I drink and drive quite often. I’ll go to my parent’s house to have a wonderful German dinner cooked by mom, and have a couple German beers … maybe three. Or, we’ll go to a restaurant, and I’ll have a couple glasses of wine … maybe three. But, I never give it much thought because at 6’7” and about 270 pounds, I figured I don’t have much to worry about in terms of blood-alcohol levels.
So, I don’t believe I drive drunk … at least not in the past forty years. I’m positive I drove drunk more than a few times as a young man in my 20’s … going to bars, and picking up babes. Or, more likely, going to a bar to shoot some pool with my buddies, and staying until the 2AM closing … boozing and smoking for the past five hours. I might have been inebriated then. I was young and stupid. Then again, getting a DUI wasn’t THAT big a deal back then. Pay a fine, get some points, have your insurance premium jacked up … and then go on, life as usual.
I don’t know exactly what the penalties are today … except that they can be severe. Exactly HOW severe I did not know until very recently … via a friend of ours. Perhaps this short story will save someone’s ass down the line.
We have a friend, let’s call her “Christine” (not her real name). She is a single woman (divorced) in her 40’s, with two children. She lives here in NJ, in a nice upper middle-class community. She is a high school science teacher. She does have a couple traffic violation tickets. But, other than that, she has no criminal record whatsoever. Christine is a very petite woman; about 5’2” and – I’m guessing – 110 pounds, soaking wet. Just your average, upstanding, hard-working citizen.
A little while ago she agreed to meet a man in New York City. They had previously “met” on match.com, exchanged emails for a while, then spoke over the phone for a while more, and they finally agreed to meet. The “meet” went OK. He bought her TWO glasses of wine (I have ZERO reason to disbelieve her) over the course of about one hour, they agreed to meet again, and then they parted ways.
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