Adorable kid. Wonderful neighbors. Some semblance of humanity still resides in America. Looking forward to the comments!
I was bullied often and long as a kid. Not kidding. I will say this; I hate bullies almost as much as I hate anything else in life. If it were up to me I would beat the ever loving shit out of a kid (boy or girl) who bullies another kid. And this should be done the very first time a kid engages in bullying. You got to nip it in the bud. Trust me, using violence to change behavior works! You people who would rather “spare the rod” and use diplomacy are nothing but a bunch of weenie retards. Grow some fucken gonads. If the child continues to bully others then increase the severity and duration of the beatings. Eventually that evil little fucker will get the picture.
Sorry for the language but bullying is a real hot-button for me. Anyway, enjoy the short video.
THE END
It was nice that they decided to follow-up and connect with the boy and his mother. But, why was a go fund me set up for him? Was it to buy friends? /s. Was it to send him some cash for the bullying incident and because he had the guts to plead his case on a strangers door?
Advice for the kid and his mom; stop eating fast food takeout and drop some weight. Get healthy young man and the bullying will stop too. Better yet, go to a gym with some of that money and beef up and kick some butts and the bullying will stop.
BTW, Stucky, I was picked on a bit too. I was never fat (kids weren’t in the 60’s) but, I was skinny and a bit nerdy so, I was ripe for the bullies. They have always been around, and they always will.
Put the kid in martial arts training. He’ll learn discipline, self respect and start to carry himself in a manner that will ward off bullies. He may even lose some weight.
Exactly…
Better yet…try NOT running the father out of his child’s life! This is what you GET when a woman raises a child alone…another bonus hole. If that kid doesn’t grow up to be a child molesting faggot it will be a miracle.
So thank God that someone picked up the ball on this one. But for every one you see there are thousands more not getting the attention they need.
What I read elsewhere, which part of your query suggests, was seeming to buy some friends indirectly. It also mentioned buying a video game set, which honestly is about the last fuckin thing this kid needs; any kid for that matter. The weekly Good Ol Days that’s on this site reflects a better quality of life when we were all outside and the majority of our parents had no idea what we were actually up to and didn’t care, so long as it didn’t involve the police. What this kid needs more than anything, in my opinion, is an understanding and caring martial arts teacher who will build his character while teaching him how to defend himself. He also ‘seems’ to need a manly father figure at home so he can learn how to one day be a man. If someone doesn’t step in, he’s one day gonna grab a firearm and be the next school shooter, thus damaging even more families and lives. A lot of us were bullied. Sometimes, because it was a different era, our parents stepped in, talked with school administrators, and got it fixed. I still have some scars to this day, but trust me when I say no one bullies me other than my wife, because there are only two outcomes, a lengthy hospital stay or my wife gets a new flower garden.
I’m right there with you Stucky. Bullies suck for sure.
Bullies run the world. If only they were punished as kids……
Some likely were over-punished (abused) and shit rolls downhill. They find a smaller defenseless person who they can dominate.
Mostly our leaders are physical weaklings who may have been “bullied” as kids, and are getting revenge on regular people…
Wrong. Joe Biden was a real man as a kid. He stood up to the mythical Popcorn Fart.
We all gotta do what we all gotta do. So here’s to you for all you do. Kudos.
Kinda looks like Ring needs good publicity after that guy got shut out of his own place because ‘racism’.
But I agree. The only thing I would say is it is better if a victim beats on a bully for both of their sakes, not an adult. I only ever got bullied more than once where teachers or adults were around to protect the bully. If you were taught fighting doesn’t solve problems, then that will be everywhere, not just at school. And you gotta teach boys how to fight dirty if it’s bigger, older kids.
This is how you end that shit.
