Submitted by Mary Christine
I don’t blame men for looking elsewhere for more conservative minded women. A good marriage is a lifetime blessing and the worse thing about it is when a spouse dies, the surviving spouse has to learn how to live alone. The young women in the US are frightening and hopefully we can educate them out of the madness or we are doomed. Most young men can’t afford to go abroad to look for a suitable partner.
Passport Bros: Feminists Are Outraged At Men Going Overseas To Find Traditional Wives
If there is one defining characteristic of the average western feminist it is their propensity for turning their personal problems into everyone’s problems. Meaning, they have a habit of projecting their insecurities and outrage on the rest of the world, weaponizing their own unhappiness and turning it into an activist movement. If they are miserable, other people are not allowed to feel content; that would be unfair.
It is for this reason that modern feminism is often accused of being an ideological cult for narcissists. Everything about it seems to be designed to elevate and appeal to the worst kinds of people. Not only that, but the belief system is now so pervasive in western countries, especially among the college educated, that 60% of women say they identify and agree with the “common definition” of feminism, even though the common definition does not match the behavior and motives of most feminists.
This percentage changes, of course, depending on the specific tenets related to feminism, but in most polls at least 30% of women in most western countries embrace the majority of third-wave feminist concepts. The number of feminists also spiked dramatically between 2013-2018 (though this momentum has stalled in recent years). The point being, if you are a western man seeking to avoid feminist insanity and find a woman with traditional values your task is becoming incredibly difficult in your home country.
Enter the “Passport Bros”, a movement of men in the west (primarily American men) traveling outside their countries to find wives in foreign places known for more traditional women that defy feminist taboos. The movement has gained exponential traction and attention in the past year as most countries are finally lifting covid restrictions, allowing more men to travel.
Breaking from the notion of “mail order brides” which has existed for decades, Passport Bros are going overseas with the intention of marrying outside the US as a way to avoid crushing divorce laws. The strategy also makes them less likely to be exploited by foreign women only looking for access to US citizenship. It is this key difference which has feminists in the west outraged.
While the mail order bride concept has been criticized by feminism in the past as being “exploitative,” feminists often joke that foreigners are “only using American men” to get green cards and then divorce them to take half of their wealth. In other words, they find it amusing for men to look for love on the other side of the world only to be treated by foreign women the same way they are treated by American women. But the PB movement avoids this dynamic, which is making feminists angrier than ever.
Their reaction is rather revealing. The above is just a sampling of the salt that has been directed at Passport Bros in the past several months. Mainstream platforms are beginning to pick up on the trend and woke journalists are equally incensed. Clearly, the concept has hit a nerve, otherwise they would not go through the trouble of attacking it in the first place. But the core question is – Why do they care?
Perhaps, because the gender power dynamic that feminists are so obsessed with is shifting in favor of men (at least in their minds), therefore, Passport Bros are an unacceptable development that needs to be shamed and squashed before they lose control. Attacks are often directed at foreign women, who feminists describe as uneducated, poor, ignorant and desperate.
This is projection, considering many of the women marrying Passport Bros speak multiple languages and have college degrees in useful career fields. The arrogance of this thinking aside, the suggestion insinuates that the men leaving for happier shores are not good enough to date in the US, that they are “afraid of strong independent women” or that they are predatory. Once again we have to ask, why are feminists so angry about these men looking elsewhere?
Another go-to attack is to dismiss PB culture as nothing more than “sex tourism” or “sex trafficking.” But the purpose of the movement is specifically to find a marriage partner with similar political, social and religious values. If Passport Bros simply wanted prostitutes they would stay in the US where feminists are prevalent. Because these women do not embrace feminist values, feminists see them as automatically inferior and “in need of saving.”
There is certainly something to be said for the strategy of non-participation; walking away from a game you can’t win and making your own rules is a powerful tool for defeating oppressive socialist movements that demand increasing public compliance in order to survive. The reason why US men would leave the country to avoid women influenced by feminism is not a mystery.
While most women are mercenary by their biological nature (hypergamy), American women tend to be the most expensive. Studies show that the majority of women around the world prefer a man with a larger annual income, but the magic number for a man to be desirable in the US is in the six figure range, preferably 200K and above, which is in the top 5% of earners. However, the median income for men in the US is around $60,000.
Add in expectations of physical attributes (height above 6ft and physically fit) and the pool of single men that western women desire plummets to around 1% or less. The mental disconnect between what women think men should earn vs the national average is delusional. They have limited their options down to finite group of potential partners while never asking themselves what they bring to the table in return? This is where the immutable rules of supply and demand kick in.
