BETTER MAN

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The Political Nagging Of “Check Yo Privilege”

I was recently scrolling down my Facebook feed when I saw this gem of a “motivational” and “inspirational” style poster of political correctness. I initially shook my head and continued scrolling down my feed. But something triggered a rant in my head and I couldn’t let it go.

When I ignore something because “it’s not a problem to me personally” it’s not because I was raised with privilege. On the contrary, I was raised to mind my own business in regards to problems that didn’t affect me personally.

As a child I was constantly reprimanded for butting into other people’s business. I was constantly told “adults are talking” or “go to your room” when serious issues were being discussed. I was taught not to interject my opinion into conversations that were none of my business.

This is how the world used to work until my generation of special snowflakes came along and we became a child-centered culture. Past generations of children would get into trouble by their parents for ease dropping, back talking, or tattling on others. But we’ve culturally turned our backs on the virtues of “minding your own business” and “holding your tongue”.

The Decade Of Awareness Campaigns

Growing up in the 90’s I was constantly bombarded with “awareness” campaigns. From Nancy Reagan’s “Just Say No” to “The More You Know” commercials. I was aware “this is your brain on drugs…” cue to actress frying an egg in a pan and then smashing up her kitchen with the same pan after saying “… and this is what drugs does to your family”.

After school programs always had the moral lessons of drugs or gun violence. There was always a scene of the targeted friend of the group with the “I’m unsure” facial expression as the bad kids peer pressured them into doing the bad thing feature in the episode.

MTV was also full blown “awareness” in their music videos often depicted as “art”. We got to see TLC warn against unsafe sex and AIDS/HIV in their “Waterfalls” video and pin condoms onto their clothes as a statement. In Pearl Jam’s video “Jeremy” highlighted teenage bullying, gun violence, and suicide. Some would conclude from my sample selection that living in the 1990’s was a bummer with an over abundance of moral lessons.

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SIRENS

Hear the sirens
Hear the sirens

Hear the sirens
Hear the circus so profound
I hear the sirens
More and more in this here town

Let me catch my breath to breathe and reach across the bed
Just to know we’re safe, I am a grateful man
The slightest bit of light and I can see you clear

Have to take your hand, and feel your breath
For fear this someday will be over
I pull you close, so much to lose
Knowing that nothing lasts forever

I didn’t care, before you were here
I danced in laughter with the everafter
But all things change
Let this remain

Hear the sirens
Covering distance in the night
The sound echoing closer
Will they come for me next time?

For every choice mistake I’ve made
It’s not my plan
To send you in the arms of another man
And if you choose to stay I’ll wait I’ll understand

It’s a fragile thing
This life we lead
If I think too much I can get over
Whelmed by the grace
By which we live our lives
With death over our shoulders

Want you to know
That should I go
I always loved you
Held you high above, true

I study your face
The fear goes away

It’s a fragile thing
This life we lead
If I think too much I can get over
Whelmed by the grace
By which we live our lives
With death over our shoulders

Want you to know
That should I go
I always loved you
Held you high above, true

I study your face
The fear goes away
The fear goes away
The fear goes away
The fear goes away