Done Been Girled: The Price of Matriarchy

The United States has embarked, or been embarked, on a headlong rush into matriarchy, something never before attempted in a major country. Men remain numerically dominant in positions of power, yes, but their behavior and freedom are ever more constrained by the wishes of hostile women. The effects have been disastrous. They are likely to be more so.

The control, or near control, extends all through society. Politicians are terrified of women. The president of an Ivy university is fired, and replaced by a woman, if he makes the obvious observation that women are not much good at mathematics. Women dominate the schools and universities. A Nobelist in biology has to apologize profusely for having said that in laboratories women cry when criticized. Women have forced the lowering of standards for hiring police and firemen, for the military. They have made life miserable for small boys. The beat goes on.

The pathological egalitarianism of the age makes it career-ending to mention that women in fact are neither equal nor identical to men. The differences are many and most of them are obvious:

Women are less curious than men. They will learn to drive or use a computer, but will have no idea how either machine works.

They are totalitarian. A man is willing to let girls be girls and boys be boys. Women want all to be girls or, more accurately, to behave according to female standards.

Men enjoy competition; women deplore it. “Let’s have a cooperative game led by a caring adult.”

Men prefer freedom to security; women, security to freedom. Wear your helmet on your bike. Use sunscreen. Dodge ball is violent and dangerous. Don’t swim without a lifeguard.

Women prefer emotion to substance. College is now more about feeling good and social arrangements than about academics. Note that if a man suggests that women are not terribly good at math, they do not respond with counterevidence, which would be substance. They become furious, and get their way by what amount s to a vast hissy-fit.

Women hate each other; men do not. In any office, for example, ninety percent of the interpersonal problems will be between women.

Men are more intellectually engaged than women. Note that in think-sites of the web, such as The Unz Review, both the writers and the commenters are overwhelmingly male.

Women have more emotional range than men, being both kinder and meaner. A woman is more likely to care for a hurt puppy. In a divorce, she will be much more vicious than the man. He wants to get out, she wants to get even.

Women have less intellectual range than men. Fewer women than men are extremely stupid, and fewer women than men extremely smart; the disproportion increases with IQ, there being almost no women at the highest levels. This is the glass ceiling.

Women are subject to hysterias; men are not. (For readers under fifty, “hysteria” comes from the Greek for “womb.” The ancient Greeks thought the condition was caused by a disorder in this organ. It isn’t, but they had they knew in which sex it occurred.)

A pertinent example is the current fascination with imaginary rape. Further, they are more obsessed by far than men with political correctness, which is also a form of totalitarianism and a search for security.

Women now hate men; men just wish women would shut up.

It is the nature of women to complain, endlessly, of everything. This has been a staple of comedy from Xantippe to the present. The meddlesome, complaining mother-in-law is a stock figure, not the father-in-law. The language reflects this. It is not called “bitching” because men do it. Likewise we have shrew, nag, scold, harridan, virago, vixen, fishwife, termagant, and henpecked.

Women want to intrude on men, to leave them nowhere to be exclusively among other men. Men do not reciprocate this.  If men try to open, say, a bar only for men, women explode. If women wanted to open a bar exclusively for women, men would not care.

Women have a poor sense of social boundaries or, in plain English, of knowing what is and what isn’t their concern. It amounts to generalized mother-in-lawing. In Mexico, where I live, it is invariably American women who want to tell Mexicans how to manage their society. A man cringes at the thought. Mexico isn’t his to run, and he knows it.

It is worth noting that women have little understanding of men.  They may say, resignedly or ruefully, “Boys will be boys.” They have no idea of why boys are boys. They know how to manipulate men, yes: Flash a leg, stick their chests out, cry, or act helpless. They don’t understand men any more than a bear trap understands bears.

Women, puzzlingly to a man, do not seem concerned with performance or effectiveness. They must know that a woman who cannot carry her end of a stretcher should not be half of an ambulance crew. Yet if barred from the job, they resort to political pressure and have the standards lowered.

Certainly it is not from lack of concern with the patient. Women are more compassionate than men. Rather they seem not to make the connection between hiring standards and carrying an unconscious victim from a burning building. Similarly they do not want men to be killed in combat. Somehow, and this is a mystery to me, they cannot see the downstream consequences of having soldiers who cannot handle the physical demands. Short time horizons? Inability to imagine anything so alien to them as combat?

