Maybe You Won’t Care

Guest Post by Robert Bronsdon (Hollywood Rob)

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As we all grow older, we realize that our bodies loose the strength and the resiliency that youth provides.  We like our recliners.  Our backs groan at the thought of sitting on a hard fiberglass seat in a rolling boat.

I hope that you watched the video all the way through because this next part is not going to make much sense if you didn’t.  Ask yourself this.  Have you ever had a moment in your life where you simply looked at a sky full of an infinity of stars and felt that this is perfect.  Not that you are cold.  Not that your neck is stiff.  Nothing.  Just perfect.  I have had a lot of moments in my life where I have stood in awe of the stars.  Nights in the mountains at 11,000 feet spring to mind.  But the times where I could claim “perfect” are few if not none.

There are those times where I found something that nobody else knew.  They were exciting.  Not perfect.  There are times where the sex was great.  Not perfect.  There are times of great contentment.  Is that the same as perfect?  None of us are likely to be in possession of more than a scant few of these perfect moments.  Many of us may actually find that we didn’t have any at all.  But if you are to have any, I suspect that you may come by them as a result of having made the commitment to do the hard work necessary to find yourself in the place where that perfect moment can reveal itself to you.  It is never easy to get to the place where you can see perfect.  And having gotten yourself there one is likely to find that perfect just wasn’t there that day.  I suspect that finding those moments that can’t possibly be any better are more a function of allowing yourself to consider that, for you, this is perfect.  Hard Scrabble Farmer does a much more eloquent job of explaining this than I ever will be able to do.  Most of his posts are about finding the perfect moment in a long day of hard work.  It’s not the work that makes the perfect moment.  But without the work, you are likely to look right past the perfect moment.  They happen every day all over the world but I suspect that they are more likely to happen around a lake in New Hampshire or in the middle of the Atlantic, or on a high mountain pass in California.  Perhaps it is because in these places, you are encouraged to see the beauty by the lack of distractions.

But that is not why I want to take up some of your time here.  I want to point out that this boat with these people on it has been doing this for over eight years.  The crew has changed over the years but the business plan has always been the same.  While I (and I suspect you as well) have followed the proscribed “get a degree – get a job – get a pension – get retired” business plan, they have launched off into the unknown trusting to their skill and luck to get them to places that I can only dream about.  They have accepted that the world is a changing place and that old paradigms are unlikely to provide the same risk/benefit rewards that they did in the past.  Their conclusion is that they can do it a different way.  A better way?  Only time will tell.  They certainly won’t get a pension out of all of their effort, but then neither will your children.

My point is this.  You had to make your way in a changing world.  Maybe you were successful.  Maybe you failed.  Don’t denigrate those who chose a different path for the world that they are forced to accept as a given is not the world that you found.  That’s not your fault and it’s not their fault.  It has always been like this and it will always be like this.  Maybe the only way to measure their success is by the number of perfect moments.

Oh, and I learned that you can get your internet over Single Side Band for free.  There is that.

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BB
BB
March 30, 2018 1:57 pm

Meatballs ,I think I know what you mean.A couple nights ago I was having a perfect moment driving thru the mountains in Montana Until a deer jumped in front of my truck. My perfect moment was shattered in a moment. Dead deer and about 3000 dollars damage to my truck.

kokoda the Deplorable Raccoon and I-LUV-CO2
kokoda the Deplorable Raccoon and I-LUV-CO2
  BB
March 30, 2018 2:57 pm

Great comment

rocky raccoon
rocky raccoon
March 30, 2018 5:07 pm

Anyone with a ham radio that does single side band can access Winlink for email, weather updates, maps, etc. There are stations situated around the world that serve as access points. The data rate is very slow but it works well for simple content to be transmitted. So, if you find yourself without internet access but you have a ham radio, you can still do email. You can download RMS Express for free to use as the control program to interface between your radio and computer. I’ve had a few perfect moments, some of them were while sailing, which I consider as close to a perfect sport as you can get. The video does an honest portrayal of sailing, thanks for the link.

TPC
TPC
March 30, 2018 5:42 pm

I haven’t had the happiest of lives. There has been violence and loss, pain and suffering, hatred and anger….but its shaped and molded me, to the point where I feel blessed beyond measure in what I experience today.

I’ve hiked, fished, and ridden horses through a generous swath of this country, from coast to coast, and even into the blue water on the edges. I’ve been on a sailboat in the middle of the Caribbean, with nothing but the wind and surf for company. I’ve used my saddle as a pillow while my horse fought his hobble to try for the grass on The Other Side Of The Fence. I’ve seen babies born, and bright-eyed graduates beyond measure.

I’ve seen cancer take people in the most awful of ways, and seen families rip themselves to shreds over the stupidest of things.

Your life is full of perfect moments. Remember and cherish them for what they are, not what you would have them be.

Hollywood Rob
Hollywood Rob
March 30, 2018 6:03 pm

Thanks folks. Those are great insights and perfect moments.