Age restricted
If you don’t have an account. I’m not sure why it’s doing that exactly. A quick synopsis; little skinny kid who is somehow a bully in what looks like an Aussie Middle school has been bullying a bit overweight kid at this school. A few people are gathered around watching this little asshole show off for his buddies and a few girls who probably couldn’t give a shit. Little kid is posturing and acting like he’s gonna punch the larger both in height and weight kid. I guess either this larger victim kid has had enough or dad has coached him up or maybe both. But suddenly the larger kid just picks this little bitch up, lifts him up almost over his head and slams him to the pavement. After a moment he turns and walks off and this skinny ex-bully can hardly walk off. I don’t know if he had some neurological damage, physical damage or maybe both. But if you have an account with YouTube and are an adult, you should have zero problem following the link to YouTube to watch. I’m gonna try and post it from another source which may show up without the need to follow to YouTube. Try this: https://video.search.yahoo.com/video/play;_ylt=AwrEnPbH9bBkMx4Hy2b7w8QF;_ylu=c2VjA3NyBHNsawN2aWQEZ3BvcwM4?p=skinny+little+aussie+kid+bullies+larger+kid+and+gets+body+slammed.+regrets+it&vid=4b2f3ec65b657f33104744d364c5eac3&turl=https%3A%2F%2Ftse3.mm.bing.net%2Fth%3Fid%3DOVP.swBx0_uimlMSxHL4z9zlgwFADw%26pid%3DApi%26h%3D240%26w%3D320%26c%3D7%26rs%3D1&rurl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinkbike.com%2Fvideo%2F186158%2F&tit=Bully+%3Cb%3Egets%3C%2Fb%3E+rocked+by+big+%3Cb%3Ekid%3C%2Fb%3E%21&c=7&sigr=XqfOm9QqDCBM&sigt=MqP_vc3UwW6t&sigi=LqBx41fH.FTa&fr=p%3As%2Cv%3Av&h=240&w=320&l=42&age=1300154760&fr=yfp-t&tt=b
I don’t sign in because it is about being intrusive and nosy, not worrying about age-appropriateness.
The link worked though. A prime example of how everyone learns there are weight classes for a reason.
Not signing in, unless you’re using a VPN, which in some cases still doesn’t help, still gives Google your ISP address. Sometimes I don’t sign in either, but as I said, they still know who you are.
I’ll bet the kid that got slammed never went back to get revenge.
I agree with you. People used to think bullies were that was because they had low self esteem, but studies have shown the opposite- their self esteem is off the charts. A beat down puts that back into place. I’ve dealt with several in my life, including one brother and my grandmother. I’d consider some of the people I work with to be bullies too. They don’t sit well with me.
In our day, this stuff was settled on the playground, which is where it belongs…Sniveling cowards are a pox on America…
Want to know everything about bullies? Binge watch Yellowstone.
Season two, episode 10 will help you see clearly.
“No one ever fought back! Oh God, not on the toilet. Don’t let me die on the toilet!”
Lights out, bitch.
Orange Bully signed executive orders that allowed the Pentagon bullies [read Darpa/Fort Detrick/CIA]
to poison you & yours via immunology.
Uncle Scumbag-bully has been bullying folks for centuries.
I agree that bullies are complete cowards not unlike Orange effin’ Bully
who was bullied by his mentally disturbed father who pitted his sons
against one another because he was a Psychopath that got his rocks off
on watching his mentally disturbed sons attempt to undermine each other
as they were growing up in New York shitty.
It’s always best to challenge bullies so that they learn quickly that they
are cowardly and that’s why they bully others they want to control.
Orange Bully wants to control you via bullying via politics.
Vote harder next time.
p.s. Even Chris Christie characterized Orange Jerkoff as a ‘coward’, eh.
MOU
You’re using a statement from the Pillsbury Dough Boy who has a gay man crush on Brucie Springsteen? Seriously? Christie is a POS liberal in a sad disguise. He’s not even good at pretending. It’s fine not to like Trump, you wouldn’t be alone there, but you sound like a hard core libtard. So walks like a duck, talks like a dick, must be a libtard.
Also, I’m pretty sure Springsteen is a midget.
Certainly, can’t sing. I’m not anonymous, It’s Caitlyn Jenner’s testicles. I had an oopsie.