In reading the news, note that almost invariably it is the females of the species who complain of microaggressions, of “triggering” words that make the feel unsafe, of uncomfortable environments and the like.

In the past, when men were in control of women and directed them, women were of great value to society. They were fine teachers, having absorbed the masculine idea that school was about learning things. An admixture of male teachers and principal insured discipline, which women on their own could not—being controlled is not the default mode for boys—and so there was no need for the police to drag boys from school. Today women make good doctors, dentists, and shock-trauma nurses. It is only when they begin to make policy instead of effecting it that disaster befalls.

Differences so profound will affect political choices profoundly, as witness the conversion of the schools into misandrist hives for the promotion of appropriate thought or, more correctly, appropriate feelings. The desire to protect anyone but white men from any offense, however mild, is both totalitarian and mildly lunatic. It now dominates national life.

Where will this lead? Stay tuned.We are going to find out.

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flash
flash
July 25, 2015 8:26 am

@ admin..yep! Fred nails it. We are currently reaping the poisonous fruit of the societal disaster that is the 19th amendment.

“If we took away women’s right to vote, we’d never have to worry about another Democrat president. It’s kind of a pipe dream, it’s a personal fantasy of mine, but I don’t think it’s going to happen.”

—Ann Coulter, Oct. 2 New York Observer
http://johnrlott.tripod.com/op-eds/WashTimesWomensSuff112707.html

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hardscrabble farmer
hardscrabble farmer
July 25, 2015 8:35 am

Reading that was like looking at a cloud. There is no argument, it is what it is.

I sometimes wonder what it must be like for someone who disagrees with Fred to read what he writes. He points out each falsehood with clarity, supports every assertion with facts; what could be going on in their mind other than a boiling anger that everything they believe in is not rooted in any kind of objective truth?

flash
flash
July 25, 2015 8:47 am

if you want a glimpse of the future of a world driven mad by the domineering influence of creatures of chaos , see here: best viewed in full screen with sound cranked..

flash
flash
July 25, 2015 8:52 am

On another level, Sonmore, despite himself, reveals something important about feminism. It is not about “equal opportunity” or any of the various liberal catch-phrases he recites. Feminism is a symbolic and psychic punishment of men for millennia of patriarchal rule. Men must endlessly engage in sadomasochistic ritual and role playing in order to extirpate the sin of once governing society. http://www.radixjournal.com/blog/2015/7/17/feminism-a-definition

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Muck About
Muck About
July 25, 2015 8:57 am

@HS: Reading Fred Reed is an exercise in stretching your mind. Just like reading Hardscrabble is an exercise in real world living and life.

I enjoy both tremendously. Your posts don’t evoke the controversy that Fred’s do but then that’s Fred. He (as you, I suspect) have climbed the mountain and crossed the river. You both came up with a message – his is just different than yours.

I prefer yours as a life choice. I like his to keep life interesting.

Best to you and yours on the farm..

MA

overthecliff
overthecliff
July 25, 2015 9:46 am

Fred, I’m a big fan. I love the way you poke dragons with sharp sticks. You have gone to far this time. You must hide your welfare is at risk!!!!

Llpoh
Llpoh
July 25, 2015 10:11 am

My biggest complaint with women is that if you speak to them the way they speak to you, all hell breaks lose. But men are supposed to take what they dish out in silence.

Stucky
Stucky
July 25, 2015 10:39 am

America Today …….

Race Divisions — (whites vs blacks vs Hispanics vs Asians, and every combination thereof)

Sexual Divisions — (straight vs homos vs lesbos vs transgendered vs Mormons, etc etc)

Political Divisions — (Dems vs Repubs vs Independents vs Libertarian …)

Religious Divisions — (Christian vs Joo vs Mooslim vs atheists vs agnostics vs Wiccas …)

Worker Divisions — (Unions vs non-union vs blue collar vs white collar vs ..)

Class Divisions — (Upper class vs middle class vs poor vs FSA vs 1%ers)

I just LOVE ‘Murika!!

