Who Cares About You?

Guest Post by Walter E. Williams

Who Cares About You?

During my student days at a UCLA economics department faculty/graduate student coffee hour in the 1960s, I was chatting with Professor Armen Alchian, probably the greatest microeconomic theory economist of the 20th century. I was trying to impress Alchian with my knowledge of statistical type I and type II errors. I explained that unlike my wife, who assumed that everyone was her friend until they prove differently, my assumption was everyone was an enemy until they proved otherwise. The result: My wife’s vision maximized the number of her friends but maximized her chances of betrayal. My vision minimized my chances of betrayal at a cost of minimizing the number of my friends.

Alchian, donning a mischievous smile asked, “Williams, have you considered a third alternative, namely, that people don’t give a damn about you one way or another?” Initially, I felt a bit insulted, and our conversation didn’t go much further, but that was typical of Alchian — saying something profound, perhaps controversial, without much comment and letting you think it out.

Years later, I gave Alchian’s third alternative considerable thought and concluded that he was right. The most reliable assumption, in terms of the conduct of one’s life, is to assume that people don’t care about you one way or another. It’s an error to generalize that people are friends or enemies, or that people are out to either help you or hurt you. To put it more crudely, as Alchian did, people don’t give a damn about you one way or another.

Let’s apply this argument to issues of race. Listening to some people, one might think that white people are engaged in an ongoing secret conspiracy to undermine the achievements and well-being of black people. Their evidence is low black academic achievement and high rates of black poverty, unemployment and incarceration. For some, racism is the root cause of most black problems including the unprecedentedly high black illegitimacy rate and family breakdown.

Are white people obsessed with and engaged in a conspiracy against black people? Here’s an experiment. Walk up to the average white person and ask, “How many minutes today have you been thinking about black people?” If the person isn’t a Klansman or a gushing do-gooder liberal, his answer would probably be zero minutes. If you asked him whether he’s a part of a conspiracy to undermine the achievement and well-being of black people, he’d probably look at you as if you were crazy. By the same token, if a person asked me: “Williams, how many minutes today have you been thinking about white people?” My answer would probably be, “Not even a nanosecond.” Because people don’t care about you one way or another doesn’t mean they wish you good will, ill will or no will. They just don’t give a damn.

What are the implications of the people-don’t-care vision of how the world works? A major implication is that one’s destiny, for the most part, is in one’s hands. How you make it in this world depends more on what you do as opposed to whether people like or dislike you. Black politicians, civil rights leaders and white liberals have peddled victimhood to black people, teaching them that racism is pervasive and no amount of individual effort can overcome racist barriers. Peddling victimhood is not new. Booker T. Washington said: “There is a class of colored people who make a business of keeping the troubles, the wrongs and the hardships of the Negro race before the public.

Some of these people do not want the Negro to lose his grievances, because they do not want to lose their jobs.” In an 1865 speech to the Anti-Slavery Society in Boston, abolitionist Frederick Douglass said that people ask: “‘What shall we do with the Negro?’ I have had but one answer from the beginning. Do nothing with us! Your doing with us has already played the mischief with us. Do nothing with us!” Or as Patrick Moynihan urged a century later in a 1970 memo to President Richard Nixon, “The time may have come when the issue of race could benefit from a period of ‘benign neglect.'”

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subwo
subwo
October 2, 2019 1:41 pm

As I told my son once, the only people that care about you are your parents until you find a mate (sadly, some parents don’t care). Then the wife will become the person that cares about you the most. With all life being economics people express an interest in you in order to part you with your money. That could be the unlisted robocall I just got that was a scam about owing taxes, to the young man wanting to talk to me about what kind of home security I had when I entered the big club store this week. This morning my wife received notification that there was no residual finding in the biopsy done after her cancer surgery but the oncologist still recommended full chemotherapy treatment being it was an aggressive liquid cancer. My wife, a former Oncology nurse will have to weight the treatment against the side effects that would have life altering changes for her or even the chance of lukemia development. But it is in the oncologist’s best interest to advocate full chemo because they are flying blind as to if there were any cancer cells remaining in her body. So I agree with Mr. Williams that most people do not care about you one way or the other.

Apple
Apple
  subwo
October 2, 2019 2:18 pm

Not that its related, but when i went to the hospital complaining i thought i broke my colarbone, xrays showed nothing. Newest chest xray for asthma showed i had a fused broken collarbone(cant spell clavical) that will need surgery for correction.

EC
EC
  Apple
October 2, 2019 2:38 pm

Since when is asthma diagnosed with x-rays? Or is it that you can’t spell COPD?

Eddie Haskell
Eddie Haskell
  EC
October 2, 2019 3:41 pm

EC, can you spell asshole?

U R 1.