Keep in mind that these expectations are not only reserved for high income women; most American women regardless of background seek out this 1% of men, and all of them believe that they are capable of catching these men even when competing with younger and far more attractive peers. The female fantasy of trapping “Mr. Big” and living a life of luxury and ease while also remaining “strong, independent and sexually liberated” is a specifically western feminist trope. And though it seems to run contrary to the feminist ideal, it makes sense from their point of view.
Feminism treats men as oppressors, but ironically it also treats them as a utility to be used. Why not shame men into being submissive and acting as breadwinners if possible? This double standard is causing American men in the middle of the financial spectrum to leave and look elsewhere.
Beyond the money issue is the problem of feminist indoctrination. The primary goal among feminists? It’s not happiness, it’s power. While presented as a crusade for equality, there are already equal rights for women in the west. So, feminism has instead become a license for destructive behaviors including childishness, lack of self awareness, inflated ego and the view that being diplomatic in a relationship is a weakness. At the same time they see aggression as a sign of “strength and independence.” A belief system of self absorbed vanity removing the key component of femininity that men look for (nurturing) makes a successful marriage impossible.
The promiscuity and lack of personal responsibility promoted by feminism also plays a major role in the fading marriage prospects of women in the US. Studies show that women with extensive sexual histories and more sexual partners tend to have less happy marriages once they settle down.
It should be noted that some feminists in the US are attempting to start their own “Passport Sis” movement, going overseas looking for marriage. They are failing miserably, discovering that men in foreign countries put up with their combativeness far less than their American counterparts. There is also no parallel movement of foreign men flying to the US to seek out American women. Meaning, woke western women are considered the bottom of the barrel by men in their own countries and they are not sought after by foreign men either.
Instead of reflecting on their own flaws and ideals as the cause of this trend, feminists instead do what they always do – Try to sabotage the happiness of others and bottleneck all social discourse through their own narrow filter of the world. If you stay and court them, you are evil. If you walk away from them, you are evil. So, why not walk away?
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3 rules for young men searching for a wife.
1)Cooking cleaning and gardening a must and cleaning catfish and chicken is a necessary skill, too.
2) Say no to a career women. You’re only marrying your competition.
3) She must either be Christian or ready to convert.
Cleaning catfish & chicken!??? 😳
Skinning Deer and scaping scalded hogs would be helpful , too.
Oh my. 🤢🤢
Maybe you can marry HSF??
LOL that was funny
Maybe you can learn some skills other than spewing inane gibberish on the internetz ?
Can God hater and fag even be separated ?
You GOD is a figment of your imagination and a neurosis if taken seriously by a human being. Obviously, your proposition that God haters and fags are always coexistent forms is asinine. You think you know shit about shit and want to be seen as a leader. You stupidity is eclipsed only by your egotism.
You’re God is not real. If you were with the real God, you would know you have nothing to fear, but you obviously don’t know that. You are a psychologically abusive menace. Now that I am older, I know that I am a higher form of life than you mentally and culturally, and you may fuck off. I am amused.
Smarter people than you think God is real, fag retard …
Grow a braincell, moran.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Christians_in_science_and_technology
Out with the old. You Christcucks have taken us as high as you can, and now you are in the way. Nice of you to skip the late Roman Empire and the Middle Ages of subjugation and superstition. We will do better without you.
Tries to argue the truth or falsehood of god in two paragraphs on the Internet.
We are amused.
And man learned to use language.
Oh my! 🤣🤣🤣 I’m dyin here!
Aren’t we a cheeky monkey?
Something deep down inside of you ain’t wholesome, farmer.
Deer are easy, hogs much more work for sure!
catfish is a must – but chicken – maybe he means cock
Maybe you’re a shit for brains that thinks all chicken comes from the Wallymart frozen section ? Heads up…some people still grow they’re own ..smh.
You sense retardation without understanding that it’s just the way you were born.
1 Peter 3
3 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands
Better to live on the corner of a roof than to share a house with a nagging wife
Proverbs 25:24
Ephesians 5
Your post and Eyes Wide Shut both reflect that the Love of our Mate is a reflection of our love of God.
If both husband and wife selflessly follow their God given roles stated above it will be a marriage made in heaven.
If one or both selfishly don’t it will be one made in hell.
I know there is an OT book that beautifully describes the mutual responsibility of husbands and wives, but I am drawing a blank.
Song of Solomon
also Prov 31:10-31
I prefer my women inflatable.
‘Retard’ Doug, is that you?
Flash there’s only one rule to get married.
Don’t!
MGTOW
MGTOW is kinda like feminism for men -utterly pathetic.
Given men’s predilection for liking sex I would imagine the leadership of MGTOW is all gay
Don’t forget splitting and stacking cord wood.
Cool, where could I find one? Those breeds seem extinct already.
My husband must be the world’s best biggest idiot !
I am none of those things you mentioned, although I do love to cook.