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Thank You, Fred, for adding more logs to the fire. Let’s drive a wedge between men and women. Really. I was starting to run out of people to hate. How could I forget … WOMEN!! Fuck ’em!! No, really … that’s what they’re good for, and cooking. Way to go, Fred!!!

Can’t wait for the normal misogynist fuckers here to vote this down. I know who you are.

Also, looking forward to what TPB’s women-folk have to say.

Anonymous
Anonymous
July 25, 2015 11:05 am

Being a woman, I agree with the article. Something else I have noticed is that men and boys are less curious as well. They too will learn how to drive a car without ever concerning themselves with it’s inner workings.

taxSlave
taxSlave
July 25, 2015 11:08 am

My wife thinks that if only women ruled the world, there would be no more wars because women have children and would not send them to die.

Ha!

Hitlery, Nuland, Rice, et al.

But this does not convince her. Rational logic is just out of reach.

Lets get this straight – human nature can be good and it can be evil. All colors all sexes, all whatevers.

Capn Mike
Capn Mike
July 25, 2015 11:24 am

@TaxSlave –

Many years ago I had the same exact conversation with my now ex. At that time I brought up Golda and Indira. Crickets and the couch that night.

VegasBob
VegasBob
July 25, 2015 11:30 am

I’m white collar with degrees at the bachelor’s and master’s level.

I learned about what makes cars go nearly 50 years ago.

But the 50s and 60s were an era when men were still allowed to be men, instead of the feminized pussies most men have become.

Fred says and I agree that women want to get even.

A Higher Power of some sort will surely need to help this country if the American people are stupid enough to elect that evil bitch Hitlery Clinton to the Presidency.

Olga
Olga
July 25, 2015 11:30 am

No comment.

Persnickety
Persnickety
July 25, 2015 11:34 am

In other news – water is wet.

Oh, wait. Fred’s rant is actually news, simply because we’ve had three generations of people claiming that water is NOT wet, no one has proven that water is wet, and if water is just given half a chance, water will in fact be DRY. Not surprisingly, California leads the nation in showing that water is dry.

jamesthewanderer
jamesthewanderer
July 25, 2015 11:40 am

Microagressions and feeling unsafe are one thing. REAL aggressions and vulnerability (to thugs of whatever kind) are another, and those who worry about the first will wonder what hit them when they experience the second.
We have been too long fat, happy (sort of) and lazy; it brings the opposite reaction forces, causing starvation, sadness and requiring action just to stay alive. That’s what’s coming: another round of survival. Our parents worked long and hard to generate a world that would be easier to earn a living in; we will yet work longer and harder just to eat. “Environmentalism” will see to it that corporate jobs are scarce, along with over-regulation and crony capitalism.
People who are busy with staying alive don’t worry / care much about “social justice”, “income inequality” or race. They care about eating, staying warm and fending off threats. We will find out what’s important when what’s important comes looking for us, due to our neglect.

Southern Sage
Southern Sage
July 25, 2015 12:06 pm

Loved it. Perfect. Absolutely…..Fu—–…….True. I think the next time I run into the God damn eunuchs who have brought us this situation with women I will punch him in the nose. Thanks Fred, for a wonderful summation of a modern problem.

flash
flash
July 25, 2015 12:12 pm

“The male orientation of classical Athens was inseparable from its genius. Athens became great not despite but because of its misogyny.”

Men are run ragged by female sexuality all their lives. From the beginning of his life to the end, no man ever fully commands any woman. It’s an illusion. Men are pussy-whipped. And they know it. That’s what the strip clubs are about; not woman as victim, not woman as slave, but woman as goddess.

Let’s get rid of Infirmary Feminism, with its bedlam of bellyachers, anorexics, bulimics, depressives, rape victims, and incest survivors. Feminism has become a catch-all vegetable drawer where bunches of clingy sob sisters can store their moldy neuroses.

Western culture from the start has swerved from femaleness. The last western society to worship female powers was Minoan Crete. And significantly, that fell and did not rise again.

― Camille Paglia

Araven
Araven
July 25, 2015 12:33 pm

Yet another rant by a man who has no clue. Men in this society are pussies. Wah wah wah – it’s all the women’s fault – it’s all the black’s fault – it’s all the immigrants fault. Fred and all the rest of you, stop your whining about everybody else and get off YOUR ass and do something or quit your whining.