EC
EC
  Eddie Haskell
October 2, 2019 4:39 pm

Eddie, it’s usually assholes who don’t like me. Are you gonna be an asshole?

'Reality' Doug
'Reality' Doug
  EC
October 2, 2019 5:41 pm

Hell yah, bitch!

Eddie Haskell
Eddie Haskell
  EC
October 2, 2019 7:30 pm

EC, I like you and would admit we both are assholes.

BTW, did you forget to wipe yourself again today?

EC
EC
  Eddie Haskell
October 2, 2019 9:34 pm

Do you have a venereal disease I should know about?

M G
M G
  EC
October 3, 2019 6:59 am

Well, I see you made all sorts of new friends and admirers while I was gardening.

Apple
Apple
  EC
October 2, 2019 10:03 pm

When you have incredible pain during an asthma attack and they have ruled out a heart problem, a chest xray is a diagnostic tool.

Chubby Bubbles
Chubby Bubbles
  subwo
October 2, 2019 8:27 pm

“It is in the oncologist’s best interest to advocate full chemo because..” at least at the time of my cancer diagnosis, they were the only medical professionals allowed to directly profit from the drugs they prescribe. The chemotherapy they compound and sell accounts for the bulk of their income, if I am not mistaken.

When I expressed doubts about the chemo I was prescribed, I was treated as though I were insane/suicidal, despite the clear medical-journal articles indicating only a 2% max. potential difference in 5-year outcomes for my stage and grade of cancer (to me, this is barely indistinguishable from statistical noise).

Oh, and the chemo I was prescribed to “mop up any potential rogue cells in circulation”??? It works by breaking up tumors and sending cancer cells into circulation. I wish I were kidding.

Never stop repeating to yourself: Their Agenda is Not Your Agenda.

Swiss Cheese
Swiss Cheese
  Chubby Bubbles
October 2, 2019 9:14 pm

Periodic chemo income coincides nicely with yacht payments.

Cheesesteak
Cheesesteak
October 2, 2019 2:04 pm

Brilliant

So true most people, even family members, do not give a flying fuck about you. My grandfather once described his idea of a friend as some who would “shovel shit against the wind” for you. I have had two friends in my life. One is my wife, the other a person I have worked with for 25 years. All the others, I would not trust them as far as I could throw them.

Apple
Apple
October 2, 2019 2:21 pm

It was a rude slap in the face saturday when i realized someone i considered a friend proved himself to be just an aquaintence. If your default answer is to lie to me when the truth would have been easy and non damaging to tell, we arent friends.

EC
EC
  Apple
October 2, 2019 2:36 pm

If your looking for friends here, you came to the wrong place, friendo.

Apple
Apple
  EC
October 2, 2019 10:05 pm

I’m not but thanks for playing fuck face

M G
M G
  EC
October 3, 2019 7:01 am

You are in a crabby ass mode here.

credit
credit
  Apple
October 2, 2019 3:37 pm

people who lie for nothing are generally sociopathic. stay away.

EC
EC
October 2, 2019 2:35 pm

I didn’t need a microeconomics degree to know that people think of themselves nearly 100% of the time. I learned that from old Pangloss who said he had no problem using a public stall that had no door. You might try to call attention to yourself by shitting in the street in front of a fancy restaurant but, after a while, the patrons will ignore you and get back to their own involvement with their cell phone. This was not a prize observation by Williams by any stretch of the imagination. We all know who number one is and it ain’t Trump. If you said ‘my wife’ I will think you are either lying or you need counseling.

First me and then me and then you but not for long.. – Old Pangloss

M G
M G
  EC
October 2, 2019 4:00 pm

Nick would include me. I would him too.

And Jacob, the Pyr.

But we are sort of “outliers” to standard curve.

Log Roller
Log Roller
  M G
October 2, 2019 5:39 pm

I’ll bet your Zip code also exhibits high kurtosis.

What you really are saying is that you are a nice person (we all know that), that you have a very good handle on the meaning of life and-more importantly-you practice what you preach.

Therefore, you are one hell of an outlier-and Nick is one lucky guy.

EC
EC
  Log Roller
October 2, 2019 5:42 pm

She’s my friend, Loggy, stop trying to cut in.

Log Roller
Log Roller
  EC
October 2, 2019 6:30 pm

Look, boy, turn your head while I get a little pinch-though I’m sure she will think it’s just you.

EC
EC
  Log Roller
October 2, 2019 9:36 pm

Give her one for me.

M G
M G
  EC
October 3, 2019 7:05 am

Do not make me get off my high horse.

M G
M G
  EC
October 3, 2019 7:03 am

What does kurtosis mean? No red squiggle so it is a word I have not heard.

EC
EC
  M G
October 3, 2019 12:24 pm

kur·to·sis

the sharpness of the peak of a frequency-distribution (bell) curve.

