You Should Still Go: Don’t Let Fear Rule Your Life

Authored by Daisy Luther via The Organic Prepper blog,

Three mass shootings occurred in the last week in America and it’s starting to feel to many people like nowhere is safe. “I’ll hunker down at home,” they say. “I won’t go to Wal-Mart,” they vow. “I’m going to homeschool my children,” they decide.

And right now, that might feel like the safest choice. After all…

You can’t even go get school supplies at Wal-Mart without getting shot at.

You can’t go out for a drink without getting shot at.

You can’t go to work without getting shot at.

You can’t go to a concert without getting shot at.

You can’t go to school without getting shot at.

You can’t even go to church or mosques or synagogues without getting shot at.

You can’t go to a festival without getting shot at.

You can’t go to the movies without getting shot at.

I could keep on going with that list of seemingly innocuous activities where people died. What the heck is this world coming to when these ordinary activities can turn into life or death situations? It’s enough to make you wonder if you should just stay home.

I don’t think you should just stay at home.

Unless your home is truly the only place you want to be, you shouldn’t let fear hold you captive. And that’s what I’m reading a whole lot right now. People are talking about never going to Wal-Mart again or never going to the sites of other shootings again.

And that is letting fear win. That’s letting these little terrorist punks have the last laugh. I, for one, simply refuse to do that, and I’ve written about it before.

If I stop going to concerts or movie theaters or festivals in the park because it might get blown up or shot up, isn’t that letting the terrorists win? I will do my very best to be alert and situationally aware, but by gosh, I’m not going to sit at home out of fear. I’m not going to convince myself that home or my small town or my country are the only places that I can be safe.

Why make your world small because of those people?…

…Just remember: bad things can happen at your local Piggly Wiggly when you’re there picking up a bag of potatoes. It can happen at a gas station when you stop to fill up. It can happen at your child’s piano recital. It can (and has more and more recently) happen at your place of worship.

Bad things can happen anywhere. And you need to be aware of this.

But you don’t need to give up your dreams of travel (if that is a dream of yours – it might not be) and you don’t need to limit your shopping to Amazon because there might be a mall shooter. You don’t have to wait a year for movies to show up on Netflix if you enjoy going to the theater.

It really sucks that so many people out there want to harm innocent people, but when you change your lifestyle because of them, they’ve won. And that’s sad indeed. (source)

A lot of people have changed their lives because of shooters and terror attacks.

People who used to travel stopped after 9/11. Some because of the attacks themselves and others because of the formation of the TSA. People who used to go to the movies stopped after the horrific attack in Aurora, Colorado. People stopped attending sporting events after the marathon bombing. People pulled their kids out of school due to all the shootings.

People stopped visiting Paris and London because of terrorists. They stopped going to concerts because of the Vegas shooting and the attack on Ariana Grande’s concert in England.

I think that locking ourselves into smaller and smaller worlds is a sad thing indeed. You should not change your life because of fear. You should get out there and celebrate being alive.

Obviously, some people really never wanted to go to concerts and movies and France in the first place and that’s fine too. I’m talking to the people who are regretfully declining to do things they really wish they could do.

Prepping doesn’t mean you need to create a prison of your own making. Prepping does not exclude traveling, attending events, or going to the store. It simply means that if you are out and something bad goes down, you’ll be ready to move into action fast. Some preppers disagree with my philosophy and that’s fine. We all have to make our own decisions and set our own limits.

I want to really live my life. And I can do that while still being prepared.

When terrorists win, they become bolder.

Just like any other bully, if you let these terrorist and mass shooters terrifying you into staying home and not living your life, they’re just going to get worse. They’re only going to become bolder until one of these days, taking your trash to the curb on garbage day is a life-threatening activity.

Ted Anthony of the AP wrote an excellent essay about this called “You Can’t Just Not Go.”  Here’s an excerpt from it:

Are regular places safe anymore? Should we assume that they are?

There are, loosely, two types of reactions that sometimes overlap. One is to back off some, to take more precautions. One is to be defiant. That’s the approach that retired Marine Richard Ruiz, a Gilroy native, says he’s seen in Gilroy in the week since the garlic festival shooting.

“The thing that has changed in Gilroy is our focus,” said Ruiz, 42. “No one is showing signs of being worried or fearful in public. We’re emboldened. We want to go out more.”

