and when he had satisfied his curiosity, he flew directly over to where I was crouched and took up a position on the tip of a picket beside me and swiveled his head in my direction, black eyes gleaming. He cocked his black capped head one last time and let out a final “Seat!” then flew off over the paddock and through the orchard into the woodlot beyond. I felt as if he was acknowledging my efforts in some way, maybe thanking me for the work I’d put in so that he could come down and enjoy his last few moments of sunlight in the orderly rows of lush vegetables, having his evening snack before heading off to whatever nest or perch he’d occupy for the night. I remained where I was a bit longer than I would have and when I stood up and stretched my legs at last I looked back at the garden with a new set of eyes and smiled.

I miss the way that things were when I was younger. It seemed to me to be a better world, saner, healthier in many ways than the bloated and tattooed reality I bump into whenever I venture out into the public sphere but it is gone and it is never coming back. Nostalgia is an old man’s game, the young have no understanding of it and all they can perceive is the possibility of the future before them. I have come a long way back to finding purpose in my life from living in the midst of modern culture to finding this perch on the furthest edge but it suits me.

Knowing that at least a few of the things I have picked up along the way will be useful to someone just starting out gives me a much better feeling about the world than to pine for what is gone. This week we’ll button up a few more little things around the farm and talk about one last project before the interns make ready for their return to college. I hope that they’ve gotten half as much out of this experience as we have. We appreciate the work that they’ve accomplished here but more than that they’ve helped us to become comfortable with the thought of moving into the next part of our lives, where our contributions aren’t measured so much by the calories we burn and the labor we expend, but by the knowledge we pass on.

I have come to believe that virtually everything we do in this life that arises from our conscious decisions repays us in similar fashion. You reap what you sow and if the choice is to do good things, good things come back. We will miss our son and his friends very much and we hope that they will have the kinds of memories that will draw them back to visit, maybe on Old Home Day, and they can pitch in for a bit as we move closer to that ceremonial cane and the certain future that lies ahead of us all.

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Iconoclast421
Iconoclast421
July 19, 2017 8:39 am

I never knew that the handle of a wagon was called a tongue.

Southern Sage
Southern Sage
July 19, 2017 8:51 am

Gee, what a charming New England custom! Down South we have something similar. The women sit around crying over the family silver carted off by Yankee soldiers, the kids sit around being in shock over their houses being burnt down, and men round up some local food stamp recipients and flog the shit out of them, just to remember the old times. Makes you want to set a spell on the porch with a mint julip!

rhs jr
rhs jr
  Southern Sage
July 19, 2017 10:12 pm

Honest, my Grandmother would talk about how Sherman’s murders tore her Grandparents house and barn apart, stole all the food and left them to starve (her grandfather did). NYC/WDC is slightly better now; they routinely destroy other nations.

JC
JC
  Southern Sage
July 22, 2017 2:18 pm

Charming customs and heartbreaking stories. Gee, I can’t for the life of me figure out how all that could have been avoided.

Dan
Dan
July 19, 2017 8:54 am

HSF, yet another incredible peice! We love hearing about the things going on with your farm, and the stories about the interns are wonderful and give us hope for the future. It would appear that you’ve found another great purpose (or calling) in your life: teaching the “lost arts” of farming to those willing to listen and learn.

Mercy Otis Warren
Mercy Otis Warren
July 19, 2017 10:07 am

In this frenetic, “keeping up the the Jones'” world, it is so important to refocus on the beauty of even the most ordinary things. Your description of the bird allowed us to envision it as if we were there. I’ll turn again to Ms. Dickinson for support:

“Hope” is the thing with feathers –
That perches in the soul –
And sings the tune without the words –
And never stops – at all –

And sweetest – in the Gale – is heard –
And sore must be the storm –
That could abash the little Bird
That kept so many warm –

I’ve heard it in the chillest land –
And on the strangest Sea –
Yet – never – in Extremity,
It asked a crumb – of me.

Focusing on the beauty of things (even the things which seem least worthy of attention) is really one of the keys to joy. It is easy to get lost in the quagmire of worries and banalities. In fact I spend most of my time there. But the respite from a refocus is such a refresher that I wonder why I do not spend more effort on it — rather than on all those other deadening things.