I am not Christian. I am a career gal.
Yet, my husband and I just celebrated our 35 th anniversary, we have raised four lovely, wonderful kids, and we are pretty darn content.
I guess I just am stupid.
So you are contentious, loud, rough and impure and you get along great.
Your husband’s a very lucky guy.
3) yeah but I don’t want my kids to end up as pussies
I remember a 300 pounder libtard telling me she doesn’t need to lose weight because she’s already married. Her husband’s happiness meant nothing to her.
More than likely married to a nigro who doesnt work and has a half dozen hoes to bang on the side, them mooches crack money from them for his services.
No, both were white. He was just as beta as you could possibly imagine. You could barely hear him when he spoke. Very agreeable with everything his wife said. It was so sad & pathetic. I wanted to slap the shit out of him every time I saw him. For some reason, he triggered anger in me.
She obviously had a crush on him.
That’d only work one time.
What a great article. I had the great good fortune to marry a foreign woman (Colombian), beautiful, educated, loving, and traditional. I watched so many colleagues married to American witches who deeply regretted it. Divorced, stripped of their money and children, humiliated. I have not had one day of regret.
Obviously, if you can find a decent, normal, traditional American girl, fine. My son did, thank God. But otherwise, look elsewhere. Hint: Stay away from Venezuelan women, no matter how beautiful they are. Heartless mercenaries for the most part. Colombia is a far different country.
Look for women who have a decent education, a stable life, and who are level-headed. English? They can learn it.
It give me enormous pleasure to see feminist American harpies twisting slowly in the wind from the rope they put around their own necks.
Hey, girls. You will live out your lives alone and miserable, smelling like a Kitty Litter box and gulping down stale Trader Joe wine. You deserve it.
No. They have been badly lead. They can be redeemed. I know: I was one.
So you’re a woman who is now reasonable toward men. You epiphany was at 40? Likely story.
Source: https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/03/30/rules-of-the-road-for-fornication/
Red pill men are well aware of the female strategy of post-wall penitence and the beta captain save-a-garden-implement.
Tim Tebow found a beautiful South African bride. He could have had any woman he wanted.
Here are their children…for now.
I suspect she is a femme fatale, meaning a woman with top 1% (or less?) seduction skills and a bent to use it as a ‘serial killer’. The emotional journey is amazing, until it’s not. Kim Kardashian is certainly one, maybe the best. Lauren Sanchez, Pattie Boyd. The (((system))) makes these women important to be destructive role models, professors at Teenybopper U. “If you wanna be my luver, you have got to give.”
I don’t know…she may be different. Yes, she was a South African model, but they both say they were virgins when they got married. They met at one of Tebow’s charity events. She now attends those events with her husband and dances with boys (in a fun happy way) who have down syndrome. (her sister had downs & died recently) They both seem like really good people. And, they both seem pretty happy in their marriage. He was VERY picky about who he chose to spend his life with. She’s very traditional.
Also, they are both very close to their families. They spend the majority of their time with them.
Here is her sister. She took very good care of her before she died.
Maybe Tebow is not as naive as he seems, Abigail. I trust you have the social facts better than I do. All he had to do was not swing his back leg or play TE and he’d have had a career in the NFL. He really wore his Christianity on his sleeve. It’s not like he was the only Christian in the league, but it made flash swell with excitement. If the Tebow’s stay married for 8 years, then I will give Tebow’s judgement the benefit of the doubt. Today I doubt, which will have zero bearing on the results. Even if she is all that, the matrix never sleeps. Hopefully, it is a happy and solid marriage.
He did date a lot of women in Hollywood…who some even complained that they could not get Timmy to sleep with them. So, I think his character is pretty solid & that he knew exactly what kind of woman he wanted – which was NOT a whore.
If they ever split, then yeah, it will be a gut punch to my ideals.
As you can see, I like the man a lot. He is one of the most solid stable men in the public eye, that I know of. He’s impressive, IMO. (not talking about his football skills – which, btw, used to have season tickets to the Broncos when he was there and he was MARVELOUS to watch on the field, if you know what I mean. 😎)
I know what you mean, AA. You were available then. She ain’t got anything on you.
Lol. Well, thanks. 🥰 I screamed as loud as I could in the stands, but I could never get his attention!!
I approve of her, though…if we couldn’t be together. At least he didn’t end up with Taylor Swift! Can you imagine?? She is batshit crazy. No man should end up with that nut.
Anyhoo, enough with the celebrity gossip or you’ll begin to think I’m a shallow idiot like the lot of them.
Right? I don’t understand the crazy people that flock to Swift concerts! Hundreds of $$ for tickets. That’s insane!
Doug…AA…
Check it out….
Wow. I didn’t know that.
He was a homeschooled kid, ya know.