In Squirrel Hill, the Pittsburgh neighborhood where a shooter killed 11 people at Tree of Life Synagogue last fall, a commitment to doing exactly that has helped ensure that civic life remains vibrant. There is little visible change except for the “Stronger than Hate” signs in some shop windows that encourage two things — a return to normal life and a commitment to never forgetting…

…the conversations that now take place — Should we go? Should we take the kids? What’s that noise? — reflect a society that, no matter people’s political beliefs, is starting to process what’s taking place in its midst.

This year marked two decades since two student gunmen killed 12 schoolmates and a teacher at Columbine High School outside Denver, a watershed moment in mass shootings. Sam Haviland, who was a junior at Columbine in 1999, knows other survivors who are fearful in public places or avoid them completely. After years of post-traumatic stress, she chose a different path.

“I decided that I didn’t want to live in fear and that I can’t control it, and so I’ve just come to terms with the fact that I may not be safe in public,” said Haviland, now director of counseling for Denver Public Schools. “The number of shootings since then has just reaffirmed for me that, you know, it’s a real possibility that shootings — that I might even survive another shooting.” (source)

Don’t let these sick people filled with hate ruin your life. Don’t allow them to keep you imprisoned in your home, no matter how wonderful that home might be. If you want to do something, don’t let the fear of a twisted, cowardly shooter keep you from doing that thing.

Should you go?

We all have to make our own decisions about how to handle the uptick in dangers and uncertainty in America. As for me, I’m still going. I’m still going to watch movies in theaters and go to festivals in the park and attend concerts. I’m still going to shop at a mall. I’m still going to travel all over the world every chance I get.

I’ll be cautious. I’ll be observant.  I’ll be prepared mentally and physically should a mass shooting or terror attack occur. I’ll be ready to defend myself, ready to escape, ready to de-escalate, ready to fight back. But I will not be imprisoned by fear.

Maybe I’ll do all these things and something bad will never happen. Maybe if something bad happens, I’ll survive. Maybe I won’t.

But I will go. I will not let fear rule my life.

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16 Comments
MrLiberty
MrLiberty
August 6, 2019 12:22 pm

If it encourages tens of millions of parents to homeschool their children then something WONDERFUL has come of it.

The U.S. is a Donkey Show
The U.S. is a Donkey Show
  MrLiberty
August 6, 2019 12:30 pm

Do you have submitting rights yet? If, so can you post this…

Wars and Domestic Massacres

I’ll do it later if you can’t. I’m a bit busy today.

pyrrhus
pyrrhus
  The U.S. is a Donkey Show
August 6, 2019 1:45 pm

Your kids shouldn’t be in the public schools, period…but as to the rest, the risks are trivial compared to many others you routinely take–but I personally avoid “gun-free” establishments…

You are a slave
You are a slave
August 6, 2019 2:38 pm

Mass murderers are only imitating their own government. What’s wrong with this picture?

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1) Soviet Union 61,911,000 Murdered by the Communist after being disarmed.
2) Communist Chinese 35,236,000 Murdered by the Communist after being disarmed.
3) Nazi Germany 20,946,000 Murdered the most advanced nation in the world.
4) Nationalist Regime 10,214,000 Murdered…by the Communist.
5) Japan 5,964,000 murdered by a corrupt regime.
6) Cambodia 2,035,000 Murdered by the Communist after being disarmed.
7) Turkey 1,883,000 Murdered by Muslim regime for being Christians.
8) Vietnamese 1,670,000 Murdered by the Communist after being disarmed.
9) Poland 1,585,000 Murdered by Communist for being Christians.
10) Pakistani 1,503,000 Murders by Muslim regime for being Christians.
11) Yugoslavia 1,072,000 Murdered by the Communist after being disarmed.
12) North Korea 1,663,000 Still being murdered by the corrupt regime.
13) Mexico 1,417,000 Murdered by a corrupt regime.
14) The U.S. government is to become the next killer government on this list.

TC
TC
  You are a slave
August 6, 2019 5:04 pm

I get the point of the meme, but Nazi Germany murdered 21M? Come on.

You are a slave
You are a slave
  TC
August 6, 2019 9:19 pm

but Nazi Germany murdered 21M? Come on.

I don’t know the exact numbers. Do you?