Springsteen did a few excellent tunes. I’m an old
Punk Rock drummer so I’d know if he was a good
musician or not. He can write songs and play guitar.
His singing is not very good, but his writing for songs
is.
Bob Dylan can’t sing worth a damn either, eh. I love
his style anyways given he’s a classic bard as is Springsteen.
Shania Twain can’t sing worth a damn either, but she looks
good on camera.
Taylor Swift can’t sing and she makes $13 million per gig.
Joey Ramone could sing.
Aretha Franklin was the best of the best of singers.
MOU
Springsteen’s biggest hit wasn’t even performed by him. None other than Manfred Mann made a hit out of one of Springsteen’s obscure tracks. While you’re naming other vocalists, all music just like all art is subjective. We can trash performers which I’m doing, but when it comes to any art, if you like it, it’s good. That does not change who Chris Christie is. And still if you don’t like Trump, you aren’t required to. I’m sure he’d be torn up to know that. And all the people you named have more money than I’ll ever have short of winning a billion-dollar Powerball lottery. But you can see by how many downvotes you got for your remark, what the consensus is on it. This can be a friendly crowd, or a tough crowd and you never can be sure what the results of what you say here will garner. But your comment whether you intended it that way or not reads Biden voter or at least entrenched liberal. I think most on this site are conservative. Some seem middle of the road and call balls and strikes. Personally, Trump doesn’t even need to campaign for me to vote for him again. I saw what he did last time and that’s enough for me. I have a very good idea who DeSantis is by his associations. No one else on the right really has a chance against those two. I’d say RFK Jr. has the best shot against Trump, but I guess we’ll see.
I didn’t downvote you by the way, in either comment. But we obviously see some things differently.
I’m a Canuck living in Canuckistan, man. I’m not a Liberal.
I’m farther left than that given I am a New Democratic Party supporter
and Jagmeet Singh is the federal leader of that party. I used to be
a Liberal when Trudeau was ushered in via legalization of marijuana.
I used to be a Progressive Conservative adherent, too. Unfortunately,
I didn’t learn much being a Conservative so I switched over to the
Liberal Party and then Trudeau fired two female cabinet ministers so
I joined the NDP out of spite.
I’m a Marxist from way back. And I’m very familiar with downvotes
from Conservative adherents as I come from Zero Hedge originally.
The Tyler(s) always boot me off ZH when election time hits. They
know I hate Orange Tard-Psychopath.
He’s a full fledged bully/coward.
I migrated over to TBP because I respect Quinn’s writing.
MOU
When young Shania Twain could just stand on stage and I would think she could sing.
springsteen is a big guy,both height & weight —
he used to be very skinny –he was having an affair w/ a woman at his gym & her hubsand got wind of it & showed up there one day as bruce was walking out & beat the hell out of him ,so he began working out so as to gain weight & get much stronger–
Where is the boy’s father? He needs a strong father, or father-figure, more than he needs a friend. A good father can teach him how to defend himself. Standing up to the bully physically and mentally will improve his confidence and self-respect, such that he would attract friends automatically. Even if he technically loses the fight, the boy can make the bully pay a price, so to say, by
returning a few well-placed strikes.
Not all bullies are irredeemable. Sometimes a bully will learn a lesson, and gain respect for a guy he picked on that fought back, especially if neither of the boys tattle-tales to an authority figure about the fight.
The mother’s repulsive weight shows lack of respect for the boy’s father. And the father’s absence from the boy’s life might be evidence of the father’s weakness.
This is why I suggested martial arts training. For kids who have no father in their lives, the usually alpha male sensei may be the only decent male role model they encounter, and is someone who can have profoundly positive effect on their current and future lives.