Noble, those providers of home schooling.
He has quite a story as does his mom.
I know! I’m so impressed with their story. Doctors recommended to abort him!
Just proves that doctors suck ass!!
mark, those are some amazing statistics from that guy in the vid. I did not find a link to the source for such amazing things. Forgive me, God, but I am not chasing more Christian windmills. If you good Christians have those goods, let’s see them. In such case, could those figures be made up? Nah.
Doug,
Here you go buddy!
I have had a Psalm 91 life saving miracle…and a Psalm 34 business being saved and then Father getting saved just before his deathbed combo miracles during a back to back phone call and e-mail…seconds after a two part prayer…my two miracles were supernatural – just not on TV. (Long stories).
GIG!
Good is Good.
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TEBOW PHENOMENON GETS EERIE…
https://www.espn.com/nfl/story/_/page/10spot-divisional/tim-tebow-phenomenon-gets-eerie–adam-schefter-10-spot
There’s no need to embellish in this story. Facts speak for themselves.
On Jan. 8, 2009, in the BCS Championship Game, then-Florida quarterback Tim Tebow wore eye black with the inscription John 3:16, a reference to the Bible passage that says, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”
On Jan. 8, 2012, three years to the date that he caused millions of football fans to Google the meaning of John 3:16, Tebow played his first NFL playoff game, against the Pittsburgh Steelers. And…
Tebow threw for 316 yards.
Tebow averaged 31.6 yards per completion, the highest single-game postseason completion average in NFL history.
Ben Roethlisberger’s second-quarter interception, which led to a Matt Prater field goal and a 17-6 Broncos lead, came on third-and-16.
The Steelers finished the game with a time of possession of 31:06.
And at the time Tebow threw the game-winning 80-yard touchdown pass to Demaryius Thomas — the NFL’s longest postseason pass in overtime history — CBS’s final quarter-hour overnight ratings were, yes, a 31.6.
Now, some people believe in UFOs; some don’t. Some believe in the afterlife; some don’t. Some believe in coincidences; some don’t. And some people believe in the power and talents of Tebow; some don’t. But there can be no denying that the events from Denver’s wild-card win over Pittsburgh are downright eerie.
When this string of 3:16 facts was relayed to one NFL executive this week, he paused and said: “Is that right? I’m converting.”
That’s how many people feel now. Tebow is winning more converts with each win. What Denver did in beating Pittsburgh behind Tebow was hard to imagine, but maybe it should not have been. The Broncos were the sixth team in NFL history to reach the postseason with a point differential of minus-50 or worse in the regular season — and all six of those teams won their first playoff game.
But — and here’s why Broncos fans should worry — each of the previous five lost its second playoff game. Denver is trying to buck that trend Saturday night in New England against Tom Brady and the Patriots. If anyone is capable of doing it, it would seem to be Tebow, who has made history that no other player has. But this will be the biggest challenge of Tebow’s career.
People can argue about whether Tebow is a bona fide quarterback, whether these 3:16 numbers are accidental, but one fact is beyond argument.
With Tebow as their starting quarterback this season, the Broncos are 8-4, including a wild-card win over the defending AFC champions. There’s no arguing over who will be Denver’s starting quarterback entering the 2012 season.
THE 3:16 STORY FROM | Tim Tebow
680,294 views Jan 31, 2019
Tim Tebow has a long list of accomplishments. He is a Heisman Trophy winner. He is a National Champion. He is a first-round draft pick in the NFL. He is an author of a few books. He is the leader of a life-changing foundation. But before all of that, he is a follower of Christ. It was 2009 and Tebow was playing college football at Florida. He was weeks away from competing in the highly televised national championship football game when God led him to write John 3:16 under his eyes for all the world to see while he played. What happened next was no coincidence, but God working through a small act of courage that God used to do amazing things. Find more of Tim’s resources here:
https://www.lifeway.com/en/contributo… Check out more from LifeWay Voices: https://lifewayvoices.com/ The entire video is above, and the partial transcript is below.
We’re getting ready to run out of the tunnel. And as a football player, so often it is really tunnel vision. It’s the next thing, the next thing, the next thing. You can’t afford to step back and look at the big picture because you can just lose focus. So so many times, it’s just locked into the next thing I have to do. Well at this moment, I really felt like God was putting it on my heart to change the verse. I was like, “Really? Right now?” But I kind of stepped back for a second and realized that if we won, we’d be playing in the national championship and that would be maybe the biggest stage that I would ever get to change the verse and put something meaningful on there. So we were blessed to win and the next six weeks leading up to the national championship game, I was contemplating, really agonizing, over what verse I was going to go with.
But God kept bringing to my heart and my head John 3:16. Because as a Christian, that’s the essence of our Christianity, it’s the essence of our hope. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him will not perish, but have everlasting life.”