There are a few psychopathic women at the visible top: Hitlery, Carly, etc. But the vast majority of TPTB psychopaths running things are men. So the bullshit so-called feminist movement that is ascribed to by a few misguided women is actually not just allowed but controlled by TPTB MEN because it distracts you from what they are really doing and Fred and all you other pussy men are falling for it.

Thank you Stucky for being a voice of reason in this.

bb
bb
July 25, 2015 12:58 pm

As this 4th turning grows more intense women (even feminist) will begin to sense the danger they face as society falls apart.They will know they need some protection from the criminals and thugs stalking them .The economic collapse that’s coming will put an end to this feminist bullshit. A lot of women will for the first time see how vulnerable they are.(a lot of men to )

Realestatepup
Realestatepup
July 25, 2015 1:10 pm

As a general commentary on wacky women, this article is spot on. As a woman, I hate whiny, clingy, manipulative, neurotic women too. I have two female friends because I don’t want more. I don’t like the competitiveness, the jealousy, the back-handed compliments, and they way they will, if given the chance, have sex with your significant other.
Other women will want you too look bad, gain weight, get divorced. They will say “oh no, that’s terrible!” to your face while behind your back they will gossip about it and secretly be glad.
When I was contemplating divorce, my men friends said “move on, he doesn’t love you” straight up, didn’t sugar-coat it, or blame me or him. The few women who knew gave me all this stupid new-agey advice and just tore him up (so I can only imagine what they were really saying about me when I wasn’t around).
As far as the other aspects of women, such as a lack of inquisitiveness, that may be true, but I find that more and more men don’t give a hardy crap about how things work, I think this is more about our society as a whole throwing everything away rather than fix it. My pepe, who people called “Mr. Fix-it” used to take in all the toasters, coffee machines, irons, etc from all the neighborhood little old ladies. This was back in the mid to late 70’s and the 80’s. He fixed them and didn’t charge very much.
Keep in mind, women learned how to actually cook, sew, and keep a clean house all without the use of a roomba, swiffer, or microwave. My meme could do all these things include knit and crochet. She actually knew how to fold hospital corners.
Women were just as inventive as men, just in different way. Now, women have waaaay too much time on their hands (in my opinion) despite the constant belly-aching about trying to raise their one precious snowflake in today’s world of safety standards and peanut allergies. Men too. No one is going out to weed anything, kill anything for supper, shovel coal into anything.
Bottom line? Our priorities now consists of worrying about what everyone else is doing instead of what we are doing. Facebook, Twitter, and all the other social media nonsense as well as 24-7 MSM drivel has given us all the idea that we are entitled to this and deserve that, and how dare anyone have a differing view point.
Should women have the vote….sure, but like anyone else voting they should have 1. A job. 2. Support themselves with said job as well as their dependents. If they choose to be in a relationship where their role is parent, then the other person should be still supporting them financially and the children they have. 3. Pay taxes. That’s it. Those three things will make a person sit up right quick and realize that all the free shit being promised is not free.
As far as some of the other points made, I can find faults with them sure, or point to other “groups” that do the same thing, but it doesn’t matter, Fred was making a point about women.
Remember folks, it takes two to tango, and you have been along for the ride with us, so the blame is equally shared for the massive clusterfuck we are all in right now.
Men and women are equal as far as life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. We are two sides of the same coin meant to COMPLIMENT each other, work together, for success, not undermine each other.
That’s where we have gotten off the rails. Men first for the domination, suppression, and oppression of women, and now women for their nagging, vilifying, blackballing, and overall bitchy-ness to get what they want. Which can vary depending on the time of the month. Sorry ladies, you know it’s true.

Stucky
Stucky
July 25, 2015 1:18 pm

“But the vast majority of TPTB psychopaths running things are men.” ———— Araven

BADA BOOM!!! BADA BING!!!! Let’s put a number to “vast majority”. I’d say a MINIMUM of 90%. Men ,,, fucking up everything they touch. But, they will ignore this. Why? Facts are inconvenient truths.