I was once smoking a cigar on my back deck alone —trying to unwind from what was assuredly a chaotic day and as I blew the smoke through the vertical deck spindles, I noticed a spider beginning to spin its web. Normally I would have let my dower mood get the better of me and likely would have dispatched the spider and the web (so that the kids did not walk into it the next day), but I did not. Instead I sat there and watched the creation. It was magnificent in its simplicity, genius and efficiency. The smoke mixed with the settling dew on the web against the backdrop of a bright moon was mesmerizing.

In any event I was glad I did not destroy the web; at least until I heard my daughter’s deafening shriek the next morning as she was trying on her new silk mask.

Thanks for helping us focus on the beauty of small things, HSF

DRUD
DRUD
  Mercy Otis Warren
July 19, 2017 11:37 am

“Focusing on the beauty of things (even the things which seem least worthy of attention) is really one of the keys to joy.”

I work right by the South Platte River and there are some really beautiful trees that line it. I make a point to look at the spaces between the leaves on my walks during lunch–when I do I am almost overcome with awe. The infinite and finite together in such a simple, commonplace thing.

hardscrabble farmer
hardscrabble farmer
  DRUD
July 19, 2017 12:22 pm

A long time ago I did a tour that ran along the Platte- Fremont, Kearny, Grand Island, Ogallala, and up to Sioux City. A beautiful and empty country out there. Every day between gigs I would wade along the banks looking for arrowheads and somewhere along the way I picked up a well worn piece of willow that had been chewed on both ends by a beaver and weathered to a soft silver color. I threw it up on the dashboard and it stayed there with me as long as I remained on the road, a kind of talisman that all my friends referred to as “The Beaver Stick”. Every time a new comic would ride along they’d rub it for luck.

And odd people, we were.

I still have it sitting on the top shelf in the library to remind me of that particular part of the past.

Mercy Otis Warren
Mercy Otis Warren
  DRUD
July 19, 2017 1:12 pm

“The infinite and finite together in such a simple, commonplace thing.”

Precisely.

Gloriously Deplorable Paul
Gloriously Deplorable Paul
July 19, 2017 11:12 am

HSF- Rest assured your interns are getting far more value from their experience than you are. It’s apparent from their weekly essays you’ve posted that they are just beginning to see the possibilities and potential of the future they see in front of them and over time they’ll begin to fully realize the value of this experience.
It will last a lifetime. And, if society is lucky, several more if they will replicate your fine example of sharing knowledge.
Yours is a great gift to them.
I admire what you’re doing.

Westcoaster
Westcoaster
  Gloriously Deplorable Paul
July 19, 2017 8:09 pm

I was about to say basically the same thing. HSF you’ve given these young men a tremendous gift; an unforgettable Summer.

DRUD
DRUD
July 19, 2017 11:41 am

As I’ve mentioned, one of my greatest regrets was not spending summers working at my Aunt and Uncle’s Wyoming ranch when I was in high school and college. Another one happened after I’d been laid off and been out of work for over a year. I went back to school to get an IT cert (MCSE) and not only did I never work in that field, I never had any real desire to, other than earning a paycheck. If I had it to do over again, I would use that time and money to learn to weld. I understand the science of welding and how to call out welds on a drawing, but that could not be more different that the craft and artistry of shaping and fusing metal.

curtmilr
curtmilr
July 19, 2017 12:35 pm

Another great one, HSF!!!

No, we can’t go back in time, but timeless principles are just that, timeless and true. I still hold out hope that there is a chance that we can recover our Republic from the continuing systematic dismantlement by Progressive overlords in both parties. We are in dire need of a course correction, if not a reversal of the engines of the ship of state, before we devolve into an outright tyranny, no matter how benign a mask it may be wearing.

Your prose provides a calming oasis amongst stormy seas, and it is always a pleasant respite!

THANKS!!

suzanna
suzanna
July 19, 2017 12:47 pm

I think you meant to say “an uncertain” future. The certainties
of our future are too horrible to really examine. So we skirt around
the topic with witty statements and pronouncements. We say we
are anticipating a race war or a revolution and that we look forward
to the destruction…”to build anew.”