That’s what we believe in as Christians. So I decided that’s the verse I’m going to go with. … But it’s amazing how big the God is that we serve. He took something that I did three and half years ago, to make a decision to put Philippians 4:13 and then change it for one game. But I thought, “Hey, this is really cool. We impacted some people, but it’s done.”
But no, God has an awesome plan. He has an awesome plan and you might not even see what He’s doing. You might not even know how He’s working.
But the amazing thing is, when we step out and we show a little courage. We step out and we show a little boldness, what God can do with it in our lives, through our lives. But He’s a big God. He’s a big God and He can perform miracles.
He can perform miracles. I really believe that He wants to. You have to understand, the God of this universe loves you so much that He sent His Son to die for you. If He loves you that much, is He not going to want to fight for you? Is He not going to want to fight with you? Is He not going want to come through for you? Now that doesn’t mean that life is going to be easy. It’s not. But it means that it’s going to be worth it. It means that it’s going to be worth it.
Doug…my back up must be blocked…Admin will free it soon…have to let him know.
Check back tomorrow, he will free it.
tl;dr – You’re not converting me to a cog for Jewish predation, buddy. I’d rather die than have eternal life filtered by Jews.
More bad argument is not better arguing. Christianity is a lie and Christian culture warriors are liars doing the work of the JWO. Faith can explain everything, and I can’t. Go with faith, you faith shopper. The Jews own you because they sell faith best.
Dude…you said:
“If you good Christians have those goods, let’s see them. In such case, could those figures be made up? Nah”.
Just backing up my talk…with proof of the 3:16 story.
Do with it what you will Doug
Pretty amazing huh.
pearls before swine, mark. will turn on you, trampling.
C’mon, don’t you want to spend eternity with all the conversos?
She’s Coloured. Racial suicide either way.
Mant times I’ve had this conversation with my daughter…
“You and I talk often about what to look for in a young man, both good and bad. There is a father & son out there having the same conversation. That dad is hoping his son meets you, he just doesn’t know you by name yet”
I see so many trainwrecks in the making among her peers that I am very glad to be older and happily married. I do not envy the young people. Looks eventually fade but a good heart is forever.
If you marry an American woman you are a masochist.
A Canadian band came to that very same conclusion a little over 53 years ago.
Can you Guess Who?
Edit: Dammit! B-MC beat me to it by 8 minutes. I should have scrolled all the comments😟
lol…stay away from me….
Rules for finding women:
Rule 1. Find a woman with a good income.
Rule 2. Find a woman that loves to cook and clean house.
Rule 3. Find a woman that enjoys lots of sex.
–and most importantly
Rule 4. Make sure these women NEVER meet one another.
LOL
I love the smell of misogyny in the morning: it smells like … LOSING!
Got mine from Australia. From a toffee-nosed English transplant family. So instead of a feminist I got a petty aristocrat.
I’m so glad I was a young man when girls and women wanted to drink, listen to rock and roll, and suck and fuck all the time. I plowed through hundreds in my day. The military and a life of surfing brought many young sluts my way.
Uh… congratulations?
And how many times did you need a shot for the STD’s?
“hundreds” yea right….maybe a dozen at best….nothing like a little exaggeration.
The thing I relish the most about my youth is there weren’t any cameras—unlike today
You also need a woman whose IQ mimics yours. Recommended reading – “The Curse of the High IQ” by Aaron Clarey.
He delves deeply into traps that most men fall into when considering choosing a wife. The 1st chapter covers the “Z-Score”, which gives you the % of women that match up intellectually.
AA is a rare bird fer shoor.
I’ve learned that IQ is not quite it. Wisdom, mental orientations, perspective. Having some experience with Mensa people, I can tell you low IQ is a deal breaker but high IQ is no prophylactic or guard against the deal breaker of low character or base (animal/pervert) perspective or socially normative irrationalism (religion, politics, etc.). Brain hardware and firmware design is non-negotiable. Herd gonna herd. IQ only multiplies the power of perspective.
In your last line I would substitute potential for power, good thoughts.
Intellect alone is a very imperfect tool. Like logic, intelligence is very likely to get you to the wrong conclusion with confidence.
I have a standard response to my wife of 49 years that is always on point and her dissatisfaction with nearly everything is what brought this forth “NOTHING IS EVER OK” !
She hates it BUT she is so particularly desiring perfection in all that she encounters she knows it’s true .
Making a decision on anything is akin to torture in a prison camp .
What would you like for dinner is a daily struggle, I can recommend multiple options and never is anything what she wants and an hour later when I ask what she wants she assumes I should have other ideas now LMAO BOURBON TIME
I could take her to a museum filled with the finest art in the world and she would see the dust or windows smeared and the visit is ruined !