You cocksucking faggotfuk 43 thumbs down voters … 90% men, certainly …. I wonder how many of your sisters, daughters, mothers, and wives know that you secretly hold them in contempt.

Every single one of you dick-pullers can go suck diseased donkey dick. You loathsome pieces of shit … with all due apologies to shit.

M.I.A.
M.I.A.
July 25, 2015 1:46 pm

You cocksucking faggotfuk 43 thumbs down voters … 90% men, certainly – Stucky 1:18 pm

From the time I started reading your last post at 0+ and 0- and finishing 45 sec later you picked up an outstanding 32 down votes – This has got to be a TBP a record.

flash
flash
July 25, 2015 1:48 pm

LMAO….apparently Stuck’s barometer has a defect..

Stucky – I haven’t seen you so worked up about a topic in quite some time. You’re hell-bent trying to “win” this one … even though you are getting your ass kicked (based on down votes).
On a site where you generally agree with people on issues, you COULD use it as a barometer which indicates you are on the wrong path on this particular issue.

USA Is Training FOREIGN TROOPS To Subdue Americans When TSHTF

flash
flash
July 25, 2015 2:08 pm

womynz haters gonna’ hate…right Stuck?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZMtlE_0rew

Welshman
Welshman
July 25, 2015 2:15 pm

Stuck,

You are batting a 1000 LOL.

Fred,

Good post and spot on.

Araven
Araven
July 25, 2015 2:32 pm

HSF I dare you to show this and your response to Mrs HSF and get her opinion.

EL Coyote
EL Coyote
July 25, 2015 2:35 pm

Llpoh says: My biggest complaint with women is that if you speak to them the way they speak to you, all hell breaks lose. But men are supposed to take what they dish out in silence.

I wont go into the subject of the beautiful blonde, it would take me a week, but you hit it on the nail head.

Just yesterday I went to the JIB, got my drink, went for the paper towels and all of the last half inch paper towels came out. the fat white old bitch who is only one shart away from people of Walmart says, Great! I try to put half of the napkins back and she tells me, Don’t, they’re dirty. I ask in a meek voice, they are? Yes, they are dirty now, she says in a matter of fact voice. I walk away wondering how they can be dirty if I washed my hands prior to waiting for my burger. Is it because I’m black? Do I look like her ex-boyfriend? What? A dude would never talk to me like that without the risk of getting nutted.

Olga
Olga
July 25, 2015 2:36 pm

Two hours but worth it.

A woman discussing the global financial crisis – I believe her website is The Automatic Earth.

Stucky
Stucky
July 25, 2015 2:40 pm

flash

I don’t need to “win” anything.

It show happens that women-folk are one the few remaining demographics I don’t hate. Hate … it’s what TBPers are good at. Me, included. Sure, I despise Feminists and their ilk. But, Fred is waaay over the top with his generalizations. I love my mom, Ms. Freud, and my grand-daughter. Fuck you and the horse you rode in on if you think I’ll just stand by and keep silent amidst all this woman bashing. Not that I expect to convince anyone … especially you, the defacto Leader of the Women Suck Club.

I very STRONGLY suspect the thumbs down are manipulated. There haven’t been 43 comments here all day … and I get them within literally minutes???? Yeah … manipulation. Admin might have the power, but I can’t see him stooping that low. Maybe someone has an IP-scrambler and the software here thinks it’s a unique address every time they vote. Whatever, it is clearly a bogus number … so, I’m not convinced it’s a barometer of anything.

Because if it is, then I’m outta here for good. I’ve taken “breaks” before, but always come back because for the most part this is a place where I feel “at home” with my opinions, and those of others — TPB shit-fests, notwithstanding. But, IF that changes, well, fuckit. Because — trust me on this — I really really really will not hang around a place where I find no common ground with people on key issues. Who needs that shit? Do you? I sure as hell don’t.

starfcker
starfcker
July 25, 2015 2:51 pm

Come on stuck. You get tons of love from me and everyone else here. You’re the man. Tissue?

Zarathustra
Zarathustra
July 25, 2015 3:04 pm

What Fred said about divorce is absolutely 100% fact.