Or weight lifting is good…strength gives confidence…
Dunno. Kid is nice and all but as most these days he has a low maturity level. Sure we got bullied back then, but it was a rite of passage. You catch a bully away from his peer group, and it becomes a different story. I dealt with one when I was a scrawny and in the 9th grade. I eventually befriended a scrappy guy from across the tracks that the bully wanted no part of. About 3 or so years later had caught up in size and confronted him with a bottle in my hand. He knew that bottle was about to come against his head if he got sideways.
What happened to good old fashioned schoolyard fist-fights? Yes, I do believe violence is the answer in most cases.
That said, the nurturing side of me just wants to hug this little boy. He is precious. However, bullying is part of life. It will never end. Even groups of animals in the wild partake in bullying.
Mommas…stop raising your boys to be wimps. Teach them to stand up for themselves & others. Otherwise, we get a culture of beta men who get the jab (among other things) and can’t stand up to anyone when it really matters.
Oh, and was I ever bullied? Yes, it began in 2020 when libtard women tried to run my life. How did I handle it? I told them all to fuck off.
Oh, another thing, something tells me this little boy is going to cringe when he grows up and realizes how the adults turned this video in to the media and made a spectacle out of him.
I think the guy that.bullied me is probably dead by now.
Looked up school yearbooks and saw nothing of the loser after sophomore high school. Be ause I had time to kill.
I’m mad at myself for not giving this fuck the Ralphie Treatment.
Seems you live in the past. Hence it is still bothering you. Lots of circumspection dealing with a dead nemesis that makes no fucking logical sense. Go piss on his grave if it matters that much,
Cut him some slack. We all have pasts that sometimes visit us again in dreams or, on any given day. All of us could name should have/could have moments in our lives. It does not mean he is living in the past.
I don’t think I ever lasted 10 minutes before I paid them back.
A woman saying the answer is fighting. What a load of shit. If you have never been punched in the face and left bleeding with loose or missing teeth, what say you shut your trap, and go back to the kitchen and make real men some sandwiches.
Sounds like you need some self-defense training.
Personally, I was taught & raised by the best, so nope, I’m not in danger of a bloody face or losing teeth. My FATHER made sure his kids would not be victims.
Stop the crying. It’s embarrassing.
If you fight, you get hurt. And you get punched in the face. No one is immune. Only an ignorant bimbo would claim otherwise, and your father didn’t teach you anything if you think he taught you well enough that you won’t get hurt in a fight.
Go fetch my beer and sandwich, and leave discussion of manly things to men. Because you have no idea what you are talking about.
Oh noes! You might get a boo boo! Poor baby.
Here, have a band-aid to put over where that mean ol’ bully touched you.
Reminds me of the this scene in “Bad Santa”
https://youtu.be/NRqren2hPj0?t=112
Before he was Jayne or Animal Mother.
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0081207/
The kid does need some mentoring. To look at him and his mannerisms, it is pretty clear why he is a target. Fat little guy with a weird t-shirt, asking strangers for friendship. Good that he has the balls to start, so it shows some potential. But the world is a hard place, and it is harder for guys.
I certainly hope he can find some sort of role model and does not get too much sympathy and “love as he is.” Otherwise he’ll always be bullied and will grow up to be an abusive cop.
“Asking” for friendship is pathetic, and no one wants to be associated with that…10-1 this is a Momma’s boy, which every kid despises…
Purryhus you should go kick his ass and teach him a lesson.
Oh wait my dead mother could kick your ass.
Grow some fucken gonads.
So, keypad warrior bullies differs from a physical, personal interaction bully how?
Similarly, Don’t be such a sensitive, thin skinned pussy to verbal criticism or rejection.
Well, maybe there’s an explanation for that, which the critic might be totally unaware of.
Getting a flood of memories and lessons learned, both from the recent past and way back further.
Christ loathed hypocrites, and deservedly so. Probably because they so frequently exhibit double standards. Specks in our brother’s eye, while noticing not the beam in thy own.
As we judge others, we will also be judged, and other wise admonitions.
It’s not ok to rip someone a new one, then whine about rejection and hurt when karma’s boomerang comes around full circle and never fails to deliver its justified blow.