She is intelligent and well educated however I’m convinced of a level of obsessive compulsive issues adding to her stress desiring perfection in an imperfect world !
I have compassion and even some pity because NOTHING IS EVER OK
You should probably divorce her and get a new one from the Philippines. You might be able to trade in one 70 for two 35’s. Or even three 23’s.
He’s already deep. He needs to learn where he already is and focus on himself AND female nature. This is an irreducible problem domain. Men who are emasculated or too nice or ‘socially unaware’ are repulsive the world over. Female instincts are basically all the same.
In regards to the nothing is ever ok , if she were belligerent and argumentative I’d be gone instead I play the game because she knows it’s an issue she has and I’m retired and go to my beach trailer hide away where the bourbon and beers are stoked up and there is always something to grill . Those around me who chose to be miserable I attempt to help them out and then I live my life
Women are hardwired to manipulate and torment. You need ZFG (which reminds me, where has he been?). Fitness/shit test is real. The less you care about her (or what she wants), the more she will care about you (or what you want), but within limits, on certain dimensions up to a point. If you try to solve the pretend problem (beta bait), you are digging a psychological hole for yourself. To truly not care (apathy) is very sexy to women in certain circumstances (e.g. shit test). Agree & amplify is good to use when nothing ad hoc comes to mind.
https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/11/21/she-felt-unloved/
https://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/p/red-pill-blue-pill.html
Of course, what would an older bachelor know about marriage game? I just read these interwebz. Now go, read, ingest, learn, reflect, disambiguate, analyze, think, act or whatever that catchy phrase is.
Is woman hate why your prefer the man squeeze, bruh?
I have learned from study and experience that most Christians are a thin veneer over something contemptible.
Christians are contemptable because fag Doug hates God, and won’t accept a retard telling them how stupid they are for not hating God , thus contemptable… reeeeeee
Midwits can be insufferable.
Even Heartiste, whom I have studied closely admits when pushed that his bullshit doesn’t work on all women and indeed didn’t work on the one that he married.
I don’t know that what you said about Heartiste is true or not. I do know that game/evo. psych. absolutely does work. Women know the police are bigger than any one man, but women can’t physically fuck an abstraction. They can get child support and all the beta bux from tax payers via daddy government. What does not work is exactly what the enemy wants to not work. Correlation is indicative of causality in general, not a specific conclusion, e.g. the false premise that game does not work. Most women cannot be salvaged as wife material. Most men cannot be salvaged as husband material. Enjoy the decline. If game can’t salvage a man’s marriage, marriage was probably a foolish choice for the man. If he has stated with red pill awareness, he would have arranged suitable social terms before the marriage going by her behavior and not her lip service.
Anal mouse she wants you to man up and make the decisions! This is a perfect example of a woman who wants leadership from her husband.
Try this some night— honey we’re going to xyz restaurant tonite. Do not give her a choice and see what happens. If she says no say ok I am going by myself. Grab your keys and go without saying anything else.
Google married red pill. Use what works and discard the rest.
Me: “Honey, get up! We’re going to the strip club!”
A female DTF took me to a strip club and paid for my entrance fee, all for a fitness test. Some women (even wives) would actually go.
I’ve heard it said that marriage is nothing more than two people asking each other what they want for dinner until one of them dies.
“Marriage, n: the state or condition of a community consisting of a master, a mistress, and two slaves, making in all, two.”
~ Ambrose Bierce
“Love: A temporary insanity curable by marriage.” ~ Ambrose Bierce
“When two people are under the influence of the most violent, most insane, most delusive, and most transient of passions, they are required to swear that they will remain in that excited, abnormal, and exhausting condition continuously until death do them part.”
~ George Bernard Shaw
“Marriage is an alliance entered into by a man who can’t sleep with the window shut, and a woman who can’t sleep with the window open.” ~ George Bernard Shaw
“A man in love is incomplete until he has married. Then he’s finished.” ~ Zsa Zsa Gabor
“I am a marvelous housekeeper. Every time I leave a man I keep his house.” ~ Zsa Zsa Gabor
“By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.” ~ Socrates
I’ll report a double edged sword, having seen a couple recent dynamics play out.
1. I’m in a position of having witnessed a good number of young hetero couples marrying, and ultimately having children, courageously I might add, into a world fraught with challenges and danger.
But, they march onward, refusing to let fear be an obstacle, using support of traditional family values.
2. Two such young men met, and fell in love with beautiful ME young women, only to procreate, then deal with vindictive women where divorce became the result.
So, in that, a foreign culture spouse isn’t always a lock for happily ever after.
In being a witness at recent marriages, the outliers still present examples of the progressive types, such as homosexual couples attending the celebration as guests, and of course, mixed race couples.