You have given us delightful glimpses into the magic of nature,
and the rewards of hard work and the satisfaction that comes
with producing and sharing. Your stories provide a stark contrast
to eg living in a condo in San Diego and fighting traffic 3-4 h/day.

You are still young enough to be strong and patient with the young
interns and your various guests. Those all enrich your life tremendously. The real profit however is in the knowledge of having made a big difference in the lives of young people. We can only
imagine the damage to their psyche they are sustaining observing
the reality of life in the USA. The reality of rogue CIA, drug trafficking, the war party…on and on and etc. These boys will have
more perspective in the future. They will think back and realize
the gift of knowing what honesty and good character are all about.
God is putting gold stars in your book HSF. I love the chickadee
story. Animals have their own kind of soul. Or maybe God was
giving you a wink. God is the power of good.

hardscrabble farmer
hardscrabble farmer
  suzanna
July 19, 2017 1:11 pm

I meant ‘certain future’ as in mortal, finite.

They spent the morning with me learning how to fell a tree and limb and buck up the timber. The neighbor down the lane brought out cold drinks and fresh made doughnuts for us and when we were done I introduced them to low bush blueberries warm from the Sun as we walked back up the lane to the farm. They stood around the bushes, slowly reaching in and out, filling their mouths with handful after handful of sweet berries, all the while talking and laughing to each other across the grassy slope. It’s like watching your own life through the filter of someone else’s eyes and it gratifies me to no end to know that these guys will be passing this kind of thing along to someone else at another time long after I am gone.

Oilman2
Oilman2
July 19, 2017 1:24 pm

HSF, this is my first pass at this site. I am gratified that I am not the only person taking a little joy in passing things along. My boy and 2 of his friends learned to build last year when we put a house in for our 40-acre plot. They get to take those skills ahead with them.

Next month we are going to split the tractor to fix the pto shaft, since my son decided that if the tree bent over enough to fit under the shredder, then it would “be fine” to just chop it up…

This weekend I will be setting up an airlift system for them to raise fish in 5 scrap hot tubs we collected from town. Should be interesting…

Luck to you and God bless

BB
BB
July 19, 2017 1:39 pm

“You reap what you sow and if the choice is to do good things ,good things will come back ” .I know you quote a biblical principle but I’m not sure this applies to nations.Seems like there’s alot people abroad and here that want to kill us .The more we try to help and do good to the world the more it blows up in our faces.But what do I know.

Mercy Otis Warren
Mercy Otis Warren
  BB
July 19, 2017 4:07 pm

…perhaps what we are doing abroad is not helping or doing good, but rather exploiting, stealing and killing. Those things have a tendency to come back around to bite you.

Dennis Roe
Dennis Roe
July 19, 2017 8:37 pm

You’re the one person here who always manages to sail his ship, on a sea of shit, in a forward positive direction. Beautiful writing, I can picture it in my own mind. Nice to know there’s young people who’ll pick up the swords and carry on.

SmallerGovNow
SmallerGovNow
July 20, 2017 7:57 am

True story. Former Chief Editorial Writer for the New York Times in the 1860’s. Trump should give this quote in a National Address to the US Public…

John Swinton’s address to fellow journalists in 1883 …..

‘There is no such thing, at this date of the world’s history, in America, as
an independent press. You know it and I know it.

There is not one of you who dares to write your honest opinions, and if you
did, you know beforehand that it would never appear in print. I am paid
weekly for keeping my honest opinion out of the paper I am connected with.
Others of you are paid similar salaries for similar things, and any of you
who would be so foolish as to write honest opinions would be out on the
streets looking for another job. If I allowed my honest opinions to appear
in one issue of my paper, before twenty-four hours my occupation would be
gone.

The business of the journalists is to destroy the truth, to lie outright, to
pervert, to vilify, to fawn at the feet of mammon, and to sell his country
and his race for his daily bread. You know it and I know it, and what folly
is this toasting an independent press?