Having struggled with hypocrisy, an adage comes to mind.
“The lessons will be repeated, until they are learned and remembered in active practice.”
This topic offers a deep psych dive into the how and why people are the way they are.
Based on the following:
-early youth, especially with troubling, traumatic experiences; …can have long lasting effects.
-parental guidance or the lack thereof, including the building up of self esteem and courage;
-likewise, if an older sibling is there to guide us, if fortunate enough to have such a mentor;
-societal, and media projections that have been absorbed as acceptable behavior toward others;
-violence is a dark, hypnotic thing that grabs attention…people who thrive on it for abusive power,
and people who get nauseated and squeamish when confronted with it, even if forced to face it.
-attempts at humor, in media and now used inter-personally, can be used in vicious ways to dispense mockery, criticism and shaming. It is a cause that has an effect. Guilty as charged, sometimes.
I got bullied too. Being of small stature, it had long lasting effects of being intimidated.
Also took a lot of verbal abuse from many sources. Power hungry egos are narcissistic with such.
A mild form of sadism I dare say.
Pops was a critical, mean bastard with words when drunk. Rarely, but memorable.
He also never taught us how to fight and stand up in the face of bullies.
Guess he thought it was instinctive. It wasn’t, for some. But, I harbor no grudges against him.
He did the best he knew how with what he had, and his love, guidance, and provisions far outweighed
those shortcomings as a tutor. I miss him dearly, and lost him too young in life. I was just 24.
It’s easy to be critical and judgmental and mean to strangers, but Christ said “No.”
When it’s with a known associate, then it cuts like a knife. Especially on the receiving end of it.
Wounds heal; scars can remain as a reminder, making those experiences tough to forget for some.
Memories. We’d all do well to remember the good, and forget the bad ones.
Easier said than done, for most.
Nevertheless, walking around with a chip on our shoulder, or grinding an axe for past hurts,
and exhuming old skeletons and dragging them around like a rotting corpse is no way to live.
People such as those are to be avoided, for good reason. Volatile. Toxic. Bitter. Mean.
Perhaps it’s why at this stage of the game, I’ve become a big believer in this:
-empathy, encouragement, inspiration, and authentic compliments bring light to the darkness.
Eye to eye contact, genuinely inquiring to people we interact with, How you doing today?
will tell people they matter. A smile while doing so breaks the ice, during cold, non-personal day to day encounters. Try it. Especially if relying on a stranger to serve you in some capacity. It works magic.
Of course that’s easy to do with friends and family. But,
Try it with a family member you’ve been at odds with for years.
Not so easy then, is it. Somebody has to break the cycle of negativity. Difficult, yet true.
I’ll close with a quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer that I like and have adopted.
“Choose to align yourself with people who are like-minded in their search for simplified inspiration.
Give those who find fault or who are confrontational a silent blessing and remove yourself from their energy as quickly as possible. Your life is simplified enormously when you don’t have to defend yourself to anyone, and when you receive support, rather than criticism.”
You’ve written a fine essay. There are pearls of wisdom in abundance penned here.
I certainly wouldn’t know, myself due to my lack of reading comprehension. I think you’ll be my target the rest of the day.
Maybe because I’ve only had one cup of coffee but, huh?
That’s for @T4C ^
No…Kids need to learn to stand up for themselves, and most “bullying” in schools is just verbal criticism, however unfair…The worst thing that could happen to a kid when I was young was to have his mother defending him..If the kid is getting physically hurt in a significant way, that’s different, and the school or the parents can step in…
Teach your kids to defend themselves, and to treat criticism or name calling with disdain, not react to it…
Teach kids that verbal bullying deserves a punch in the nose. Kids can’t ignore that without it affecting them.
One part of childhood we seldom if ever see commented on is the vast difference in size and strength between an average set of kids. On average most sixth graders can win a fight with most fifth graders. What chance does an average fifth grader have against an average eighth grader? Close to nil. How about a second grader and a twelfth grader. Just crazy!