Realestatepup
Realestatepup
July 25, 2015 3:06 pm

@bb….so true, so very, very true. When TSHF and there are actually real roving gangs of rapists instead of the imaginary ones it will come as a huge shock.
Solution I found will usually work: shotgun. Solutions that will not: magic locking underwear, pepper spray, whistles, and most of all, sensitivity training.

flash
flash
July 25, 2015 3:07 pm

Stuck, the every rule has exceptions as anyone who has employed women before knows,…..You seem to overly sensitive on this subject.. Have you considered testosterone therapy? …jus’ sayin’…

flash
flash
July 25, 2015 3:27 pm

BTW, Stuck. What would TBP be if everyone agreed with every comment you , I or anyone else made made? A BORING echo chamber is what.

I welcome the dust -ups and quite enjoy them. I used to bounce around on liberal and neocon sites posting ant-collectivist points of view , but like you they can’t stand dissension either and after a few comments banned me. TBP is the only site where I’ve been allowed to speak my peace and for that I’m totally grateful to admin.This is definitely the best of the best of the old School Wild Wild Web and I hope it stays that way.

I really find it ______________ that you would use a veiled threat of leaving again just because you got gamed on this thread. I had no idea thumbs up or down meant so much to you.

That. said.I know you help out admin with a lot of heavy lifting around here , so in the future I will do my best to totally agree with you on every subject by sending thirty or forty thumbs up your way.

So keep on keeping on. Peace.

flash
flash
July 25, 2015 3:38 pm

admin..I did most of it , but not all,just to prank Stuck.I had no idea he would take it so serious.

EL Coyote
EL Coyote
July 25, 2015 3:51 pm

It just may be that he is wearing that lovely green dress, he certainly wore it well when he sided with La Maggie the other day. Testosterone therapy can lead to cancer in addition to raging hard-ons and just plain rage. Maybe we should let sleeping dogs lie. I try to. Now I have Stuck on one shoulder and Tim on the other. I don’t know what to do but my inner bb says, Fuck it – I gots to write.

EL Coyote
EL Coyote
July 25, 2015 3:54 pm
flash
flash
July 25, 2015 3:58 pm

seems fitting for this thread.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4SDVkdcO8ts

EL Coyote
EL Coyote
July 25, 2015 4:03 pm

400 children and a crop in the field..

Stephanie Shepard
Stephanie Shepard
July 25, 2015 4:24 pm

Its sad Fred’s generalization of modern women is true. I always hated having a female boss. They were always cliquish and would start drama with their female employees. They couldn’t take ANY criticism. If an idea was even suggested as to improve something they would take it as criticism or an attack.

I am as anti-feminist as they come because I believe anytime women put them in a position to compete with men they are going to fail. A woman is not a weaker version of a man, we have our own strengths. But put in a position to be compared to men (Equality!!!) makes us a weaker version of men.

In the past I’ve idolized women who excelled at being women. I think one of the most successful women of the 20th century was Lucille Ball. She was brilliant at comedy (face it, feminists are funny) by making being a woman funny. She was the first woman to create her own studio along with her husband and took over Desilu after their divorce. I remember seeing a Barbara Walters interview with her from the 1970’s in which Barbara was trying to go all pro-feminists on Lucy about her achievements in television. All the while Lucy keep reiterating her greatest achievement and her proudest accomplishment was motherhood.

Another one of my favorite women was Anne Marrow Lindbergh. She not only was the wife of Charles Lindbergh and the mother of 6 children, she was also a pilot and an author. She flew her own solo flights as well and was the first woman to earn a first-class glider’s pilot license.

Stephanie Shepard
Stephanie Shepard
July 25, 2015 4:25 pm

Above typo- I meant feminists aren’t funny.

EL Coyote
EL Coyote
July 25, 2015 4:42 pm

If anything good has come out of the feminist culture, it is that women are free to act in a mature fashion. I can’t watch ILL without wincing at her machinations and underhanded dirty tricks and lies as she tries to get around her husband’s orders.

Instead of liberating women, the movement has diminished all Americans, now we all have to lie and scheme of ways to get around President Ricky Ricardo who has decreed our normal everyday language as sexist and racist. I guess we will have to go back to grunting and farting. that’s still legal, no?

(A little background for LLPOH, my old bosses had a habit of terminating a meeting tht wasn’t going their way by farting, it dispersed the crowd quickly. One of them had a habit of grunting when he was displeased with what you were saying.)