An interesting dynamic is seeing some lesbian couples both being visually attractive women, but others where one plays the butch role, in pseudo-male side of the happy couple. Those parings routinely project an attitude of cold shoulders toward traditional males that is too obvious.
But in male homosexual couples, the obvious ones have one or both ‘men’ presenting effeminate personalities out in public, comfortable enough that most of society has accepted them being out of the closet, and free to be light in their loafers.
The objectionists who are disgusted by such, for the most part, keep their thoughts and actions in check, at social and wedding events, where tolerance is expected.
In other venues, maybe not so safe to play respect the queer.
The feminist movement and the transgender movement is growing, but their proponents fail to see that they’re pushing the envelope too far, on what is deemed acceptable behavior, especially toward younger kids, which is where the line should be drawn. Recruitment and stalking seems to be the goal for far too many of the modern push, and for that, they deserve any and all vitriol they receive.
Will it all come to a head one day? Signs have emerged that there will be no reconciliation, and in some instances still, violence is a very real possibility, in yet another example of battle lines being drawn.
One expects we haven’t seen the last of the victims of violence, on this topic, and on other battlefields. Noteworthy that doxxing is a weapon of the progressives, exclusively.
Intolerance can get ugly at times.
From a personal standpoint, feminism was ultimately the true cause of ending a relationship that had lasted close to 3 decades. 180 degree opposite stances, on far too many cultural issues was realized.
Life goes on for both parties involved. Shame it took that long to recognize lost years of appeal. Guilty.
Great article submittal, Mary Christine, if you are the writer, especially. Kudos.
It came from Zerohedge. I have one on feminism I wrote for TBP several years ago.
feminism is just one more divide and conquer strategy from the marxists
A very long engagement is the best revealer of the future personality of a wife, also, take a good look at her parents, if her Mom is a shrew, she will be too.
A camping trip is a helpful assessment tool.
America has been a matriarchy for many decades already. The (endless) ‘rights’ of females long ago surpassed any phantom ‘male privilege’.
Feminism is a death cult and both the elites and Anglo women are obsessed with shoving it down the throat of every nation on Earth, now that they have already conquered America, Canada, Britain, Australia, and so many other countries.
I left the U.S. years ago due largely to its totalitarian feminist culture, including false accusations and false imprisonment. I have been treated with respect in my adopted nation, one which still mostly embraces traditional values. Flee from the nations of Bitchdom while you still can!
I read the article but cannot determine what makes the marriage different to insulate the man from divorce laws. If the marriage occurs overseas, when you move back and live as man and wife, the US will consider it a legal marriage, right?
The idea is to stay in her country and live happily ever after.
Definitely wife material here: Stop looking at my nude pictures I only shared with a one night stand….reeeeee
https://nypost.com/2023/09/11/nj-teacher-who-posted-ex-students-nude-pics-hired-by-another-school-report/
One overlooked thing I never hear mentioned is all true marriages are guided by the holy spirit. If the holy spirit did not guide you to your mate, you probably married the wrong one. I had a series of spiritual experiences that led me to my Taiwanese wife. Among them were dreams, waking dreams, and intuition. When I met her the inner voice said that’s your wife. I was what? It turned out we were very compatible, and things worked out just as my dreams foretold.
Blasphemy.
Loved this article. I love the stories about American black women going overseas thinking they will get a rich husband, or course someone will want me! Only to find out no one wants them!. Even better when they think they’ll unloose a ghetto tirade showing them their version of a “strong, independent woman! Lol!😂
I was bound and determined not to get married in my 20’s…saw many make the mistake of going from their mothers to their wives…with hardly any time in-between to live out some dreams, adventures, fantasies, and experience a wide assortment of women. (The last one I had always wanted to do since my first Playboy centerfold…and I did).
Life is juicy sweet…and the sweetest juice…oh well…you know.
But alas…at 27 I had met my Waterloo…and she still has the hips, lips, breasts, and bright blue eyes that captured me and ended my wild and wooly romp…racking up the ahhhhhh…memories of the mammaries.
But, what has held me to her side is not the hips, lips, breasts etc. etc. etc. (although that helps) it is her complete and total lack of guile…she is truly guileless…a rare quality…and the plaque she has hung in every kitchen we have shared for 46 years that her traditional West Texas county grandmother gave her upon our union…that she never forgot to live up to:
KISS’IN DON’T LAST BUT COOK’IN DO!
(Man that woman can COOK! And she is not bad in the Kitchen either.)
If I was a young man today I wouldn’t get a passport…I would go rural…and traditional…and find a woman who actually thinks and feels COOKING IS FUN!
Just remember she is a Crock Pot and you are a Micro Wave…timing is everything…so take your time.