Log Roller
Log Roller
  M G
October 4, 2019 1:46 am

MG, there are different ways to use kurtosis as a statistical concept; one way is in helping to describe the tails of a distribution, normal or otherwise. You mentioned outlier and I thought of tails, which dovetail nicely with outliers.

But, you can go with EC’s description also (it will give him goose bumps if you do, though maybe not until he gets over his bitchiness in a day or two).

M G
M G
  Log Roller
October 4, 2019 8:39 am

Tails of the distribution, not the shape of the peak.

It seems everywhere I go I see people guiding children around who are obviously limited intellectually. It makes me wonder if that was an intended consequence?

M G
M G
  Log Roller
October 3, 2019 12:03 pm

Hello

Ginger
Ginger
October 2, 2019 3:26 pm

“Name’s Smalls. Leonard Smalls. My friends call me Lenny… only I ain’t got no friends.”

credit
credit
October 2, 2019 3:39 pm

i would offer up my life in an instant if necessary for my children and grandchildren. i believe any normal human would do the same.

'Reality' Doug
'Reality' Doug
  credit
October 2, 2019 3:49 pm

lol ‘normal’ lol We are all the same, or should be. lol whewwww Preach n save. Preach n save. My dear rattlesnake, have you been ‘saved’? lolllzlzuzlzluzzlzl Don’t travel much? lol

credit
credit
  'Reality' Doug
October 2, 2019 4:33 pm

normal in this sense would mean having the desirable and common human capacity of empathy. perhaps you don’t.

'Reality' Doug
'Reality' Doug
  credit
October 2, 2019 5:38 pm

Thankfully, not any more. Folks like you will happily be culled. Good riddance. Your sympathy gene is an abomination.

M G
M G
  'Reality' Doug
October 3, 2019 7:07 am

Travel?

M G
M G
  credit
October 3, 2019 7:07 am

I think any human raised in a healthy family environment would do so. Some of the current populus do not have the prerequisites.

James the Deplorable Wanderer
James the Deplorable Wanderer
  credit
October 4, 2019 8:25 pm

If the situation arose, I suspect I would offer up someone else’s life for the safety of my children and grandchildren. Probably, whoever was causing them life-threatening circumstances in the first place!

'Reality' Doug
'Reality' Doug
October 2, 2019 3:51 pm

Smart for a black guy just stopped working for me some time ago. Debating remedial prerequisites for civilized unity just ain’t gonna work.

M G
M G
  'Reality' Doug
October 3, 2019 7:08 am

Wow…you said “prerequisite” too.

M G
M G
October 2, 2019 3:58 pm

I enjoyed the excellent essay, WW, and think we are beyond the “benign” stage and will require an “actively malignant neglect” to rid ourselves of the issue of race.

But I also fear “neglect” is impossible.

Voltara
Voltara
October 2, 2019 7:30 pm

It’s a blessing. Your fears, regrets and guilt are imaginary. You’re the only one thinking about your failings

you kids get off my lawn!
you kids get off my lawn!
October 2, 2019 9:20 pm

your friends may find your company congenial and share the same outlooks on life but that doesn’t mean they will let you couch surf at their house if you become homeless, friendship is predicated on both parties conforming to a set of expected behaviors. Your spouse may profess undying love for you (today) as long as you exhibit the behavior society expects of you. If you want undying devotion and affection, get a pet.

BB
BB
  you kids get off my lawn!
October 2, 2019 9:57 pm

Damn you people are hard core but I know you are right.

M G
M G
  BB
October 3, 2019 7:10 am

You missed out BB…Paula would have rocked your world!

EC
EC
  M G
October 3, 2019 12:28 pm

Little BB rocks BB’s world. It’s hard to compete with a little pussy, just ask Yokes.

M G
M G
  EC
October 4, 2019 8:47 am

I would like to point out to you the language around here has cleaned up significantly regarding cat references. I can only think someone grew appalled at some of the lingo NOT directed at me. But BY me.

Hippos sometimes submerge in the crit.

Now, if some more of these freeloaders we try to engage and entertain would PONY up with a few dollars we might get rid of some of the bare butt ads.

I guess nips are legit now…SCOTUS says so.

James the Deplorable Wanderer
James the Deplorable Wanderer
  M G
October 4, 2019 8:27 pm

Was it SCOTUS, or Tenth Circuit? Think it was the latter, so only legal in certain states. By the way, Utah is one of those states, but not seeing any takers yet….

M G
M G
  James the Deplorable Wanderer
October 4, 2019 8:35 pm

Tenth circuit…but it made me think about perusing National Geographic as a kid being horrified at the stretched breasticles on natives.

Barebreasted did not look so good.

Apple
Apple
  you kids get off my lawn!
October 2, 2019 10:07 pm

Theres a heap of truth