Montefrío
Montefrío
July 25, 2015 4:46 pm

@Pup

Your three voting requirements left out the one I’d put first, for men and women both: genuine literacy.

Been married twice: number one fell victim to feminists and remains single and silly (trust fund baby) 29 years later; number two couldn’t bear bearing on the other side of the ocean from her daughters and in a sad move for both of us returned to her native place eight years ago, but we remain good friends to this day and have both found new partners.

Many of my longest-standing male friends are pussy-whipped to a degree I’d find shaming, but they simply refuse to do anything about it. I guess I admire their loyalty in standing by their no-longer-attractive, whining wives, but damn, I’d have tried to do something about it!

Oh yes: my present partner is a Latina, a professional, a super-mom and at nearly 55 still a head-turner, so I … Oops! She’s calling me! Gotta run!

Stephanie Shepard
Stephanie Shepard
July 25, 2015 4:48 pm

“If anything good has come out of the feminist culture, it is that women are free to act in a mature fashion. I can’t watch ILL without wincing at her machinations and underhanded dirty tricks and lies as she tries to get around her husband’s orders. ”

Uh, what kinda of women do you know? That is female behavior and instead of doing it with charm women now behave the same way only in a aggressive manner. Female behavior itself never changed it just morphed into angry combative behavior.

Hey El- Have you seen the movie Gone Girl?

EL Coyote
EL Coyote
July 25, 2015 5:15 pm

Will make note of that movie.

I know the beautiful blonde, she fits into your description: Female behavior itself never changed it just morphed into angry combative behavior. It would take a week to enumerate her foibles but aggresive, check. user, check. narcissist, check. bossy, check. opinionated, check. narrow minded, check. dumb, check. oh, let’s just check everything off and save time.

My comment had to do with the same thing I wrote in another article, it was that some stuff that passes for humor is the character of a non-white male – be it female or ethnic who acts like a fucking hand-licking dog. Lucy Ricardo falls into that category. You don’t.

bb
bb
July 25, 2015 5:20 pm

Admn , I’m not smart enough to change my IP address multiple times. Now my smart phone has a mind of its own. Sometimes I think it achieves artificial intelligence on its own. Any way I over all agree with Stucky.It’s the Damn Marxist feminist that I find disgusting.

EL Coyote
EL Coyote
July 25, 2015 5:25 pm

Your phone is self-aware, sometimes when your not looking, it writes intelligent comments that get lots of thumbs up.

IndenturedServant
IndenturedServant
July 25, 2015 5:27 pm

Liberals are always interfering with the natural order of things. I see my wife (and women in general) as someone who compliments my strengths and balances out my weaknesses and I see myself as doing the same for her. Men+women form a whole that creates strong, confident, compassionate and balanced children.

As far as modern men not knowing how to fix things or understand how shit works………that’s the fault of women first for divorcing the fathers of their children and then doing away with auto shop and wood shop and everything else that boys love because it’s too dangerous etc. I believe that nearly all of my mechanical curiosity and aptitude came from my happily married father. Dad being broke/poor probably had something to do with it too but us kids were always hanging out with dad and he was always doing manly things like building or repairing things. Had my parents been divorced I doubt I would have been exposed to those things.

Dear old dad was also my living example of how to treat women. Mom was owed respect simply for having given birth to me and every woman was owed respect until she proved she did not deserve it.

Having said that, the majority of the married men I have known in my life are scumbags in my opinion. They will fuck anything that moves including a knothole in a tree if it sways enough. I even knew a guy once who claimed he would fuck anything as long as it was still warm so I understand why women divorce men. Personally I want to fuck far more of the women I see than not but I don’t because I made a commitment to my wife and that speaks to my integrity and makes me deserving of her trust. Based on observation, most men have no fucking concept of integrity or trust. You can take away every single thing a man has including his life but you cannot take is integrity. Integrity has to be given away, sacrificed or surrendered.

I think women and men want integrity in their spouses but both sexes are severely lacking in this regard and it grows worse with each generation. I’ve noticed that people with long, happy marriages tend to have integrity. A lack of integrity is why I have so few people I consider real friends.

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