You and I were lucky, Mark. Like I said, a happy marriage is a blessing. It helps a lot when it is Christ centered.
Mary…we didn’t do that until our 16th year…I wouldn’t let Him come in…when I finally opened the door…it was in the nick of time…
Nick of time is better than never😉
Yeah, there is one here who is urgently in need of an on-the-road-to-Damascus moment, and scales over it’s eyes to obscure the reality of its own imagination, deemed superior, with all manner of mocking those with more experience. Sad, really to watch as the yells get louder. Best ignored. Irrelevant.
Maybe a higher power will see fit to bury it alive. Face down. Then upon scratching & clawing to escape the hole it doug for itself, it’ll only go deeper.
Under the smelly veneer, you are disgusting. It’s all a matter of what narrative you want to spin for your earthly herd treasure.
Gregory of Tours, History of the Franks:
It’s the fulfillment of John 21:22 (KJV): “Jesus saith unto him, If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that to thee? follow thou me.”
Do you wish me to be in good company, good anonymous Christian? How utterly Christian of you. 🤣🤣🤣
How were there any good people in the world before Jesus? You are so wonderful.
You don’t even understand the words you posted, because they are about things you do not know.
You mean Christian gibberish only makes sense when said by a Christian? Yes, that’s what you mean. How can I respect Christians as psychologically abusive, inveterate liars of Jewish world conquest? You only care about the earthly herd power. You got yours, and herd social norms make you feel comfortable. I hope you Christians loose the comfort of your faith. By (((design))), it is meant to eventually happen, and you subhumans are greasing the skids.
Sounds like my wife……and she’s in her sixties……particularly the oppressor/provider dichotomy……and in be meantime contemptuous……..sad really,blind to life and living it…….
I think this phenomenon is mostly click-bait. Whatever number of men may be actually doing this, it’s not significant enough to actually make a difference on the national scale. It’s more just meant to give feminists the middle finger.
The far greater issue to women is how men are not going to college in the same numbers as women….not measuring up to the contemporary woman’s inflated expectations. Women don’t date or marry ‘down’ and with so many ‘boss bitches’, their dating pool continues to shrink. So, you get bitter women and angry incel men.
This doesn’t even scratch the surface of the unacceptable, (to men) biased legal contract of modern marriage.
If your dog is barking at the back door and your wife is yelling at the front door, who do you let in first?
The dog of course … at least he’ll shut up after you let him in
Plus, the dog loves you.
A man inserted an advertisement in the classifieds “Wife Wanted”.
The next day, he received hundreds of replies, all reading the same thing: “You can have mine.”
A businessman enters a tavern, sits down at the bar, and orders a double martini on the rocks.
After he finishes the drink, he peeks inside his shirt pocket, then orders another double martini.
After he finishes that it, he again peeks inside his shirt pocket and orders another one.
The bartender says: “Look, buddy, I’ll bring you martini’s all night long – but you got to tell me why you look inside your shirt pocket before you order a refill.”
The customer replies: “I’m peeking at a photo of my wife. When she starts to look good, I will know it’s time to go home!”
Husband: Will you marry after I die?
Wife: No, I will live with my sister. Will you marry after I die?
Husband: No, I will also live with your sister.
“Feminists Are Outraged” Ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!! Who gives a FUCK!?
My wife told me to go and get something that would make her look sexy.
So I got drunk
Rule #One for seeking a good woman:
1. Be a good man.
The logic being, if you do find a good woman, but are a bad man, you might ultimately end up with a bad woman.
It seems logical.
Be a good man for it’s own sake.
The problem arises in the question: what are the rules for a ‘good’ woman?
Feminism, which is now ubiquitous and codified into law, advocates that women are only ‘free’ when unbound by all rules/responsibilities.
Feminists, who do not want to marry, are mad because some men want to marry?
#My balls, My choice.
Hee hee! I figured this post would get a lot of comments. Such fun, riling up the TBP community! Well I had my fun for the day. See ya tomorrow😉
Well played, MC. Well played.
The term “American” and “woman” no longer go together. You can have one or the other.
Mary- I can only add that the Amish have no problem finding traditional wives, THEY DON’T HAVE TV.
They don’t have Covid either, same reason. Perhaps TV is our problem.
I have been saying that for years and people nod and smile and then watch TV.
I love my husband. He loves me. Everything we do is joint. We make love in every way a couple should. We are very happy.
I would gladly die for him or my family. I pray I die before he does because I don’t want to live without him. I am a very modern woman and for many years, i made more than my hubby. So what ? We share. Everything. All feminist women are not angry twats looking for some man to destroy. Some of us meant what we said: treat us as equals !
Feminists are outraged.
But you repeat yourself.
Deep, dark, dank issues.
Way to light ‘em up.