Lars Emilsson
Lars Emilsson
  You are a slave
August 7, 2019 4:59 am

Well, you don’t know the rough numbers either.

And it’s hard to make sense of your verbiage as to who murdered whom.

You made this exact same post in a previous thread and were properly rebutted.

You are a slave
You are a slave
  Lars Emilsson
August 7, 2019 7:45 am

Wrong:
It’s the fact that you are missing the entire point and using the straw man argument of exact accuracy in numbers to throw the baby out with the bath water.

There, I fixed it for ya and properly rebutted you.

TC
TC
  You are a slave
August 7, 2019 9:51 am

Sure, nobody knows exact numbers, but you’re off by at least an order of magnitude if not two.

You are a slave
You are a slave
  TC
August 7, 2019 9:55 am

If all of you straw man arguing board fairies say the numbers are so badly off, then why don’t you post the correct and proven numbers to disprove mine?

How about it puss-boy?

MrLiberty
MrLiberty
  You are a slave
August 7, 2019 1:11 pm

If they only kill 1, and you are that 1, then THAT number matters!

You are a slave
You are a slave
  MrLiberty
August 7, 2019 1:17 pm

True

DeltaLima
DeltaLima
August 6, 2019 2:52 pm

I’ll follow ole Uncle Remus at the Woodpile Report…stay away from crowds. I can celebrate life just fine without all the crowded, sweaty masses up on me.
As for removing your children from govt indoctrination centers…should have done that in the beginning. Home schooling is THE best option for children. I refuse to sacrifice then on the altar of “celebrating life” by trying to live life as “normal” and thereby exposing them to undue risk. That’s just dumb. My job is to protect them.
If enough people stopped taking to the air because of the TSA, then the airlines would be all over the govt to get rid of it. I will pass on the free “cop-a-feel” from those bottom feeding, paste eating, window lickers, thank you very much.
This article sounds much like the crap people put up just after 9/11. “Don’t let the terrorists win. Let then know we aren’t afraid of them.” As the govt takes our right to defend ourselves away from us. Get real. The worst terrorists are those in our govt.
Why do you think people move from liberal states to more freedom loving states? Should they stay in those liberal states as some sort of protest? Allowing their children to be fed “alternative lifestyle” propaganda from middle aged men dressed up like Tinkerbell? Or letting our daughters participate in a “condom race” by seeing who can put a condom on a banana the quickest? Yes, those things are happening.
This article is childish at best. And to think…You rubbed elbows with Selco?!

Mygirl...maybe
Mygirl...maybe
  DeltaLima
August 6, 2019 7:38 pm

Ho hum…I ain’t skeered, and I sure as shit am tired of being told to not worry and be happy even though a giant meteor, tidal wave, earthquake, nuclear war, Yellowstone Caldera, financial collapse, terrorist attack etc. and so on, could happen at any moment.

MrLiberty
MrLiberty
August 6, 2019 5:41 pm

I made the mistake of being in a Walmart on Sunday (the day before the government day prisons started back up). What a zoo. I would venture there were at least 5 dozen people in the various lines that could easily have “gone postal” if pushed just a little bit.

Mushroom Cloud
Mushroom Cloud
August 6, 2019 8:48 pm

Having to save my hard earned dollars by abstaining from seeing a movie in theater just to see it a year later on Netflix? Oy Vey! I may not be the most senior ( or cynical) regular on the site but I’m sure I will get a few upvotes by saying “get the fuck out of here newb!”… Who on this site actually wastes their time and money watching the latest indoctrination piece out of Perv infested Hollywood? Fear may not stop me from seeing the next Taylor Swift concert, but the fact that the little slut is bought and paid for by (them) will. Same goes for watching whatever dancing monkey is the latest big name in whatever sportsball league you waste your day of rest obsessing over, instead of spending time with your family, or bettering yourself.

Now last but not least the comment trashing homeschooling of our children: Once more, get the fuck out of here newb!

P.S. One positive note about homeschooling: you angry Luddites will be happy to know that I successfully thwarted any and all resistance from my wife, my wife’s family, and society in general about homeschooling and now my lovely little girls will be groomed for the real world by the people who should be teaching them: their parents. Huge thanx goes out to all on here who may or may not have given me that final push to blow up my little corner of the playhouse and raise my kids properly…