We are the tools and vassals of rich men behind the scenes. We are the
jumping jacks, they pull the strings and we dance. Our talents, our
possibilities and our lives are all the property of other men. We are
intellectual prostitutes.’

http://www.quotes.net/authors/John%20Swinton

Francis Marion
Francis Marion
July 20, 2017 9:37 am

Nice piece Hardscrabble. Wish I had the time this summer to just pack things up and drive out to see you. I weed a mean a garden. 🙂

Shark
Shark
July 21, 2017 6:35 am

After you’ve watched the 1969 version, go to YouTube and watch the 2014 version. It’s beautiful and haunting:

nkit
nkit
  Shark
July 21, 2017 4:20 pm

Shark, that was pretty, graceful and simply exquisite. I listened to it this morning and could not get the song out of my head all day.. Had to come back for more. Better than the original. Thanks.

Maggie
Maggie
  Shark
July 23, 2017 2:19 am

That was amazing. It prompted me to make a comment, something I rarely do these days.

hardscrabble farmer
hardscrabble farmer
July 21, 2017 8:38 am

That was really beautiful. Thanks much.

Mongoose Jack
Mongoose Jack
July 21, 2017 9:35 am

HSF,
This topic, this phenomenon really, of leave taking by the young when they leave the nest is something that touches me deeply and I ruminate about often. The whole ball of wax…… Our attachments to place and the people who mean everything in our lives, the need our young have to leave the nest and spread their wings, and to leave the past behind in a constructive sense, is almost overwhelming at times. I take great comfort in the fact that our love for our children in particular has in its essence a bond
that transcends time, space, and particularly, distance. As they go through their day to day and moment to moment lives, in the back of their minds you are with them regardless if they are halfway around the world or even on a flight to Mars. And they with you. If we’ve done our job, and are fortunate, they’ve not really left, not really, not completely.
Congrats on continuing to post videos that are so congruent with the essay. That song by those young men is such a razor sharp opening to the soul of a young person who has experienced, yes, eyes only for the future but has come to realize that along with the excitement the world is indeed ‘ A bad place, a sad place, a terrible place to live’…… At that point nostalgia becomes not just for the old, but the young as well. And they realize more and more the importance of place, roots. Continuous and timeless. Anyway, the whole phenomenon of individuals, families, generations moving through time and the connections between them is something I’ve always found fascinating. Thanks for the essay. In the midst of all that is going on in the world at large it is nice to diverge to a topic that is immediate, grounded, and timeless.

norman franklin
norman franklin
July 22, 2017 9:49 am

We had ‘Corn Fest’ last weekend in the nearby town, it was quite a hoot. Reminded me of things you talk about farmer. Music, food, and good times all around. There are still many youngsters around here. More and more however I find the guys that are the best farmers (pecans, grapes) that own between say 5 and 20 acres are all getting along in years 70+. Many have kids who moved to the city years ago and now only return occasionally. Very rare is the young person who is interested in learning about the growing of things, Unless it is weed.

Maggie
Maggie
July 23, 2017 2:46 am

We are in the middle of a terribly hot and miserable stretch of Summer Doldrums here in the Midwest. I read your lovely article several days ago and grew melancholy. So, I paid attention to a few things and my son visited, just a pop in visit after an appointment which was close enough to our home to warrant popping in for a meal and a visit with the dog, who practically crawls into my son’s lap as if he were a pup instead of a 120 plus pound dog. The comparison is easy to excuse, since we also have a Pyrenese pup of five months, a rescue the local veterinary clinic performed for me after the loss of our J-DAWG. I should have waited to get a puppy so soon after losing the other, but the empty void I discovered seemed to need immediate filling. As the months have been filled with keeping the old, cranky Alpha dog from killing the new, cute and annoying puppy as she has healed from her close brush with death at birth (She was removed from her litter when suspected of having parvo… when it was positive, the owner opted to have her put down rather than carry the virus home. Instead, the vets who’ve taken care of my Pyrenese for several years now saved her. When I brought her home, the “big guy”, as I’ve taken to calling Jacob now that Jason is gone, looked at her in a “what the hell is that” kind of way and immediately let her now she was to leave him alone.

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I was going to share an image of the new pup with the big guy but Photobucket’s attempts to hold all my photos for ransom is getting old. They cut off my access to my old account which I’d managed to use for ten years without incident. Suddenly, I need to pay them a monthly fee to even look at my photos there.

So, I created a new account with my new computer? They want me to pay a monthly fee to even exist.