The Suppressio​n of Happiness

The Suppression of Happiness

happiness

One of the great errors of freedom people (myself included) is that we’ve sometimes based our arguments on less-than-optimal grounds.

What I mean is that we argued for freedom on political or legal grounds. And while those arguments were generally accurate and valid, it was a relatively poor line of argument.

Our arguments on economic grounds were somewhat better, but they still missed the largest and clearest areas of human experience.

A stronger strain of argument, in my opinion, involves happiness.

Defining Happiness

Happiness, of course, is a subjective thing. A new car might make one person very happy but be a burden to another (or to that same person at a different stage of life).

Furthermore, happiness is very often temporary. People think they’ll be happy if they win the lottery, but that rush of happiness lasts only a short time, then fades away. Lottery winners are happier than other people for a few weeks, then they return to normal – or worse. The same goes for similar cases.

Long-term happiness is what we would be wisest to pursue. But this type of happiness – which we generally think of as satisfaction – requires things of us. In particular, it requires good choices, the courage to make them, and good information to base them upon.

The best definition of the long-term happiness I know is a paraphrase of Aristotle. It goes like this:

What makes us happy is the exercise of vital powers along lines of excellence in a life affording us scope.

Let’s break that down. Three things are required for us to be happy for the long haul, all of which must be present together:

  1. Vital powers.
  2. Exercise along lines of excellence.
  3. A life offering us scope.

What We Have, What Is Taken From Us

Of the three items listed above, two are innate to us:

We are born with vital powers. Unless we’ve been seriously damaged, these are already ours. We may develop them or allow them to atrophy, but they are inside of us and not directly assailable by anyone else.

Exercise along lines of excellence is something that we can do and should do. This depends upon us and our choices. We control this ourselves.

A life offering them scope is where the problem lies. Our lives have been massively restricted, and that directly restricts our happiness. That’s such an important thought that I’d like to restate it:

Restrictions of human action are direct restrictions of human happiness.

And please forget knee-jerk reactions like, “We have to restrict criminals!” That’s a non-issue, and, more importantly, it’s a brain hack.

Go ahead and restrict your criminals, but don’t restrict me with them.

There is no sane reason restraints upon criminals have to be applied to everyone else at the same time.

No one has any moral right to restrain you, unless and until you harm others.

Other Restraints

There are plenty of natural obstacles in our world that limit a man or woman’s scope. We require food, shelter, sleep, clothing, mates, and so on. And that’s precisely why we must be unrestrained in all other ways. We need to employ our talents to overcome these problems… then, hopefully, to expand our horizons.

The more restrained we remain, the more impoverished and unhappy we remain.

To restrict peaceful humans is to directly restrain their happiness. It also directly restrains their talent, and that impoverishes the future, including billions of humans yet unborn. It is among the worst crimes imaginable, yet it is presented to us as an essential.

Our happiness is being stolen from us daily, and the justifications for this crime – if ever we examine them – are quickly seen as mere fear and inertia.

It’s time that we started playing a different game.

Paul Rosenberg

[Editor’s Note: Paul Rosenberg is the outside-the-Matrix author of FreemansPerspective.com, a site dedicated to economic freedom, personal independence and privacy. He is also the author of The Great Calendar, a report that breaks down our complex world into an easy-to-understand model. Click here to get your free copy.]

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Econman
Econman
March 29, 2014 12:06 am

Anyone who wins the lottery, please feel to unload all your unhappiness-inducing paper wealth on me and you can then experience fulfillment – vicariously through me.

El Vato Loco
El Vato Loco
March 29, 2014 12:28 am

coke can give you a rush of endorphins but once used up, you come crashing down.

any high is like that. the thrill of a roller coaster is in the acceleration.

Stucky
Stucky
March 29, 2014 1:09 am

Humans are obsessed with happiness. Whether that’s good or bad, I do not know.

I’ve read a few “happy” books …. the main one being “The Art of Happiness” by Dalai Lama … twice,cover to cover.

Everybody has these “secrets”. Or, “10 steps”, or whatever. Psychologists and behavioral scientists write books about it …. hundreds of books … one guy even supposedly identified a “happy gene”. Most religions have something to say about happiness. They make movies and documentaries about it.

There is MUCH weariness in learning happiness!!

Guess what? I am going to reveal MY secret …. what works for me. I do not like Abe Lincoln. No, not at all. But, that doesn’t mean he can’t be quoted. He has said some some interesting and powerful things. So here it is …. The Art Of Being Happy in 13 words.

“Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

Think on this next time you’re sad.

Sensetti
Sensetti
March 29, 2014 1:41 am

I just walked out of a Cher / pat benatar concert it was fantabulous. They both rocked the house, Cher is amazing for her age. It made me very happy, all the beer did not hurt either.

bb
bb
March 29, 2014 8:15 am

Happiness is a feeling that will come and go depending on your circumstances.JOY is what you want.

hardscrabble farmer
hardscrabble farmer
March 29, 2014 8:22 am

We did our first boil of the year yesterday. The temperature in the sugarhouse was over 100 and the steam was so thick you were perpetually soaked through to the skin. Standing in front of the arch feeding a cord and half of wood into it over 8 hours was hard, hot work but through it all the air was redolent with the scent of maple and the sound of happy voices. You could see the twinkly lights threaded through the rafters winking on and off in the steam, the children came in and out with buckets of snow and cold drinks chattering like birds as our friends worked around us doing whatever needed to be done. The syrup came off the evaporator in boiling draws every half hour or so and we marked the gallons on the old wall in pencil, right next to last years tally and just to the left of the 1932 records. We talked about a thousand things and finished up just as it got dark to homemade ground beef and cheese fritters.

It was the kind of work you would probably not do for any amount of money if you did not love doing it. But being there, making a years worth of male syrup with friends and family on a cold day in March in a cramped little sugarhouse on the side of a mountain brought me the kind of happiness that no amount of money could ever purchase.

To each his own.

Welshman
Welshman
March 29, 2014 9:21 am

HSF,

Soaked to the bone, “Sweat Happy”.

Realestatepup
Realestatepup
March 29, 2014 10:17 am

When I sit back and think about what I would really like to “do” with my life, selling real estate is not it. Yes, it pays this bills and affords me a lot of flexibility and free time. But it’s a brain drain and brings me up-close and personal with what’s really going on in this economy on a daily basis, and that can be depressing and discouraging at times.

No, what I really would like to be doing is living on my own farm, free from government regulators, free from the dangers of GMO cross-contamination, raising animals humanely. Raising heritage veggies in good soil, without the use of tons of chemicals.

I would love to have locals stop and be able to buy fresh produce and grass-fed, free range beef, pork, chicken, and eggs. Raw milk, too.

I am a part-time chef, and would love to cook farm-to-table right in my very own barn on a warm spring or summer night, utilizing food from my farm.

Alas, in this “land of the free” I have a better chance of finding Atlantis.

ASIG
ASIG
March 29, 2014 12:49 pm

Happiness is earned accomplishment.

archie
archie
March 29, 2014 7:13 pm

this is a bit of a clumsy article, but it’s great that he brings up aristotle. i would simply read aristotle himself if you want an alternative view on “happiness”, which for the greeks meant a kind of flourishing. winning the lottery or getting laid really has nothing to do with happiness in this sense. what aristotle lays out in “The Nicomachean Ethics” is that happiness has to do with fulfilling our “proper function” as humans. god gives us a mind, so to live our lives stuffing our faces and getting laid does not fulfill the function unique to humans. after all, all sentient creatures stuff their faces and get laid. it follows that a slave, or anyone who lives a hedonistic live, for aristotle, cannot be happy. he distinguishes between moral excellence and intellectual excellence, both of which, when pursued, are proper paths towards this flourishing as humans. aristotle’s treatment of the subject is quite greek, as opposed to christian, but is well worth reading.

if any of you home school or augment your child’s education, aristotle’s ethics and his companion piece, “The Politics”, are excellent. no doubt plato’s books are easier to read, but in my view aristotle is leaps and bounds better.

TeresaE
TeresaE
March 29, 2014 8:11 pm

Happiness is not a place, time, or thing.

It cannot be “found,” though I do believe you can do things to welcome it more easily into your life.

Although I totally believe that fear, intimidation, harassment and punitive punishments are happiness draining and stress inducing.

No fucking wonder we are drugging (illegal and legal), drinking, eating, playing and spending ourselves to death.

Yes the government and the way we are governed are the exact opposite of what is needed to have a happy, successful, hard working, prideful for a reason, society.

We will be left with the outcome, sick, sad, stupid, distracted, fat, in debt and soon, dead to soon.

So it goes. I choose to find happiness everyday, no matter what, it keeps me sane.

Stuck’s right, it kinda is a choice.

Econman
Econman
March 31, 2014 2:12 am

Cher? I heard that guy has still got it. Lol