We adults are lucky that we don’t live in a world where there are a lot of twelve foot people walking around. But that’s everyday reality for every kid.
Just putting it out there.
Notice how many bigger, stronger types look down upon smaller, weaker ones with contempt. Superiority complex based on judgmental size comparisons. In reality, many of the the bigger ones using intimidation are in fact mentally the weaker, smaller man. Maybe not in a fist fight or wrestling match, but, catch the drift. Even Goliaths expose kinks in their flawed armor. Knees are a weak spot during battles.
Humbleness is a foreign concept to many.
A fine line exists, separating confidence from arrogance, and many cross it.
Then, there are the small ones with Napoleon complexes, who abuse power, too.
Tim McGraw, really? No matter the topic, short of CrossFit, I wouldn’t cite him as an example of anything.
message, not the messenger
It isn’t the size of the kid in the fight, but the size of the fight in the kid. Bullies don’t want to fight, they want to give out beatings. No matter how big, no matter if you get beat, you have to stand up to them. Even if they are 12 feet tall. Even if they are years older. That is the only answer.
One thing that unfortunately still holds true to a degree. Someone becoming aggressive before I expect it, can catch me off-guard, thus putting me in a weaker position. There are other days, or shall I say were other days, where I walked around looking for someone to just say one wrong thing. To a small degree, that’s still inside me. But as most of us did, I suffered my share of being bullied, most of it as pointed out was name calling and other harmless stuff at least physically, but that leaves scars too. It made me much tougher mentally. I made myself much tougher physically.
Make Bullying Great Again!
It’s not rocket surgery. More bullying = less fags and weirdos.
Oh, and bring back the cane too. Six of the best used to nip a lot of problems in the bud. Now they’re allowed to fester to such a degree that we now live in Clownworld.
‘..I always said he’d come to no good in the end, your honour
If they’d let me have my way, I could have flayed him into shape
But my hands were tied, the bleeding hearts and artists
Let him get away with murder, let me hammer him today..’
Be careful you don’t become the monsters you are hunting. God bless brother.
..
If people took all the misguided love they give to dogs and instead gave it to humans like this decent kid we would change the world in one month.
Fuck you, dog hater!
meow.
This makes me think about why we seem to be losing the war. All said about bullies is true. However the war on us is psychological (and very sophisticated). It has to be fought that way. The fists and guns may come, but at that point almost all is lost anyway.
It’s despicable and unmanly, plus totally un- honorable. It’s time now to search out ways to defeat them in their own game. To be strategic and devious (which is distasteful to most real men).
I’ve been looking at the situation that way and think HSF’s way is the best. I would add to Not Consent and talk about this to others etc. How many of the so called alt news people give any real tactics?
You may fight a schoolyard bully but will you put on a mask to keep your job? Taking multiple, fake, humiliating Covid tests?
Okay we were taken by surprise and some went along with it, but have you tried to situate yourself so that you won’t have to be bullied when the next thing comes down?
And it will.
First things first, he needs a positive male role model in his life to get his ass in shape and give him some self-confidence. Then some Judo and Jiu-Jitsu with some boxing.
I absolutely despise bullies and went out of my way as a kid in junior and senior high to pick fights with them. I did not give a single shit about me being half their size or whatever other shit came up. I had anger issues as a kid and I figured it was better to take it out on shit heads than it was on other kids going through the same shit in spite of bullies likely being more emotionally damaged then the kids that get bullied. So fuck them.
To this day I make it a point to get into the bullies’ faces no matter where I am be it work or public. Some people just need to get punched in the grill as you cannot reason with them.
Fortunately, most people that are bullies tend to back down the second you confront them. For the special few that dont, well, make sure you throat punch them first and take the piss out of them.
It is easy to pick on the weaklings when someone or some group is stronger, but cousins, let me tell you this: when you make yourself a hard target they always think twice before even entertaining fucking with you.
ZFG, out.
P.S. the biggest bullies on the American block are the gubmint. Their punch is probably coming soon enough I reckon.